Start with the very simple and grow gradually to the complex. You can't just start with the hard stuff and not fall down. The colossus on clay feet is very unstable. The smaller steps you start with, the stronger your growth will be.
High self-esteem is necessary in order to grow. Indeed, this situation generates pain and suffering, but they can be compensated for by the joy of growth. People with even self-esteem lose the ability to grow.
The meaning of free will is that a person chooses his own goal (dream) and begins to grow towards it, entering the path of improvement. Initially, a person is perfect for their tasks, but choosing a new goal, they take a step into imperfection and get the opportunity to grow again, feeling the joy of endless growth.
The accumulation of critical mass in the system must occur simultaneously in time and space. It is not enough to accumulate material entities, you need to accumulate time. The average critical mass accumulation time for a system to detonate is five years. The more material accumulated over five years, the stronger the growth will be.
The point is that if you stop growing, you will be whipped and you will feel very bad. However, if you grow up and reach perfection, you will perish quickly enough, for perfection is death. The solution is to grow as slowly as possible, stretching pleasure.
Personal growth is growth from grain to dream. The grain is under a thick layer of fear, as under the ground. With the help of knowledge of the truth, overcoming contradictions, the grain rushes to his dream, gradually overcoming his fear.
If a system is restricted from growing upwards, it will grow sideways. If you restrict it from growing sideways, it will grow upwards. If you restrict it from growing at all, it will bear fruit. Fruit bearing restricts growth.
Freud saw the cause of neurosis in suppressed sexuality. Erickson – the inability to fulfill your destiny. Adler is in a lust for power that stems from sexual instinct. Still it is possible to say that neurosis is a discrepancy between his view of himself or a growth problem. In General, we can say that the definition of Erickson wider than all other ideas.
IQ is not a constant, it is something that grows or decreases according to Fibonacci proportions- 0, 10, 30, 80, 130, 210 etc. IQ Growth occurs in spurts with the accumulation of critical mass. If accumulation occurs, the IQ ranges in the vicinity of some equilibrium point like trapped in the wheel of the squirrel.
Dualism is proper to the nature of growth. On one hand, it is a wave. That is, growth is occurring in spurts, as critical mass is being accumulated. On the other hand, the accumulation of critical mass always occurs by putting together small particles, bricks, stones, efforts and mosaic pieces.
The most accessible source of pleasure is overcoming obstacles. Overcoming obstacles is pleasant, joyful, fruitful and marks the growth of personality. To such pleasure almost there is no habituation, such pleasure can be stretched for life.
Vertical growth is fine, but horizontal growth with an increase in the cost of the project in 2-3 times provides a tenfold increase in production. This is the meaning of trees and their crowns and roots. Trees, connecting the sky and the earth, go into horizontal growth, gaining access to huge reserves of energy. The main income does not give vertical growth, but horizontal.
The squirrel in the wheel is a squirrel that doesn't honor math and has forgotten that the essence of the growth movement is progression. In squirrel too little love to reality and so she, alas, not is growing.
As long as you have a dream, you grow, acceptance of reality breaks dreams, and your growth ends. However, dreams are mundane, like a Mirage, and high, like a guiding star. Choose a star, for the Mirage will turn you into a squirrel, fixated in the wheel of his illusions.
By doing too much, you destroy perfection, and you are a murderer. So he who eats too much is a suicide who destroys the perfection of his body. And if the movement to perfection is the growth of life, the movement from perfection is the movement to death.
The expansion of space-time continuum resembles the expansion of a snowflake. Every moment is full of the creation of billions of variants of the Universe. Every moment you simultaneously stay in all variants of events. The variant you believe in most of all, makes your present reality.
But in essence, you can believe in any variant and thus, turn it into reality, it only depends on the force of belief and the ability to concentrate. In fact, something that you expect and consider the inevitable, becomes created in reality. Your brain considers that very reality which you expect to see.
Humility is the realization that the main thing is growth. It does not matter what is wrong and wrong, it is important to grow and move forward. Quantity sooner or later will grow into quality, the main thing – do not stop.
Are you complaining about everything stopping you from growing? You say you are a genius and a truth, and suffer that no one helps you or even hinders you? There's something you don't know about yourself. In fact, you are a virus, you are a cancer ... any truth and beauty is a disease and, of course, the system resists you. Your task, hardened in battle, to grow at any cost. The real truth is scalable and so perfect that it is almost impossible to stop its growth.
Horizontal growth (branches and foliage of trees) is similar to a set of small needles in the cathode. This is necessary in order to reduce the field voltage required for the emission of electrons. That is, the more distributed the force, the easier it is to achieve the tunnel effect...