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The strategy of bringing up boys.


There are several reasons why it's mostly women who bring up children. Men work more, plus there are many incomplete families and divorces. All of these factors make women ask how to bring up boys properly. The thing is that a boy who is brought up like a girl, will never be successful in life and won't be able to start a normal family. Such boy will be passive, lazy and will resemble a princess rather than a man. Bringing up boys, is mostly about bringing up Heroes and Hunters. Bringing up breadwinners and protectors. The process of bringing up boys has many peculiarities that should be taken into account.

 


   

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Foreword


9.6456.   AR AR

The  efficiency  of  the  child's  learning  is  described  by  the  exponential  law.  The  main  progress  occurs  at  the  last  stage  at  the  moment  of  achieving  the  knowledge  integrity.

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148.   AR AR

I think the education of girls 
this is a more subtle art than 
education of boys.
This little delicate flower
so easily ruined...
Boys are easier that way...

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2729.   AR AR

Teaching  boys  is  in  the  first  place,  like  teaching  hunters  and  heroes. 

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9.106. «The strategy of bringing up boys. Heroes and Hunters».   AR AR

There  are  several  reasons  why  it's  mostly  women  who  bring  up  children.  Men  work  more,  plus  there  are  many  incomplete  families  and  divorces.  All  of  these  factors  make  women  ask  how  to  bring  up  boys  properly.  The  thing  is  that  a  boy  who  is  brought  up  like  a  girl,  will  never  be  successful  in  life  and  won't  be  able  to  start  a  normal  family.  Such  boy  will  be  passive,  lazy  and  will  resemble  a  princess  rather  than  a  man.  Bringing  up  boys,  is  mostly  about  bringing  up  Heroes  and  Hunters.  Bringing  up  breadwinners  and  protectors.  The  process  of  bringing  up  boys  has  many  peculiarities  that  should  be  taken  into  account.

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9.5086.   AR AR

In  bringing  up  boys,  a  woman  should  beware  of  infecting  them  with  her  fear.  That  very  cowardice  that  often  hides  behind  the  mask  of  prudence  is  extremely  harmful  to  heroes  and  hunters.

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3.460.   AR AR

School education contradicts the idea of love, forcing children to learn everything, not just favorite.  That is why boys who are more passionate and amorous, learn worse than girls, who are afraid of their parents and the system, in General, do not care what to teach.  The weaker and more cowardly a child is in this sense, the better he learns.  But knowledge is power, and over time the child can gain power.

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6.138.   AR AR

The over-loved child is afraid of losing love. He is always tormented by the fear that he is not loved. It is necessary to talk to him, to say that everything is good, that everyone loves him and loves his mother. And especially his mother loves him when he behaves well. And if he doesn't do what he's supposed to, mom gets sad and mom feels bad. If he is a good boy, his mother will love him, and will not be sad, and will smile. The main thing is to make sure that the child does not have the idea that when he behaves badly, his mother pays attention to him. You should ignore his bad behavior, showing complete coldness. On the contrary, good behavior should be responded to warmly.

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9.681. Idealism is meant for pretty girls, others need pragmatism.   AR AR

Idealism  is  meant  mostly  for  girls.  Beautiful  girls  are  loved  automatically,  while  boys  need  to  get  and  conserve  energy.

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5.2433.   AR AR

They say girls learn the faces, and boys items. They say that the boy looks at the girl as an object that requires knowledge, and the girl looks into his face, wondering if he can know me.

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5.2439.   AR AR

On  average,  boys  do  worse  at  school  than  girls  because  the  masculine  brain  is  more  specialized  than  the  feminine  one  and  is  unable  to  learn  everything  just  in  fear  of  parents  and  teachers.

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5.2440. Weakness and strength.   AR AR

Girls learn from fear and boys learn from love. Cowardly boys, too, can learn from fear, and strong girls from love.

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5.4988. Emotional addiction.   AR AR

Hypersensitivity have prelomleniya children observed as fusion matter. Largely this fusion is characteristic for girls, less for boys. If the child is alone in the family-it increases the risk. The more neurotic the mother is, the more likely it is to merge. The stronger mother nature absorbs the child, the mother's desires become part of the child's soul, his conscience, his super Ego, thus generating a pseudo-split personality. The child begins to live not with his feelings, which he does not have, but with others. The feelings of the mother, a loved one, other people and systems.

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6.2796.   AR AR

Girls more important beauty and order actions, then as boys need a goal and outcome.

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6.2797.   AR AR

Women in fear looking for protection and company, the boys in fear seek solitude. These are two reactions to conflict and stress. Boys don't need witnesses of their fear and girls need protection from fear and loneliness spoils their health.

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6.2821.   AR AR

Boys, so they do not deteriorate, you need to keep in the cold, and girls, on the contrary, warm.

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6.2822.   AR AR

Boys need to praise and to give them freedom of activity, but to watch them with one eye. If the boy is not praised and all his freedom of movement is restricted, he will wither.

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6.2823. Boys warm lazy.   AR AR

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6.2824.   AR AR

The boys lowered the ear and because they speak louder and they need to speak louder.

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6.2828.   AR AR

Boys need to ask questions, girls are more interested in answers.

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6.2829.   AR AR

Teaching children in mixed classes is a big fool. Boys need loud and more questions. Girls need quieter and more answers. As a result, teachers speak quietly and tell something... This manner teaches only girls. Therefore, in recent years, excellent girls became more than excellent boys.

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6.2830.   AR AR

Boys love diagrams, models and diagrams.

