Women's love is a metaphor for fire. The tragedy of a woman's life is that she can't find a man. Proud men, because of the dichotomous extreme of their thinking, have become either midges burning in the fire of love, or narcissistic nocturnal predators, afraid of love as fire, in fear of losing their freedom. God needs a man, but where can you find one in the night forest?
When a man truly loves a woman, it kills the fear in him. In the absence of fear, a man acquires the ability to grow and expand. In the absence of fear, a man becomes courageous and joyful. A woman's empathy allows her to feel what a man feels, and this fills her soul with delight.
A proud lover who loves not reality, but his illusions, will constantly conflict and try to attract attention to himself, trying to control the object of his love. A real lover contemplates, gives gifts and is happy. The false lover tries to manipulate and extract pleasure. A fake lover reminds me very much of a drug addict who wants to gain control of his drug.
They do not believe in people, but in people, because initially a person may not have faith in himself. When there is no self-belief, a person is filled with lies and fear. However, if you believe in a person, then you can ignite their faith in themselves, and then the fear and lies will die, and the person will be able to perform a miracle.
In the absence of self-respect and lack of external recognition, a weak man will seek solace in vices, alcoholism, drug addiction... his character will begin to show aggression, self-love, resentment of the whole world, contempt for others, distrust of people, nihilism and criticism of life. In fact, all these features of the worldview are characteristic of pride and ignorance. To combat pride, you need self-restraint, fasting, work, reading, learning, and humility.
A woman wants and admires a strong smart man. Her instincts simply scream out: I need his power and wits, …. I will be both strong and smart with him... No person will ever offend me or laugh at me. Now everyone will admire me and be scared of me. And my children... my wonderful children will derive only the best from both of us...
There is one more demand: he should be kind with her. Firstly, because we're kind with those we love and secondly, we remember that demons cause pain while noble people are kind.
Passionate and loving man is not suitable for a serious relationship, because, accustomed and sated with love, he will fall out of love and run away to look for another woman. You need a man who's in love with his dream. If you share his dream with him, he, like a mother who loves her child, will love the woman who will share his love with him.
After examining Cupid closely, I noticed that He was a rather ugly, fat, and obviously over-favored youngster. Obviously, it is the children who are over-loved by their parents who most like to play love. We can say that love passions are a sign of an immature personality. Mature people are not inclined to create idols of themselves and other people.
Immature man loves only himself and his pleasure. Deprive him of pleasure, and he will become furious, begin to be rude, swear, whine. Real Mature men, suitable for such a cheap provocation will react with dignity. Again, real love is not hiding, not afraid, not greedy, no doubt, and If a man says he loves me, but do not want to marry, – please send him to hell. If he really does, he'll come crawling up on his knees with a ring in his hand.
Love is service, it is a ritual of care and attention. A loving person is happy to decorate, improve and take care of the object of his love. He is generous, trusting and joyful. Love strives for growth and perfection. Signs such as greed, suspicion, jealousy, distrust and aggression say that this is the love of an immature man to his mother's surrogate. A Mature man is delightful in his love.
Women do not like obsessive men, because obsession is a sign of immaturity and inability to love. Other signs of immaturity are suspicion and aggression. That's what stupid kids and teenagers do, but not Mature men.
As far as excessively persistent men are concerned, there is a theory all girls are familiar with. Such men can only overcome obstacles and immediately lose interest in what is already conquered, that’s why having a relationship with these idiots is a very bad idea. And certainly women should not love such men, have children with them or start a family.
If a man with a dream fell in love with a woman, there is a chance that he knows how to love several things at once. Such a man is able to love his wife and work at the same time, or his wife and child at the same time. If a man is so passionate that he loves only a woman, it is likely that either all his other Affairs will go to waste, or he will grow cold to his wife to be able to serve his other purposes.
Anyone who promises to fulfill your every wish like a gin is a gin. This crazy demon will burn you with his love, run away from him, otherwise you will condemn yourself to suffering. In your pride you flatter yourself that you can control the gin, but that is self-deception.
Man daily activities absolutely necessary for three reasons. First, it is a good reason to take a shower every day. Second, it relieves stress, the source of all human suffering and disease. Thirdly, it is the subduing of the passions of the body and the key to the beauty of the body. A man with a beautiful strong body is always sexually attractive to women.