You can't run from fear. Escape from fear kills immunity to fear, which is subjectively expressed in its growth. Fear must be destroyed by logic and truth, because fear is a lie. The real fear is not scary at all and quite safe.
A person gets used to everything. I was full of fears back in the days, then they got tired of me and left me. Pleasant cool indifference rejoices soul like a wind. Full of cold curiosity, I look at these fears running around and think which of them will get and destroy me first.
There is a kind of sports passion in it. I neatly turn from their persistent attempts to bite or even devour me. Strictly checked movements resemble a dance. It’s a game, but who will win it? This purely rhetorical meaningless question makes me feel nothing but curiosity.
Fear exhausts forces. Fear turns on the «you are food» biologic program. «Freeze and don’t move, you are about to be eaten. – Nature tells you – The weak is food of the strong, good predators have come to eat you, don’t resist»…
The world is very dangerous for the blind. The blind man will go and fall into a pit, which the sighted man will easily avoid. All your fears and anxieties are those of a blind man who cannot get around the pit.
Fear is a chemical reaction that occurs due to the release of hormones in the brain. Fear paralyzes the resistance of weaker individuals, it's a submission hormone. Evil and strong individuals cause the weaker individuals' desire to obey them. The excess of the testosterone hormone is characteristic of dominant individuals and makes them especially evil. Curiously, the weaker individual obeys from fear and the stronger one attacks.
When you meet evil, don't judge it, but love it. Judgment breeds fear and lies. Love breeds knowledge. Having known your enemy, you will learn how to protect yourself from him, and you will also be able to take the best of his properties for yourself.
Isaac Babel’s short story Di Grasso clearly illustrates the Zen concept according to which, if a room is dark, all you should do to remedy the situation is to turn the light on. Do what you are most afraid of, and this will instantly transform hell into paradise.
I've noticed that once I get some fear within myself, many things go wrong and misfortunes follow me. As fear is like a smell that keeps good luck away from its owner. Fear is a bird of ill omen. And in order to bring good luck back and be aimed at victory, the first thing to be done is to overcome fears.
Fear is mobilization mode for the organism. Chronic and eternal fear is the mode of quick exhaustion and destruction of the organism that is also linked with catastrophic and unjustifiable energy waste.
The nature of all the fears is the same and they should be fought almost the same way. Love wins over fear. Laughter wins over fear. Being satisfied, fear dies. And there is a number of other standard techniques. But fear is sly, it aims to cheat and says: «Why would you kill me? I’m good»… It can be so… When fear is little, it is really good, like a little fluffy kitten. But when fear grows, it causes neuroses, neuroses cause vessel constrictions. Child neuroses lead to stutter, withdrawing in himself, psychological problems. Adult neuroses cause vessel constrictions and hormonal surges, that cause problems of digestive system, hormone system, neuromuscular and nervous systems ( i.e. everywhere up to stomach ulcer), thyroid problems, strokes and heart attacks.
The very first fear is the fear of death. There is nothing particularly bad about the fear of death as long as it remains within reasonable limits. However, it often grows to the point of producing phobias and paranoiac fears. Specifically, the fear of death is the root out of which all other fears grow. A tree has one trunk but many branches. There are fears of water, snakes, insects, rockslides, natural disasters, crowds, violence, attention and so on. First thing, you should overcome the fear of death. The easiest way to do that is to firmly believe that death does not exist or that there is reincarnation, the Garden of Eden…
Fear is extremely necessary and useful. Fear allows you to avoid stupidities, overcomes laziness, is a source of movement and keeps the internal monsters of the human soul at bay. Problems arise only when there is too much fear.
Think of it as a game, say, chess. Visualize your emotions as some abstract symbols, like red sensors that need to be pressed to be on. Fear, shame, guilt and embarrassment are just the red lights on the control panel that can be turned on and off.
It's curious that god and verity are order while the devil is suddenness and accidents. In particular, regular useful work and actions save from fears and bring joy. While emptiness and idleness soon become filled with fears, vices and diseases.
