The image of the glass slipper in the fairy tale of Cinderella is a man's attempt to find a replacement for his ideal. However, the ideal illusory image is so far from real people that real women do not fit. The Prince runs from one woman to another, realizing with horror that this is not the case, and goes crazy for the escaped Cinderella.
According to the Cinderella scenario, the Prince must first be charmed with a wonderful Platonic (you can have a little sex) love for the Princess, and then run away. And let the Prince, stupefied with love, then runs, kissing her footprints in the sand... and how to find, make an offer hands and hearts.
The key moments of Cinderella's scenario are the perfect, time-limited illusion of a Princess in the first stage. In the second stage it is the preservation of distance and the accumulation of tension of unfulfilled desire. In the third stage, the ideal must be saved and captured.
The essence of eternal joy is to support the glass illusion. You should cherish their illusions, avoiding rocks and undue attention. Remember Cinderella, illusions do not live long, so at any celebration of life the most important thing is to leave in time.
In the image of Cinderella's the most important time to get away, because the perfect illusion of the Princess does not live long and you want the Prince fell in love with the ideal and have not time to give up, realizing that it is a lie. Therefore, charming the Prince, quickly, quickly run away... and then he let a long, long time running and looking for his ideal, going crazy and soaking love. For Cinderella in this scenario, the main thing to keep a distance, creating tension in the Prince. When this tension reaches its maximum, and the Prince, blinded by love, will see nothing but his illusion of an ideal, you need to quickly let him come to you... to show himself real and to gently hint that the Princess must be saved, for example, taking married.
To paraphrase the Cinderella story. The image of the perfect Princess is a lie that can be maintained for a very short time. But if the enchanted Prince falls in love with this lie, then for a long time he will run like a fool in search of his ideal love.
The Cinderella story is a story of neurosis and cognitive dissonance. The image of Cinderella can be viewed from the point of view of neurosis and the development of passionate love. The first stage is passion and love, when a perfect false image of the Princess is formed. At midnight, the illusion is shattered, the Princess disappears and the second stage of cognitive dissonance begins when Cinderella runs away in fear. Midnight is an image of sex or living together. In order not to break the illusion, try not to stay the night. Further, in the third stage of dissonance, Cinderella sits and waits for the Prince to find and save her. At this stage, Cinderella constantly thinks about the Prince, hoping that he will come and apologize, accept her real, not illusory. When the Prince finally smart enough to understand the situation, he'll find Cinderella, forgive her all the wrongs and take her real. At this point Cinderella in a fit of mad love given to the Prince of soul and they live happily ever after.
Interestingly, the Prince in this situation develops reverse neurosis. First, he forms a false ideal image, which he falls in love with. Then the image slips away, and the Prince long and tedious runs after him... Finding Cinderella, the Prince is so happy that he is ready to forgive her lies and inconsistency with the ideal, accepts her as she is, while feeling not her real, but her ideal.
The religious prohibition of divorce protects not the Prince, but Cinderella. Because when the illusion breaks after the wedding and the Prince realizes that Cinderella is not a Princess, he will want to run away... but there would be nowhere to run. And later.
Cinderella is the female counterpart of Hercules. Incidentally, Hercules too, always dream of a Princess, to put their exploits for the sake of dreams about love... You remember that Hercules did not have his Princess, and became a victim of the furies. Both are very unhappy in your personal life, for love of illusion.
A woman in a relationship can't just walk away. With other men she would be uncomfortable and anxious. Having quarreled with her man, she can like a Prince from Cinderella rush to seek her love, but it will not be that and it will not be so.
Cinderella looks very harmonious with the Prince, but whether the Princess can get along with a chimney sweep or a shepherd we do not know... Although, why not?
Apart from sex, beauty and children, a woman can give a man many other things. For instance, moral support, care, tenderness, compliments, flattery, help with something he does, peace of mind, warmth etc. And what's more interesting, a man really expects it all from a woman and becomes really offended when he doesn't get it. However, women want the same things from a man, plus many other ones. That's why it's all mutual.
Variothoughts are a forest and trees. Sequoias, pines, bushes and mushrooms. – Is there the Red Riding Hood too? – He who goes into the woods should not be afraid of wolves.
