The dependent person is automatically degraded. Weakness breeds fear, laziness, illusions, and pain. This state of Affairs provokes in the dominant active personality a sense of duty and a desire to take care of the weak.
It is useless to tell a passive-dependent person to do something, such a person cannot force himself to do something, and is in chronic procrastination. The dominant personality should allow the dependent personality freedom and find a fruitful occupation where it can take an active position.
The dependent woman in dreams is dominant. When a dominant woman appears next to her husband, the wife sees her as the best and is wildly jealous. But in vain. They say the best is the enemy of the good. The dominant doesn't need a dominant. The husband will not be interested in this woman.
To love a person is to admire them and be happy that they exist. Dependence on his attention and love is drug addiction, obsession with their own pleasure and inability to extract this pleasure from other sources.
Self-pity can be seen as a drug breakdown, due to lack of external love. They don’t love me, a person dependent on love experiences and cries. To stabilize the situation, you need to fast and suffer steadily, waiting for the body to clear itself and be ready to love again.
A cunning subconscious mind can rigidly substitute a dependent, cowardly or lazy person who for some reason does not want to work and realize their dreams. The body can get sick to give the mind an excuse that it is not able to implement its ideas. This vile lie must be stopped at the root and ignored.
In a dominant-dependent relationship, the dependent side will intuitively sabotage everything related to work and growth, because the subconscious knows that the dominant and the dominant will not get along.
The dominant narcissistic man seeks to turn his dependent wife into himself. However, if he succeeds in this, she will inevitably be disappointed in him. The narcissistic man by default suffers from a complex of mismatch of himself to his ideal.
One who cannot live without happiness is extremely unhappy. A happiness addict is very unhappy. The life of this poor man is permeated by the eternal fear that happiness will disappear and then disaster will happen.
The woman, wanting to rule over men, forever leaves his immature childlike state. To Mature, a man must avoid them for a long time, otherwise he will remain a child forever. A man's dependence on a woman turns him into a child.
Your decisions are bets based on chance, beliefs, knowledge of reality, experience... and pay attention that all players are addicted addicts and this is a problem. The sower is always an addict. You can't sow long, or you'll become addicted. You can sow twice a year and no more. Otherwise, I guarantee you neurotic personality disorder, anger, irritability, megalomania, paranoia, etc.
The dependent person strives for dependence in order to gain security and get rid of fear. But fear is pride and lust for power and possession. Having got rid of fear, such a person turns into his opposite - megalomania, which contradicts his dependent position. In the future, he will either console himself with illusions and self-deception, or enter into conflict and destroy the relationship where he is dependent. However, to create a relationship, no matter where the dependence, he can not, because he is always looking for security.
Fear is pride and lack of humility. If such a person is freed from fear, he will awaken a thirst for power and possession. He, being dependent, looks for those who would give him safety, and then tries to seize them. If this fails, the relationship either breaks up or becomes chronically conflicted and unhappy.
A coward is always looking for someone to take his fear away. The dependent person is looking for someone who is stronger, so that he gave him peace, ridding him of fear. However, once in dependence, the dependent person begins to desire freedom and fight for independence. Having won freedom, she again wants dependence.
The dependent person desires freedom most of all and suspects everyone of manipulation and control. However, to live in freedom dependent person can not, because too weak. Accustomed to living in a cage, it needs protection and feeding.
The dependent passive personality is afraid to make decisions, but is willing to make them and resists attempts at control and manipulation. To preserve the unity of active and passive first, we should clarify the desires of man, make a plan of action and coordinate it, after they are approved.
The female personality is a conglomerate of personalities, dependent on external circumstances. Under each of her circumstances and roles, a woman creates her own personality. All these individuals interact with each other and fight for power, trying to recreate the circumstances that gave rise to them.
Emotions should be expressed moderately and immediately. If emotions are restrained, they accumulate and turn into a neurosis. "Why are they holding them back?" Fear, they fear the disapproval of other people.
Narcissistic and dependent personality are one and the same, the whole difference rests on the strength of the spirit. The one who is stronger turns out to be a narcissist, the one who is weaker-a dependent person. And borderline disorder is a matter of unstable energy sources.
From a mother's and grandmother's perspective, the ideal child is a child with a dependent personality disorder. However, then he becomes lazy and aggressively passive, reborn into something opposite to the ideal.
It seems that the dependent type of personality is very well suited for good wives. On the one hand, this is true, but only if her relatives are far away, and the work is bad. Otherwise, attachment to work or parents will generate wild conflicts with her husband. However, jealousy, stereotyping and hysteria can not be avoided in any case.
Depression is basically a dependent personality disorder. Having lost the object of his attachment, the dependent person experiences a huge complex of guilt, loneliness and uselessness, a sense of worthlessness, loss of self-esteem.
Many somatic diseases are associated with the desire of a person with a dependent personality disorder to attract attention. A person with this disorder has a constant fear of rejection, which makes him look for reasons to feel sorry for him.
Dependent persons are very clingy and persistent in their attachment. But this is not disinterested affection, these people are looking for those who will take care of them according to their ideas of their value. If you pay attention to such a person, he will pounce on you with a full set of demands and grievances.