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10.9401.   AR AR

They carry water to the offended, because resentment is pleasure and drug addiction.  It's not your fault, you're good ...  being good is a joy.  The one who offends you gives you pleasure.  You become addicted to pleasure.  You are angry that you are given little pleasure and demand that you get hurt more and more.

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10.21266.   AR AR

Manipulators like  first say a lot of nasty things, and then pretend to be kind and good.  In fact, this is the implementation of the principle "water is carried on the offended".  First we offend or frighten a person by instilling a negative... and then we show our good half.  Thus, the person running away from the bad, tries to subconsciously behave so that the manipulator was good and kind.

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6.80.   AR AR

The scenario of "bad - good COP" is a complication of the scenario "on offended carry water".  Bad offends, and for good you carry water.

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6.73.   AR AR

The one who hurt you, wanted power over you, the one you resented, possessed you.

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6.72.   AR AR

First they hurt you, then you, offended, carry water for them.

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6.71. On offended water carry.   AR AR

First it scares and attacks you to offend.  Then you run away from him, offended.  Then hurt you sit and cry, feeling sorry for myself, and it is ideal friendly and smiling...  Then you carry water for him.  If you want to run away, it repeats everything again.

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The beginning of the book


6.77. The offended squirrel.   AR AR

The squirrel in a wheel is the offended squirrel on which carry water.  She is hurt, she runs away, put up with her, she runs back and carries water.  If she wants to get off the wheel, she gets hurt again.

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6.85.   AR AR

The desire to justify yourself turns you into a slave.  You were wrong and you were wronged, but you were wrong because you were wronged first.  - I was offended, - you say, and now you want to justify yourself, forgetting that the offended water carry.  You want to prove them wrong?  "Fine," they smile at you, " prove it."

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6.94. The scenario of power.   AR AR

The boss screams, and the subordinate is silent in fear or anger, restraining himself, swallowing the offense.  The subordinate wants to escape, and having escaped from the commanding ora, first he is in apathy and laziness, then, filled with guilt, runs to work, trying to curry favor and make amends.

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4.558. On offended water carry.   AR AR

A fool always complains of fate, forgetting that it is foolish to blame fate when it is his own fault. Fate greatly resents the fool for unjust accusations and forces him to carry water until he repents and admits his guilt.

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6.298.   AR AR

On offended water carry because the one who will be offended, constantly thinks of the offender, so there is love. And if the offender asks for forgiveness, apologizes or takes another step towards, it will be the strongest source of pleasure, addictive drugs.

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3.2433. On offended water carry.   AR AR

"I am offended" means that I am guilty of my offense and, therefore, the feeling of guilt and the desire to atone for my guilt.

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3.2638. On offended water carry.   AR AR

"I'm offended" and "you hurt me" are different, of course, but self-accusation generates guilt and, therefore, such resentment will stick in the throat.

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3.2644.   AR AR

Do you know why they carry water to the wronged?  Because running away from your offense, they get into the network of comforters that give them the drug of consolation in exchange for their soul that is enslaved.

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6.3440. Resentful of himself.   AR AR

Remorse and the sense of rank is the offense himself... And the very case when the offended water carry.

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6.3673.   AR AR

The offended most want to hear from the offender "forgive me, I was wrong" or "I was wrong.".. These words turn the person into the slave of the offender and are sense of a proverb "on offended water carry".

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6.6567.   AR AR

Anyone who Angers and Angers you is trying to get your attention and use it to their advantage. You do not succumb to provocations, keep the power of reason and very carefully monitor the situation, analyze the goals of the aggressor. He wants to distract attention, provoke conflict, resentment, guilt, cause pity.

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7.3396.   AR AR

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7.5002. On offended water carry.   AR AR

I resent you and I carry water, I mean I work, I mean I'm busy for you, and don't call me again, please ...Work is the best way to deal with any mental pain.

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8.6816. On offended water carry.   AR AR

Remember, your weak points are resentment and rage. You will try to provoke, but you do not be a stupid fish and do not swallow the hook.

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10.1480.   AR AR

On offended water carry, because the offended doesn't want to voluntarily do what one must, have him push and punish, it is necessary to make, have to give him the most simple and stupid work, which is easier to control and easier to make.

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10.1481.   AR AR

On offended water carry, because the offense gives rise to pain and the enormous resistance of the mind and senses.  Pain breeds fear, paralyzing the brain.  In such conditions it is hard to think and do skilled work.  To numb the pain, a person takes a simple mechanical work, where you do not have to think and make decisions, for example, to carry water.

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10.8596. A slap in the face to public taste…   AR AR

I have noticed that it is useful for a woman to start a conversation with a slap in the face in order to attract a strong man... In the second stage, it will be useful to cry or gently bandage the injured person.

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10.8777.   AR AR

Self-pity binds you to the abuser.  The offender, offending you, binds you to himself.  That's why they say: "do not forgive Insults", otherwise you will become a slave, dependent on external insults and praise.

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10.8778. Offended.   AR AR

Resentment and self-pity provoke pride in a person.  Feeling injustice in their address, people begin to build their self-esteem, feel like a hero, fighting with the whole world.  Having fallen into dependence on self-pity and heroic joy, a person begins to subconsciously provoke insults and trouble in his address.

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10.9022.   AR AR

If you feel offended, this means that you are taking the problem outside of yourself, losing control, taking a passive position, and sinking into fear.  They carry water to the offended ones, because resentment is cowardice, and a coward is a reference horse that is always fixated on its insults and problems.

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