If nobody understands or cares, apparently you missed the principle of "you scratch my back and I'll scratch yours". You do not understand and do not appreciate people, they reciprocate you. Your vain assertion that you understand everything and everyone is self-deception.
Try not to ask anyone for free services. Always pay for your desires. People have spent their time, time is energy, money and love. You have to pay for what you took, or you'll upset the balance.
The essence of the principle "you-to me, I-to you" is that the giver is not disappointed that he gives good. Why pay expensive for good and for evil in pain.
Anyone who distributes freebies is a demon, condemning people to suffering. Violating the principle of balance and harmony "you-to me, I-to you" is doomed to hell.
When you ask, just give. If you ask and do not give in return what they want or expect, most likely, you will be sent far and rightly. Especially if you have what is asked, and you do not give greed.
Given the principle of energy balance " you-me, I-you.".. idolatry is the product of the sin of pride. You bow to be bowed to. You pray to God that God will pray for you.
The lover receives delight and admiration from the object of his love. What should he give in return? Correctly, a lover should give his love admiration and joy.
It seems to the proud man that he owes something to those whom he loves, respectively, they owe him. People think he gives because he loves, and he's a liar ... just a greedy moneylender who lends love at huge interest rates.
A kind gift that requires nothing in return reminds me of a situation where a fire lights a candle. That is, the fire under a very plausible and romantic pretext devours the candle, telling everyone stories about how healthy and beautiful it is.
If you take something from the outside and give nothing in return, you will lose the ability to produce what came from the outside. I see deadly danger in freebies.
Proud people are very greedy people. Giving them is dangerous in the sense that it creates in them a subconscious greed and unwillingness to give anything in return.
The desire to take without giving anything back is often disguised by the desire to give what they don't ask for... … and then angrily demand what they don't give back in response...
The neurotic child is looking for love, but does not want to pay for love. He reaches out to other children, wanting love from them, but giving them nothing in return... gets nothing from them. It Angers him and he attacks other children, and those in response.
Social barter is a basis for social division of labour. Quid pro quo, everyone shares what he has. The person who wants to be loved for nothing is an egoist and a freeloader. Every person should bring benefit.
Social barter is a basis for social division of labour. Quid pro quo, everyone shares what he has. The person who wants to be loved for nothing is an egoist and a freeloader. Every person should bring benefit.
When you give, people automatically want to give something back. Give people a good mood, thank them, give small gifts, help to realize their desires, amuse self-esteem, and they will love you in return.
Many people's feeling that they give more than get back is often linked with being inattentive to people. You give people what you want and as much as you want, ignoring their real needs and desires. You think you're of high value, but in fact your value is extremely low, and what you get back is your fair price.
If you want to raise your price-raise your value. Study people, study their desires
Many people tend to raise a question: Who do I need? What do I need? However, it should be kept in mind that in order to make life free from disappointments and pain it's necessary to ask another question: - So what can I give in return? Do I have something that others need?
When you take something, make sure you soon give something back so that not to owe anything. Otherwise you'll be in debt. Uncovered debts are like open windows and doors in winter: they let off warmth from the house. Beware of freebies and free cheese as you'll pay for them later.
But the balance is not only 50-50. The balance point can be anywhere. The balance depends very much on external circumstances and factors. Depending on the length of the lever and the weight of the load, the balance point can move very freely. And importantly... This is not the point itself, but the fact that there is a balance.
Interchange is a principle that makes a person sell his soul to the devil in exchange of freebies. “I exchange nothing for nothing,” says the wretch, rubbing his hands in joy, and, certainly, he is quite mistaken.
And egoists call themselves neurotics, who, having given themselves 100% of some of their passion, do not want to pay for some of their other relationships, where they take and take, and in return do not give anything. But the same 100% they give their passions and not give her the same answer, I think its selfish nature.
Hollow people are dangerous in that they absorb everything inside themselves without giving anything in return outside, just because they have nothing inside them.
We just change with you, you give something that I need, and I give you something that you need. No exchange, no subject matter. Why scandals, quarrels and mutual claims? It's simple - we either change or we don't... You want to bargain? Bargain! But do it, please, kindly, here nobody owes anything to anybody.
Without upholding the principle «from me to you, from you to me», the principle of energy balance "give-and-take", you cause great pain to a person and it makes this person a monster.
