Your love sufferings are, on the one hand, drug withdrawal, on the other, stupidity and lust for power. You probably don't know that everything is beauty and everything is love. Pride makes you pray to idols.
In fact, you can do everything the same way as you did, but only a little more relaxed and without unnecessary heartache. You strain, ... you are tormented by vanity, greed, fear, doubt, lust for power and lust. You made up all your problems and you cry about them.
Wounds of the soul become insensitive to pain and joy, which in General reduces the threshold of human sensitivity, making it vulnerable to Vice. Be wary of causing severe Heartbreak to your loved ones and especially children.
The sufferings of a rejected lover are tantamount to drug withdrawal, and should not be feared or surprised. If you do not sabotage the suffering and do not eat them with sedatives, 1-2 months of torment and the body will be freed from dependence. The main thing is not to look for easy ways and not to be afraid.
Put something in your pocket that isn't there. To divide a skin of not killed bear. Include the illusion of the future in your self-esteem… All this is called complacency and a sure way to find yourself sad.
Your job is to do what you have to do. I forbid you to suffer that you don't have time for something. Your desire for power over time is pride. God's ways are mysterious. Everything is done as it should and when it should.
Do what you can do, even if there are many things that are better but not available. You should choose the best available. To suffer for something that is not there is foolishness, ignorance, and pride.
Humility is the ability to wait for a tree to grow without suffering too much. We are in too much of a hurry to carry out our plans, it seems to us a tragedy when they are slowed down. As children, we resentfully throw what does not go as we want. Try not to give up the dream because the tree did not grow overnight, wait a couple of years.
Treat events now as memories of the past, this will allow you to reduce the energy of negative emotions such as fear, suffering, anger, irritation, unhappiness, pain... Look at your present sufferings from the height of the future.
When cutting proceed from the available material. The point is, if you're planning a business or something, use what you have. Everything you need is at your fingertips. Suffering for what is not is characteristic of a man who is not intelligent.
Resignation is when you take flies from your soup without too much suffering and keep eating it. Arrogance is when you are choking on your soup with flies but keep eating it. Alternatively, you refuse it and die of hunger.
When thoughts get stuck in the head in the wheel of depression, start writing down everything that is thought on paper. Having written the same thing down several times in a circle, you suddenly realize the ridiculousness of your suffering.
They say genius works against its will. It's true. But who makes him? He is driven by a higher will. The genius inhibits, resists, shouting, "do not want, I won't". "I must work," cries the genius , " I have nothing to eat. But the higher will is deaf to his sufferings. The higher will says to him, " do not complain, you have everything you need. Stop suffering, go do what you have to do."
Money is the main culprit of depression. When you have a lot of money, you do not want to work and begin to spend time on pleasure and vices that instantly turn you into a drug addict and you plunge into the abyss of depressive sufferings. If the addict has no money, he also suffers that there is no joy, no pleasure... "How will I live without drugs" - cries the unfortunate addict.
It happens that a woman is disappointed in a man, ceasing to see a man in him. In her eyes, such a man loses his masculinity, strength and sexual attractiveness. In such a situation, a man needs to regain masculinity, a keen mind, take up work, begin to show male virtues. On the contrary, such actions as nagging, talkativeness, constant shaking, heartbreaking, licking, hugging and other slobbery tendernesses will have the exact opposite effect and will enrage a woman extremely.
Having scrutinized all the main religious and philosophic knowledge, of all the history of humanity, i noticed that they all tell the same things by different ways and don't contradict each other. созданное за всю историю человечества, я заметил, что все они, в общем, говорят одно и то же разными словами и не противоречат друг другу. Al the strict nails are resembling, while all the crooked are crooked their own way.
Neurotic more than anything wants to serve. Well, let him serve. Demand service from him, and ignore his insults, screams, screams and heartbreaks. Sometimes kindly encourage him, but control the distance and time.
If worthless men govern more or less decent men, the problem is with the system. Decent men are proud and refuse to work for the system, which turns them into the system’s slaves. As for people who are not really decent, they work for the system without excessive emotional turmoil, using its strength and make peoples who are more decent and intelligent than themselves adopt indecent postures.
My conclusion: arrogance and idleness turn people into slaves.
Stoicism doesn't espouse inactivity or nihilistic humility, but it espouses emotionlessness and composure. "Suffer little - it says. "Fewer emotions, more actions, more meaningful movements. Active emotionlessness, do what you should and come what will".