Narcissistic personality, understated self-esteem of close people, increases their self-esteem. Against the background of contempt for others, she seems very good to herself. In fact, we are witnessing an act of lust for power, and power is a great pleasure. After receiving a dose of pleasure, the addict falls into a phase of recession, where he tries to be good, atoning for his guilt.
The narcissist does not think of himself as a narcissist, but rather as a very good and unfairly wronged person. However, even if he sees his guilt, and falls into an inferiority complex-it does not change anything.
Men whose souls are filled with pride and narcissism are doomed to have big problems in the family, their wives will always be sick, and give them a lot of problems. As for children, there will be no special joy from children. However, proud and narcissistic women are not very happy either.
The narcissistic person can't stand being bad and craves love. If a child tries to be "I am good" all the time, he will begin to deny himself "I am bad". You can not praise the child all the time, you need to scold him periodically, otherwise an extremely sensitive person will grow up, dependent on external good attitude.
The narcissistic personality does not just want love, it wants love from special people, from those who are loved and respected. In perfect condition, Narcissus wants love from his reflection in the mirror. So the more self-satisfied Narcissus is, the more picky he is about those who love him.
The idol Narcissus sincerely wants love and is happy when it is loved, but if it is loved strongly and for a long time, over time it gets used to love and begins to treat the loved one with contempt. It is not enough for the idol of love, he is always hungry and wants someone special to love him.
High self-esteem is necessary in order to grow. Indeed, this situation generates pain and suffering, but they can be compensated for by the joy of growth. People with even self-esteem lose the ability to grow.
Inferiority complex and megalomania dialectically related, one base, other add - in, one without the second is impossible. In every man both sets are simultaneously in their struggle and unity is the formation of the human person.
Narcissistic and dependent personality are one and the same, the whole difference rests on the strength of the spirit. The one who is stronger turns out to be a narcissist, the one who is weaker-a dependent person. And borderline disorder is a matter of unstable energy sources.
Narcissism is in everyone, in narcissism is hidden the source of the energy of growth, reproduction and the desire for beauty. Another question is whether this energy can be turned into sex and children or whether it remains at the level of sterile Masturbation.
Obviously, narcissism is provoked by high expectations or indifference of the mother to the success of the child. Trying at all costs to delight the mother, the child acquires a tendency to grandiose thinking.
The person who considers the greatest value of existence the pleasure, we call the addict. "How do you know a junkie?" - The main features of a drug addict are pride, condescending negative attitude to people and the reality around, Masturbation, sticky dreaminess, narcissism, frustration, laziness, etc.
The enormity of narcissistic thinking is dangerous because it breeds laziness and a sense of futility of effort. Narcissists prefer to dream of great things, but do nothing, because their subconscious rightly believes that it is all unreal. Treated it with compassion and weakening of the sense of grandeur and landing desires to more realistic goals. It is necessary to explain to the person that you do not need to prove anything to mom.
The absence of a mother breeds fear in the child, which breeds inferiority complex, pride, narcissism and megalomania. "What does the absence of a mother mean?" - Excessive demands, negativism, perekuplennosti, cast.
Blessed are the poor in spirit, because they have managed to get rid of narcissistic personality disorder, which gave rise to pride, self-esteem, fear, greed, envy, frustration... In General, a complete set of causes of suffering.
Putting yourself above other people is useless. Here every narcissist thinks he's above the other. A conversation in the sense of" who's cooler " can generate endless lies. When everyone is great, it's good to be easy.