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The beginning of the book


6.2.   AR AR

A mother teaches a child to love...  fulfilling his every desire, is making a big mistake.  She teaches him that love is the fulfillment of desires, and, therefore, the one who dared not fulfill at least one of his desires, does not love him and, therefore, there is evil and the enemy that causes fear, anger and hatred...  Fleeing from enemies, the enemies hate the near enemy wither and fade, sinking into apathy and laziness.

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8.4. Bad teacher.   AR AR

The task of parents is to drive into the child's head the basic principles of life and philosophy, and not to kill the initiative in him, filling his head with fears, constantly criticizing and condemning any of his actions.

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120.   AR AR

It's  not  that  many  parents  sacrifice  their 
lives  for  their  children  but  they  start  to 
impose  their  will  on  them  quite  roughly. 

Do  this  or  do  that.  I  failed  to  become  a 
ballerina  but  you  certainly  will... 

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188.   AR AR

Pour information into your head,
stir it there, 
pour into molds and bake...

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224.   AR AR

Preventing  people  from  making  mistakes, 
you  deprive  them  of  the  best 
master  of  their  fate 

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4.30.   AR AR

The ability to be honest and tell the truth is the ability to tell bad news.  To break the news to hard, scary and requires a lot of force.  It takes a lot of hard training to learn to tell the truth.

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4.31.   AR AR

To wean person to lie, you need to train in it the strength of spirit and moral philosophy.  A lying person is a weak and ignorant person.

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4.33.   AR AR

It is extremely difficult for young people to study without a mentor.  But since we have a problem with mentors, usually parents and other close people perform their role with grief in half.

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4.34.   AR AR

It   is   dangerous   to   protect   a   person   from   Vice   from   the   outside.   You   will   protect   him   from   the   lesser   evil,   and   he   will   be   the   victim   of   the   greater   one.   The   lesser   evil   protects   man   from   the   greater   one.  
A   person   can   save   himself   from   Vice   only,   an   attempt   to   save   him   from   the   outside   and   by   force   will   only   aggravate   the   situation.

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4.42.   AR AR

I do not advise you to abuse memory training, the better a person's memory, the more he is an idiot.  Why would he?  He remembers everything by heart.  However, bad memory is also not a sign of a big mind.

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4.71.   AR AR

Education of children is not reduced to the concept of "who is a good child", but the answer to the question: "Who is a well-mannered parent?".  Bad parents can't raise good children.  The problem is that parents do not know or are deeply mistaken in the question "how to be good?".

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4.72. How to be human.   AR AR

The main problem with children is that people don't know how to be good parents.  The problem with families is that people don't know how to be a good husband or wife.  People don't know how to be good friends.  How to be an honest person.  How to be a good person.  How to be a strong person.  How to be human.

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4.97. Children want to grow up quicker.   AR AR

Only   fools   want   to   grow   up   quicker   than   they   need.   The   longer   it   takes   you   to   grow   up,   the   better   you   will   succeed   in   getting   prepared   and   becoming   stronger.   Getting   more   prepared   for   the   big   game.

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5.28.   AR AR

A child is a reflection of his parents, which is controlled through the management of himself and the external circumstances that surround the child.  With a child who fell into fear and denial of reality (aggression is the main symptom of fear and unpreparedness for real life), you need to work out, communicate, teach him life.  This is not one conversation from the category of "please be an ideal child and then you gingerbread" and not an exorcism procedure for expulsion from the sinner of the devil.  This is a long and painstaking educational process.  There are no problems, just a small and immature soul is extremely afraid of the real world, can not live, can not communicate... from which falls into the rage of a wild beast.  The problem is solvable, it would be on that desire, patience and goodwill.

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5.30.   AR AR

Parents, do not be shy, come and consult a psychologist.  Even if nothing new is told to You, You will be strengthened in the belief that You are doing everything right.  (Or, conversely, wrong... Anything can happen.)

The child is an ordinary soldier, parents are Junior officers, teachers and psychologists are senior officers and generals.  In principle, to influence the child, a child psychologist does not even have to talk to him, it will be enough to communicate with parents and explain to them how the elder should manage the younger. 

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5.54. Theatre of truth.   AR AR

The comprehension of truth through revelation and illumination of darkness is good because such a bright and pleasant event strongly sinks into the memory and is not forgotten.  Truth, grasped casually and without theatrical effects, seem to be dreadfully commonplace, something to love, to trust and to remember them is not desirable. 

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6.13. On the instructions of wisdom.   AR AR

Teach the wisdom of how to teach the children the letter.  First, hold the hand and trace the letters, then the student circles the letters, following the pattern, then he writes without a sample...  And this is only the first step to reason, for a child who can write and read is not yet an adult.

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6.19.   AR AR

To order need to accustom the child from birth...  Order kills fear.  If there is order, there will be no fear.  Therefore, you need to feed the child on a schedule, as watered plants.  Hug and carry on the hands of the child should be dosed.  Everything needs a measure and order.

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6.20.   AR AR

Parents   should   not   quarrel   and   get   angry   in   the   presence   of   their   children.   Parental   aggression   immerses   children   in   fear   and   makes   them   wicked,   lazy   and   stupid…   and   they   easily   fall   victim   to   vices.

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6.37.   AR AR

Before the birth of a child, the mother neurotically loves her husband, then her husband removes love and throws it on the child, the husband without love dies from the cold, and the child, on the contrary, love burns.  As a result, everyone suffers.

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