The rich and the beautiful cry too. The story of Cinderella. The story about a lucky fool who suddenly became rich. A consolation story, a booky cookie, a dream story - that mistakes the wish for the reality. A fairy tale about a dream that will never come true. A fairy tale about great love that doesn't exist in reality. A fairy tale about those who are more stupid or unlucky.
When a woman has long hinted to a man on a close relationship and he finally reciprocated, the first time it will overcome the horror. If he doesn't like it, he'll run away, and she runs away from that fear.
The symbol of the red riding Hood is a symbol of a woman over-loved in childhood. Red riding Hood is a symbol of passion. The wolf is a symbol of the victim of passion, a symbol of men who love men. The wolf is a symbol of what can result in a passion for the greedy and stupid men.
Little red riding Hood was looking for a passionate love, as strong as the one that her grandmother loved her. Such passionate love was a wolf. The problem is that passion and wants to have a wolf as a result of passion swallowed little Red riding Hood. Red riding Hood did not like the passionate love of the wolf, in the end she called the hunters. The wolf was gutted and the woman moved back in with my parents.
The meaning of the story about red riding Hood is that while the girl learns to obey her grandmother and suppress her passionate instincts, no wolf will die in terrible agony from depression.
In many fairy tales say about stone on a neck and in well. In the fairy tale about Red riding Hood, a wolf even has a mountain of stones sewn into his stomach. It's about depression and dying love. The stone on the soul is a granite monument of dead love.
Red riding Hood is a typical over-loved child, raised by his grandmother or old parents. Will not such a child happiness in your personal life, and her unfortunate victim of the wolf, sorry.
No wonder the wolf wanted to eat little red's grandma. The grandmother in this context is a symbol of Tiffany's and the jealousy that was felt as a wolf, wanting to personally have a red Cap. Grandma creates unhealthy competition, dragging love Beanies for themselves, the wolf is causes bouts of jealousy.
Red riding Hood is a symbol of bait and freebies, which catch wolves and then gut. We clearly see collusion mothers, grandmothers and girls. The girl lured the wolf, strongly hinting him to continue, the meeting, told where he is going, etc. the Naive little girl in a wild forest, it attracts attention, it is very suspicious. If you see that... run.
The story of little red riding Hood may have an even deeper context, in the sense that little Red riding Hood was used as bait to lure a wolf to a lonely grandmother, thereby marrying her off. In General, everything was successful, but the old goat was not satisfied with his grandmother and desired a granddaughter, for which he paid. Thus, the story of red riding Hood can be considered in the sphere of incest and pedophilia, when an old sinner molests a young girl.
The images of Chernomor, the monsters in "The Scarlet Flower", Koshchei, the wolf in "Little Red Riding Hood" are all the images that a girl, beloved by her parents, feels in her husband when she gets married. This image is illusory, but the girl perceives it as reality, is afraid of it, hates it and wants to escape. To do this, she needs a new hero who will kill the gray wolf and set her free. In severe cases, this scenario cultivates a model of behavior in a woman aimed at happiness only in the second marriage. The first marriage serves to gain freedom from the parental family, and the second - to get rid of the monster. However, if, after escaping from the first monster, it is carried back to the parents, then the second husband will also be a monster, and the third. Parents who tend to love their daughters in the name of true love for them should expel them from paradise, forcing them to create their own paradise. You can not let the girl run away from the monster to herself. If she runs, then let him run wherever he wants, but not to his parents.
I do not want anything and I want everything. The essence of resignation is to accept everything. A minus and a plus are both extremes whereas a zero is just a point. A zero is the eye of a needle joining hell to paradise, a small door between two universes. A small door through which only the white rabbit or Alice can pass. The white rabbit symbolizes uncertainty, and Alice is one who sees things the way they are.
"Drug" (addiction) is a metaphor for Cinderella, whose carriage, sooner or later, turns into a pumpkin, horses into mice, and Cinderella herself will fall into depression. Indeed, under the drug everything is fine, but without it everything is disgusting and the further, the more disgusting, and the drug itself eventually ceases to work and all that remains after it is a deep unhealed blackness of disgust.