It's insulting to detain someone who wants to leave. It's insulting not to let someone who wants to come in. The door should open in different directions, this is the secret of politeness.
Morality and politeness are a source of strength. Take care of them. After all, if you lose your power, it will cause fear. Fear will sublimate into procrastination and laziness, robbing you of the power to move. The power of movement is Faith and the source of experience. What will you have left? Fear, laziness, anger, despondency, impotence.
Politeness is when you trust people. Faith is love. Love people politely. Not to love people, not to believe them, is to feel fear. Fear is sublimated into anger, doubt, and aggression. This is all very impolite.
To keep your schedule, you should love what you do. The fact is that love is respect for other people's borders. The boundaries of entities are defined by time. It is impolite when one entity violates the boundaries of another.
When you try to bark at other people, other people bark in reply. It's all simple. Polite and well-mannered people (from the best of motives) try to speak to you using your native language and words that are easy for you to understand.
It's important for any state to make its citizens armed at least in order to protect ITSELF from its own stupidity and tendency for injustice.
It's impossible to build a democratic state in the society of the very strong and very weak ones. So, it's necessary to somehow make their opportunities and forces equal. Democracy is mutual respect between well-armed people. If we want society to be just, it's necessary to provide all people the opportunity to react to any injustice adequately.
One more thing. The society where every citizen is an armed warrior will never be under control of any external forces. As this society will be successful and known for justice. As any injustice together with an offended person's sniping rifle will soon be turned into justice.
Of course, it's also possible to narrow a gap between the weak and the strong ones by changes in the system of education or laws but it barely works in practice.
Mutual respect based on mutual fear, makes people very polite and civilized.
It's important to speak the same language with every person. Be decent with someone decent. Be a pig with a pig. Be rude with someone rude. And those who use power instead of language, should be killed.
Being late is disrespect, being late is an insult, being late is ineptitude, being lie is defiance, it can even be a trick. And only sometimes, vert rarely it's force-majeur and
P.s. being late is traffic. Being late is a messed up schedule and delaying of past meetings. Ah, i forgot. Aaah, and i remembered, being late without warning is a mess, while being late with a polite warning is a little thing of life.
We don't know exactly when to report the beginning of Soloinc insight. Perhaps it was October 2011 and it was connected with a visit to Paradise. Or maybe it was the end of spring or early summer of 2012, when Soloinc's brain was illuminated by the idea of the rational nature of being, that the world is a self-learning system similar to the human brain. No one remembers exactly what day it was. Eyewitnesses report that on that day, Soloinc (who was not yet Soloinc) was lying on the sofa with a thoughtful look and suddenly his face lit up with joy… And shouting, "Eureka! This is the Nobel prize!" he scared the passing of his father. "What Nobel Prize? Are you an idiot?" - good-naturedly remarked his father and went on, and Soloinc remained lying on the sofa, smiling thoughtfully and joyfully. It is said that almost seven years have passed since then.
I don't know how it works, but if I talk to my parents for five minutes, I'm instantly depressed. How to deal with it? - To talk rarely, briefly, very formally and very politely. The less you tell them and the less you ask, the better for everything.
Familiarity is like entering a personal area, and if it is possible for close people, then others need to restrain themselves. Familiarity is an example of intemperance. Civility is restraint.
What is politeness? - Restraint, moderation and sense of taste. When a person loses his sense of beauty and goes beyond the boundaries of what is permissible, he immediately falls into hell.
What is hell? An ocean of pain? - It's so rude. When a person loses his sense of proportion, he leaves the boundaries of beauty and gets to where the guest is greeted with sticks.
Pain and suffering speak of the immoderation of the human character. In man there is no sense measures and more taste, moderation, harmony, courtesy and wisdom.
If you ask many stupid questions, be polite to answer any of them, and all others to remain silent. It's not polite to answer a lot of stupid questions at once.