The essence of the incredible ease of being is that in order to get to hell, you need to make a great effort. Hell is full and there are no places. Moths are ready to bite each other's throats for the right to be in hell. In Paradise, on the contrary, it is free and spacious. No one needs Paradise except those who have love in them.
To accept is to let go. The excess desire is the cause of failure and resistance. Those who crave love and pleasure are doomed to lack them. Those who have accepted the small things will get everything they want and the hunger will pass.
The parable of the wheat and tares can be understood from the point of view that do not rush to be happy or afraid ahead of time. Do not rush to solve problems ahead of time, many of them will disappear by themselves. Do not rush to share an unkillable bear, ... everything changes very quickly, and it even happens that it changes many times in a row.
Before you fall in love with the illusion of feelings or are afraid of them, try to compare this situation with the movie. You're smart enough not to fall in love with movies and go crazy with horror movies, aren't you? You should treat all your other emotions in the same way.
Your chronic fatigue is due to the fact that you are fighting your fears by erecting a barrier of denial against them. Fears need not be feared, fear is a friend... it comes not to destroy, but to save from Vice and sin.
You should relax in the sense that yours comes to you easily enough, but what does not come to you, and you try to grab it by force – this is clearly someone else's. Everything superfluous is done with great difficulty. So you don't have to be afraid of anything, but just calmly do what you have to do.
Acutely feel the rules of life... You can't relax... In this life, everything is done so that we move. Once you relax, to think, "well all… ...ahead of the carelessness», right... once... out of the blue problem... Yes, this is already breathtaking. I sit and think: - again... And again one starts to think, and again you begin to fuss, and begin again to go forward... Here as well friend God has designed this reality... Even and find fault with not to what...
You are useful, you are able to do a lot of things, you are potentially useful. But the tasks and goals that you solve are insignificant and do not like you. The soul wants something more and beautiful. To attract to itself new beautiful deal, and together with him fortune and money, you should free themselves from old desires and goals. You should create a vacuum within yourself that will begin to attract new things to you. Then you just have to relax and wait until someone decides to use you for their cause.
Even when everything's going wrong, it's necessary to relax … exhale … say to oneself that such is life and keep on doing things in a relaxed way… Generally, statistics show that 90 per cent of problems and difficulties fade away on their own. And if they didn't fade away, well then it was not meant to be…
A sin of greed. You lost 100 coins but want to retrieve your losses. So you think: «if only I could win back 60 coins and finish the game». But you soon you lose 200 coins, and then 300... And then you think again: «if only I could win back 100 coins...». And finally you lose everything you have.
A sin of greed is about the inability to stop and fix loses.
A sin of cowardice. You win 100 coins and happily leave the game. And if you hadn't left, you could have won even 1000 coins. It's possible to win a lot on a lucky day so there's no need to stop before its due time. Keep swaps 15% lower than position and don't be nervous.
A sin of cowardice is about the inability to ride the wave.
A sin of hope is about dreaming a lot and thinking about wrong things. It's the process of the game that should bring joy and not illusions or dreams that will probably never come true. Relax and enjoy the process.
As is known, pain is the first symptom of a sin. And we also know that helplessness is a sin. But in order to gain power, it's necessary to feel pain, hence commit a sin. Thus, it takes another sin to conquer some sin. It's only Evil that is able to conquer Evil.
What if it's not the triumph of Evil over Evil but only Evil giving way to new Evil?
- Did I delude you? Should have I stopped a couple of lines earlier? Relax, it doesn't matter. The problem is not about evil or good but about disturbing the balance. Happiness is impossible without pain and good doesn't exist without evil. Too much of a good thing is not good. Forget the extremes and you'll be happy.
If you doubt whether you're doing something worthy but however, you want to keep on doing it. But at the same time you're full of doubts and fears - hence, the best thing you can do is relax and do what you can while philosophically contemplating what is to become of it all.
The meaning of half of Indian meditations is the removal of muscle spasm and tension arising from stress and tightness. Shaking, dancing, twitching... laugh... and relax. - Maybe we should have sex again.
It's important to set such a goal that after achieving its 80% result, it would be не стыдно было вовремя остановиться и зафиксировать прибыль.
Everything made to be more than 80% perfect, slows down this process and leads to death. Any thought going like this «well, that's all. I have done everything and now can relax and sleep a peaceful sleep» is the thought occurring a second before the end. Besides, it's also a thought leading to troubles and problems. Recollect the «last mile problem» or the fact that the final 20% of income result from 80% of your efforts.
The conclusion. Always leave some space for growth. There should always be an unrealized plan of growth. However, after having achieved 80% of growth, it's important to stop suddenly and avoid any changes or stop any progress. And it will save you from many problems.
Life in water style: relax and do your work with pleasure.
Water always finds its way. It's difficult to stop water. Water exists in the sky and deep below the ground. Water is the base for life. Water is both liquid and solid. Water is really powerful. Water always finds cracks. It's impossible to stop or eradicate water. Water is everywhere.
It's possible to philosophize over the nature of water and compare it with chaos and life. While those powers that resist it can be compared with order and death. And really, there are ways to control water and deprive it of freedom. Freezing and ice, boiling and fire, sealed reservoirs, hydraulic systems, steam engines and electric power plants. However, does it tame water? Mechanical power of ice is so great that it can easily crash stones and metals. And heating turns water into omnipresent evaporation.
One more interesting comparison. Water in its moderately-standard state remains liquid and necessary for life. And when different forces affect life, let's call them forces of chaos and order, life definitely ends but water turns either into ice or into evaporation. Its former state freezes in icy rest and the latter one goes up to the sky.