A phobia is the main and true fear, but there are Triggers too. A trigger is what causes this fear. Triggers can appear and disappear and they are similar to the consequences of the main fear that is their cause.
A mission is what helps with loneliness. If you have a mission in your life, you won’t fear loneliness, dejection or depression. When you have a mission, you won’t fear anything at all, because missions kill fear.
The remorse associated with fear turns a person into a sadomasochist, who is very pleased with his own suffering. Suffering, such as if a person atones for their sins and it reduces the pain that causes him a conscience and guilt.
A mother teaches a child to love... fulfilling his every desire, is making a big mistake. She teaches him that love is the fulfillment of desires, and, therefore, the one who dared not fulfill at least one of his desires, does not love him and, therefore, there is evil and the enemy that causes fear, anger and hatred... Fleeing from enemies, the enemies hate the near enemy wither and fade, sinking into apathy and laziness.
The land is full of the dead, the air's still full of the living but don't be afraid… All of us will turn into coal, all of us will turn into oil. The world under the leaves. Are you afraid of the lions? How often do lions eat people. Don't count. trust me, very little. Just remember: your real enemies are insects, in the end, they eat up each of us...
There is a good way to quit oneself of fear and find strength... Embed an idea that you've got only a year left to live... and that, in fact, you've got nothing to lose... But before you die, you've got to do something. If you manage to sell yourself on that idea and quit yourself of fear, you'll get such a burst of energy that you'll be able to move mountains... All our problems result from fear. we fear, feel shy, wait for something... But when it's useless to wait and the fear is gone... it lends you wings...
The main problem of people is their cowardice. On the other hand, life of the brave is short and it’s in the hands of chance. I would define cowardice as one of the tools regulating access to resources. The bigger the population is, the less resources per capita it has, the more cowards there are in it...The brave fight each other for resources and get shot massively. As a result, cowardice is cultivated and survives. And a coward doesn’t need much, he is happy with what he has and unable to contradict circumstances, crowd, popular opinion and so on.. And the brave, yes, they are on top. They are the elite. But elite can’t be numerous, as resources are limited. The leaders have to cultivate cowardice, obedience and powerlessness in the society, otherwise it will just blow up.
Fear is a property of pride. The property of truth is "do what you must and come what may". So Soloinc, humbly overcoming fear, declared himself a genius and a prophet. I need energy and recognition now, not in the next life. I have done my best, and now I will humbly welcome any development. I have no pride, I just do what I have to do and accept what is there. Whether you believe that I'm a genius or not, it doesn't matter to me either, as long as I believe it. My faith is strong, my faith can create the future, thus creating reality.
Insensitive reflection is a sign of unconscious information. The joyful truth, a lie causes fear and anger. Insensitivity is a sign of misunderstanding. A detached understanding is a lie, caused by the attempt to give the lie for the truth or the truth for a lie in the name of some false or incorrectly understood the goal.
Man would very much like to be good, but he is too weak and stupid to have the strength to do it. Bad to be hurt bad, so bad people always suffer and have a very horrible look. However, do not be afraid of evil, evil it is very weak and only attack from fear. If it sees in you good and love, it will run up to you and will, caressing, lovingly lick hands. Give him a piece of sugar, make him happy.
A child is a reflection of his parents, which is controlled through the management of himself and the external circumstances that surround the child. With a child who fell into fear and denial of reality (aggression is the main symptom of fear and unpreparedness for real life), you need to work out, communicate, teach him life. This is not one conversation from the category of "please be an ideal child and then you gingerbread" and not an exorcism procedure for expulsion from the sinner of the devil. This is a long and painstaking educational process. There are no problems, just a small and immature soul is extremely afraid of the real world, can not live, can not communicate... from which falls into the rage of a wild beast. The problem is solvable, it would be on that desire, patience and goodwill.
An important symptom of idealism is suspiciousness. Idealists are similar, in essence, to magnifying glasses, everything seems to them either more or less than it is. Suspiciousness is an exaggeration of fear. And where there is suspiciousness, there is an underestimation of fear.