You were offended that something wasn't given to you. You are so good, you did something there, you gave something to everyone, and you got nothing in return. In fact, you are a liar, you did everything for yourself and immediately got everything you wanted, and now you want to deceive everyone and get double pay for nothing. You didn't do anything, and you want double pay for it over and above the deal. You are a thief, I call you a hypocritical thief.
A manipulator is a person who has condemned himself and the sentence has created terror in him. This man is a liar, he decided to bribe and deceive the judge. This man threatens and bribes a mirror, demanding of them that they were lying.
If you stop telling people (your spouse, children, employees, and the world at large) that they owe you something, it will instantly improve your life by an order of magnitude, and people will start giving you gifts not out of fear and reluctance, but with joy and enthusiasm. "Should" is pride, aggression, and violence. As long as you believe that you should, you will be treated negatively.
It seems to the proud man that he owes something to those whom he loves, respectively, they owe him. People think he gives because he loves, and he's a liar ... just a greedy moneylender who lends love at huge interest rates.
The proud man feels as if he is doing a favor to people by working or doing business with them. A proud man is a pawnbroker of the word "must". He says to people: "I owe you and gave you, and now you owe me with interest." And it always seems to the proud man that they did not give him enough, they did not pay him enough, because he gave away his priceless, and received back someone else's, worthless. Always goes a proud man, offended by people, calling everyone ungrateful.
Guilt is a dangerous thing, because it not only tells you that you owe everyone something, but also whispers that everyone owes you something. Inspired by a sense of guilt, you subconsciously begin to expect something and even demand from people. Trust me, people will not appreciate your high expectations of them.
Sometime they demand a debt that is too heavy for you. And this heavy debt disturbs you and ruins your plans...
What can you do? - You should declare bankrupt and give them everything you have to pay back what you should. Being left "broke", you should repent and make a fresh start. You should return to zero. Now you're a zero and you don't have anything.
But you may grow again... You were given a new life. Be happy!
Sometimes your bankruptcy is not enough for creditors. And they want to interfere with your freedom. If freedom is considered to be priceless, than their demands are unfair. Later, you'll be free in your actions and everything will be in your hands...
When you take something, make sure you soon give something back so that not to owe anything. Otherwise you'll be in debt. Uncovered debts are like open windows and doors in winter: they let off warmth from the house. Beware of freebies and free cheese as you'll pay for them later.
Getting rid of hope involves humility and accepting that happiness is possible without hope. Good luck to the bird flying only to happy to people because it feeds their happiness. You have to be sure that the absence of an object of hope in your life will not change anything.
Must... must... they tell you all the time that you owe a lot of things... This deceit... In this world, no one owes anyone anything... There is more working principle of harmonious exchange of "you scratch my back and I'll scratch yours".
It should be remembered that no one owes anyone anything. True humanism is in Nietzsche's words. Leaning push. When a man does not do his job, it is extremely painful. Dismissal is the most humane way to save everyone from suffering.
About the word "should" you should understand that, firstly, it's a lie and you owe nothing. Secondly, if you do not, you can lose your job, loved ones, people's respect, money and a lot of other important and useful nishtyakov. Your "must" can be divided into fear, greed, greed, vanity, lust, etc.
The secret of success is simple, there should be nothing superfluous. Nothing from the word "absolutely." The predator must be lean, wiry and without a gram of fat. Things unnecessary, vices of excess, entertainment excess. All attention should be absorbed in the hunt.
You can get an answer to any question, for this you just have to ask it to yourself. If you want something, ask a question, listen to the answer, and then go and implement it. Nothing easier. The only thing that can stop you is fear and lies, but they are also the product of your own mind.
You owe nothing to anyone but your own soul. The things you own lie to you, saying that once you have them, you must now serve them. On the other hand, they're right. You think loving is owning, and if you do, you're a liar.
Try not to tell anyone (even yourself) that someone owes you something. Such a word as “should” does not exist in nature. The word "must" is the greatest deception of mankind, it is the quintessence of the word FALSE. A person who believes that someone owes him something is an immature child. The feeling that you or you owe something is the first cognitive dissonance, the cause of all human suffering. Hand washes a hand. This world works according to the “Win and Win” scheme, all exchanges must be mutually beneficial and voluntary. Should you tell a person that he owes you something, he will feel disgust for you and will send to hell ... and he will be infinitely right. For he owes nothing to you. No one owes anything to anyone. Except, of course, slaves. Slaves owe their masters. But normal people do not want to be slaves ... even you yourself do not want to be a slave.
Expectation is arrogance – you are trying to tell being what to do. God hates it when they try to dominate him. Do good and throw it into the water. Do not expect anything. Do what you have to and come what may.