In someone else's eye we see a speck, but in our own log we do not notice this is a proverb about self-deception. Especially well their sins are visible in other people, but in themselves are not visible.
A log in your own eye isn't as bad as it looks. Indeed, we are able to see only the vices and sins that are in us, but this is for the best. Vices and sins in small quantities we need as inoculations. The invisible enemy is especially dangerous, it can very slowly creep up to us and slowly eat us, or we can eat it, get poisoned and infected, and die in terrible agony.
The bigger the city, the more lonely it is. Huge towers pierce the sky with their glass heads, and in them lonely glass people living in small glass houses. They are all so transparent that it seems as if they do not exist.
Sins-a terrible thing in the play "the Storm" Catherine, cheating on her husband, falls into a paranoia of fear and suspiciousness. You remember that fear is the devil, the father of lies and stupidity. As a result, it ends with the fact that, unable to stand the pangs of conscience, on her knees she confesses everything to her husband, further aggravating the situation. In my practice of psychotherapy I have seen a similar picture many times, and I want to say that the motive here lies deeper than it seems. It's all the fault of cognitive dissonance and subconscious desire to break the glass house.
Catherine, breaking his glass house, immediately falls into depression and, as a neurotic, begins to idealize the image of death. How beautiful is death, thinks Catherine, what a cozy grave, the sun on her and the flowers. Is idealist-neurotic to break a life, the symbol of which is his passion, as here, the neurotic begins to love death and death to strive for. The story predictably ends with the suicide of the main character. Finita La Comedia.
I noticed that reading books on psychology in order to apply this knowledge to yourself ends in chaos in the head and life, because in other people's eyes we see a grain of sand, and at ourselves we do not notice a log.
Why do you want to open Pandora's box? You're suspicious, you think you're surrounded by lies and you're looking for the truth? Well, I'll tell you what, Yes ... a lie. You love lies, you live in a house of glass illusions, and if you open Pandora's box, you will find the truth in it and it will destroy your glass illusion, and then you will howl at the moon for a long time in pain, mourning your lost Paradise.
‘Those who live in glass houses should not throw stones’ is a proverb meaning that the you-are-your-own-psychologist approach does not work. Your sins, flaws, vices and so on are visible only through someone else’s eyes…
I noticed that the" I " of a person denies and instantly forgets all the facts of real life that undermine his self-esteem and the picture of the world. The glass house protects the force field, annihilating all the stones flying into it.
The painful attitude to criticism is due to the false assumption that everyone should love and praise me. My parents told me I had to be good, and now that someone says I'm bad, I can't bear the thought.
The recommendation is this: don't you believe. They all lie, a speck, of course, in the eye is, but the log is all the effect of a magnifying glass. Moreover, the critic is a Troll, he criticizes, raises yourself-esteem, for him, criticism is like Masturbation. Normal testers will not analyze and test the system for free, because time is money.