They are very different. What they really like about each other is something that they don't have themselves. Their unity is based on their contradictions. That's why they don't get each other. They have different biological tasks, different desires and goals. Their only things in common are children and mutual interest. Yes, they need each other. Their relationship is a symbiosis, they are halves taken singularly and only after finding each other they become one whole thing.
The book helps to answer the question who is who. It helps to have a look into your own soul as well as into the souls of those close to you. And it helps to understand the nature of human relationships.
Nymphs and satyrs are two metaphorical images that most accurately describe the nature of men and women. The unity of these two creates beauty both inside and outside.
The main art of love is to love so as not to turn the object of your love into an idol and idol. Idols make the lives of their slaves hell. And that, of course, is sad.
A beautiful girl has a very positive effect on a boy, motivating him to strive for perfection and strength. Girls love strong, courageous, smart and rich boys. The boy will have to work hard on himself to learn how to earn money and like the girl.
The main vulnerability of idolaters is that their idols are unstable and do not live long. The idolaters themselves kill their idols and fall out of love with them. Having lost their love, idealists cry, falling into depression and despondency.
The capacity for ritual is the capacity for love. If a woman sees that a man has dreams and he systematically implements them, then we can hope that he is able to love.
While being in a relationship learn to make pauses. Give people time to take a rest from you to miss each other. Intruding yourself or making your presence felt, you may distract, annoy or simply bore each other. There should be moderation and balance in everything.
Patterns and expectations about other people's behavior are a sin of pride. You want to control other people's behavior? Are you mad that they behave differently than you wish?
A man should behave with a woman honestly and courageously, otherwise, she will fall into fear of uncertainty and turn into a witch. Lies and uncertainty create fear in women.
What is IRL? - The quintessence of greed. Man doesn't keep his distance. His desire to control and possess is so strong that he inevitably faces rejection and rejection.
"I'm offended" will turn you into a slave. "You hurt me" will turn you into an aggressor and a slave owner. The integrity of extremes is necessary. At the same time, "I'm offended" and "you hurt me", "I'm not offended" and "you didn't hurt me".
It's not necessary and even dangerous to take off people's masks. There are monsters hidden behind them and by taking off someone's mask, you release them.
It's not necessary and even dangerous to take off people's masks. There are monsters hidden behind them and by taking off someone's mask, you release them.
Watch out for provocateurs, these people like to make a split in your relationship, destroying unity with friends and loved ones. They love to provoke you, for example, telling you are unable or weak. Or tell them that someone said something about you or your friends. Or said or did something in your heart everything turns.
If you love, serve, love is service. The easiest way to serve is to pay, you can pay with money, time, services. For example, to love the homeland is, first of all, means to pay taxes. To love God is to sacrifice for the Church. To love a woman to put her money. To love your job is to devote all your time and energy to it.
If a man torments a woman with uncertainty and fear, a woman subconsciously wants to send him to hell and leave. The point is, if she leaves and he is left without the love that is God, he will instantly fall into hell and go crazy. And if it doesn't and will not fail, therefore, love was not in it so especially it is not needed.
Sense lies: I must lie, to me be loved. A lie is a self-contempt based on the idea that there is nothing to love yourself for. If people find out the truth about me, they won't love me. In fear of losing the love of a liar always lying.
I've known many people who could never find their match... Probably they wanted someone special, but as is known it's difficult to match non-standard demands well
Often the concepts of a 'Smart woman' and a 'strong woman' are associated with unhappy family life. I think it's nonsense... Everything is always orderly arranged in a smart woman's thoughts, family and house...
People can't get along together because of stupidity rather than because of incompatibility, differences, intolerance etc like most people think...All these human little peccadillos are nothing more than the result of the poverty of intellect in the body.
If you want something to come to your life, first present sound arguments why this something should be there... After all, water does not flow uphill...
The ability to be honest and tell the truth is the ability to tell bad news. To break the news to hard, scary and requires a lot of force. It takes a lot of hard training to learn to tell the truth.
Fake love, if it is deprived of wealth, gets angry and runs away. True love, even after losing everything, will endure everything and will remain true to itself.
Man would very much like to be good, but he is too weak and stupid to have the strength to do it. Bad to be hurt bad, so bad people always suffer and have a very horrible look. However, do not be afraid of evil, evil it is very weak and only attack from fear. If it sees in you good and love, it will run up to you and will, caressing, lovingly lick hands. Give him a piece of sugar, make him happy.
An attempt to control a person is an attempt to steal freedom ...theft and enslavement. Slaves hate their masters. If you understand love as possession, the one you "love" will hate and despise.
The Oedipus complex is the desire to win love and is usually accompanied by Thanatos (the desire to kill rivals). And if the object of love is not particularly looking for this love, then Thanatos with hatred refers to the "beloved" person.