It is very important for a Manager to keep the right distance from his subordinates. If you draw them to himself - they will become untied if I delete myself – hate. The correct distance is calculated empirically.
An idealist is a person who is better loved from afar. An idealist is a person who does not exist. An idealist is a liar who personifies himself with his ideal, and ideals are always lies and illusions. Therefore, idealists always have very tense relations with their neighbors.
Opposites form excellent harmonious pairs, because they create a balance of passions. A man, caught between his two passions, restrains himself from falling into one of them. This state of Affairs allows people to maintain a distance between each other and their vices, avoiding overkill everywhere.
Too much intimacy doesn't do you any good. It is not enough to burn with love. Remoteness is also bad, because it is cold and sad. You need to keep the right distance. Take an example from the planet Earth.
Every addict tries to independently control the dose of drug consumption, but can not, willpower is not enough. If we are talking about a love addiction, the partner who performs the role of a drug should limit communication with the dependent himself.
The idol Narcissus sincerely wants love and is happy when it is loved, but if it is loved strongly and for a long time, over time it gets used to love and begins to treat the loved one with contempt. It is not enough for the idol of love, he is always hungry and wants someone special to love him.
A woman needs to be careful in order to remain a Muse and delight a man, inspiring him to grow and courage. To do this, she must maintain a distance from him, grow up herself, avoid dependence on him, maintain his self-esteem and dreams, while suppressing aggressive narcissism in him.
Breaking someone else's borders is an act of disrespect and aggression, which means that there is no love between you. But there is a thirst for power and pride. Keep your distance from those who don't understand the word "no".
The word " no» "it's what defines the boundaries of things, giving them shape. Someone who doesn't respect the word "no" is called pride. If you can't say no, you're proud. If you don't hear no, you're proud. Both these proud men are burning in hell.
To keep your schedule, you should love what you do. The fact is that love is respect for other people's borders. The boundaries of entities are defined by time. It is impolite when one entity violates the boundaries of another.
Look how it all works. When your speed is equal, you fly in a circle; if passion overcomes you and you speed up, you will be twisted in a spiral and will get closer to the sun, the source of energy. The point is, passion should be removed at the last mile stage, otherwise you will tumble down on the sun. On the contrary, if you start slowing down and resisting, you will be thrown away, say, to Pluto’s orbit, and you risk freezing there.
Movement turns lies into truth. It is easiest to move in an orbit around your love, gradually approaching it until it is good and warm. The main thing is to find the right distance, and then observe it.
To control a neurotic, you must control his passion, not allowing him to get too close, you must keep your distance, letting him close, not when he wants, but according to the schedule. Keeping the fire of hope and faith in him that he will not be deceived in receiving his joy. Neurotics cannot be deceived. All people, especially women, are neurotic to some degree, and the degree of neuroticism depends on the balance of love for oneself and the outside world, the number of its joys.
What is the main sin of an idealist? The main sin of an idealist is murder. An idealist is a love killer. Idealists do not cherish love, do not keep a distance, their sin is greed. Overfed fire, they set fire, burn all the wood and the fire dies. Leaving behind the ashes, the idealist goes to look for new firewood.
It seems to me that the idol under the name of the Sun, on which you pray, of course, useful and gives you a lot of energy, on the other hand, do not approach it much, otherwise you will burn. Your idol is a fiery hell, devil incarnate.
God is an entity like the sun. You can't live without the sun, but you can't go near it, or you'll burn. Your sun is the devil. You live in hell. The true God sent the devil to hell and made him the eldest. Mr. devil is responsible in this world and the whip and the carrot. All the energy is in his hands. In General, be healthy and keep with the boss the correct distance.
Look how interesting. The slaves of time are unhappy. Vices say, enough to serve time, serve us, we will give you happiness. But once you are enslaved by Vice, you will fall into hell. To find happiness, you need to equally move away from these two, forming an isosceles triangle. Do not deny them, but keep a distance, it will allow you to find happiness.
The squirrel in the wheel is fixated around the object of his love. If the object of love is the sun of truth, and the squirrel keeps his distance, then all is well. If everything is bad, you need to either change the orbit or find another sun. The sun is God, he gives energy. The world of idols. It so happens that the squirrel becomes a companion of a dead idol or an asteroid, it also does not add to her joy.
Insight is a star that lights up in the soul of man, prompting him to start moving to it through the emptiness of space. Illumination is a guiding star, indicating the direction of movement and giving hope, as you approach it turns into the Sun, a huge source of energy and strength. Reaching the stars is a journey at the speed of light through the abyss of darkness of space. However, as you approach the star, you should exercise restraint and stand on the 3rd orbit, keeping a distance.