How to become a person who everyone wants to be friends with. The more friends you have, the stronger you are. The more they love you, the stronger you are. It's difficult to live without friends. A person lives in a socium and people around can influence this person's living standards. The book reveals laws and principles of relationships between people. How to become a person who they would like to help. How to make friends. How to be worthy of friendship. Why they like some people and dislike others.
In conversation, hold your breath more often. Your interlocutor uses this pretext to make you a listener, which is good. The more you listen and the less you speak, the more intelligent and smart in all respects you seem to others.
There are no normal people. All people are abnormal, but they all want to be normal. Lies are what makes an abnormal person normal. Lies are a mask and an element of socialization that allows people to live in society, pretending they are normal.
If a person does not want you to like, apparently, he does not see any benefit in this, apparently, you could not show him that you can be useful for him.
While being in a relationship learn to make pauses. Give people time to take a rest from you to miss each other. Intruding yourself or making your presence felt, you may distract, annoy or simply bore each other. There should be moderation and balance in everything.
Honesty breeds faith, which means love. Love is what creates truth and puts barriers against lies. That is, if you need beauty and inspiration, be honest and open. Tightness and lies are not capable of beauty and truth..
When you love and admire a person, you learn good things from them. When you are afraid or envious of him, you learn bad things from him. From the first you grow and rejoice, from the second you degrade and suffer.
There is only one way to make a person listen to himself – is to start telling him what he wants... When a person sees that you are he, you can start telling him what you think, and then the person will think that he thinks so.
The right way to talk is as follows: somebody talks, you listen to him, he goes silent, you think and then talk. It is wrong to think while someone is talking. Thinking while someone is talking is like interrupting him. Thinking when someone is talking means you lack respect for and don’t listen to him.
If you love another person, you should love what he loves. You should learn what is important to this person and try to help and support these things. The unity of love is the Foundation of love.
The vices of friends cast a shadow over you. Therefore, first, think with whom you are friends, and secondly, do not spoil the honest name of your friends with your vices.
The meaning of the phrase that do to others as you wish to be done to you is that everyone wants and fears the same thing. Therefore, the thoughts and fears that are in your head, there are others.
If you find a person precious, keep away from suspecting this person of lies and betrayal... The fact this person can betray you doesn't change the fact you need this person.
A great way to get out of an unnecessary dispute is to say "Yes, of course. Yes, of course you're right." The main thing is not to prove anything, do not justify and do not justify anything. Shake your head thoughtfully, but in your heart, ignore all this nonsense.
You want to be loved, of course, for no reason. You want to be served for nothing and you don't want to pay for it. Such a desire is pride, that is, sin. If you want love, you must pay those who serve you.
Ask people for a personal favor. Say that if you fail, you will be punished. That is, if a person does not help you, you will be punished, and if he does, he will save you. People are pleased to know that someone owes them now.
The most important thing in communication is to learn to listen attentively. Don’t get distracted, don’t idly observe flies while reflecting upon the nature of eternity, but listen with great and vehement interest, soaking in every word and gesture of your interlocutor.
We are said to be brothers – that’s a lie. The truth is we are all united. We are one and that’s why none of us is older or younger, even or uneven, better or worse.
The meaning of universal morality is that birds of the same plumage stick together. You can create your own moral principles, but then you risk being left alone, which will weaken you.
It's better to keep silent with those superior in rank until they give the floor. And when they give, it's necessary to say something right and not keep silent like a fool.
I'm not fond of people who smile too much. You may never know what exactly they hide behind their smiles. A sincere person smiles at those who he or she is glad to see while someone insincere may smile at everyone and you never know what this person really thinks about.
Don't cause people new problems as it's better to help them with solving the already existing ones. It will make them happier and they will share this happiness with you.
I met a person and that person was much more virtuous than me and I looked so low next to him. I notice it and felt ashamed. So I took the best from that person to become better myself.
Everyone lies... People lie a lot especially about themselves and their relatives or fellows. Lie to seem better than they really are. Lie to avoid pauses in the conversation. Lie just for fun... That's why if they tell you something and it evokes some deep emotions or wonder in you, take it easy as there's a big probability it's a lie.
The main point of Syntalism is that we are united. We are the same in a good way. I am you, you are I, and that’s why we should treat one another as we would treat ourselves without trying to suppress ourselves. The desire to dominate ourselves is arrogance.
The same words cause completely different reactions in different people. However, the smarter people are, the more unified the reaction is, because smart people look at the essence of things, not their form.
A person’s disrespect for another person is the absence of love for a close one. These people are infected with arrogance and despise each other. They have what to despise one another for – the sin of arrogance deserves despise.
Half of a person’s success in life depends on his communication skills. Loneliness is always the result of the inner rather than of the external. Any person would be glad to communicate but he is so afraid… so afraid…
Nothing spoils a person more than his infinite desire to criticize or to give valuable advice… The two common cents you contribute to the conversation are like flies in a soup. Nobody likes flies, so remember that your criticism, moaning and valuable advice are as if you kept saying “I’m a fool, I’m a fool, I’m a fool”…
Ask, and it shall be given you, but many people do not want to ask out of arrogance. “We don’t want to ask anything,” they say. “We want that it be given to us just like that. If we ask, we will be in debt.” Arrogance turns them into sinners and makes them suffer.
Ask, and it shall be given you, but many people do not want to ask out of arrogance. “We don’t want to ask anything,” they say. “We want that it be given to us just like that. If we ask, we will be in debt.” Arrogance turns them into sinners and makes them suffer.
We are all full of flaws, but I forgive you, my friend... I'm sentimental... You didn't bring into my life wit, not contributed good mood, not even a nice attitude. a follower.... But all OK… Over the years you've become part of that landscape, which I don't want to change.
A woman will be very grateful for everything you do for her... But once you refuse to do something for her... the first thousand grateful moments will soon be forgotten.
The desire to take without giving anything back is often disguised by the desire to give what they don't ask for... … and then angrily demand what they don't give back in response...
The traitors burn in the ninth circle of Hell giving off strong and succulent smell... since there's no worse sin than treachery... and no worse sinners than traitors...
Many people naively believe, that makes others a lot feelings and emotions. And that others nothing to do but talk about them something to think about. The truth it is concluded that 99.9% people passing by we perceive as shadows, with hard remembering their contours. To remember the name of it is a feat... Ordinary remembrance of man looks like a blurry outline., which is something it once of us want...
People are mostly divided into those who have love and those who have no love. Those who have no love are always anxious to exchange it for something from those who have love.
Those who fight and argue with me love me more than anything, because to fight something, you need to know. My enemies know me even better than my friends. Knowledge is love. My enemies have dedicated their lives to fighting me, I am so glad of their attention. I know that even if my friends leave me, my enemies will always be loyal to me.