Men’s being inevitably polygamous is false. If a man loves his woman and she loves him back, sex between the two of them will be such that a third one will not squeeze in between. Men usually cheat out of boredom or resentment, that is, either he does not love or he is not loved.
In calming a narcissistic jinn down, a woman makes him serve beauty and light, which is something useful and kind. A jinn that has something to do creates. If the jinn is deprived of love, he will start to destroy himself and the world around him.
A woman starts to cry (she feels hurt and scared, and needs to run away), while a man has to handle a conflict by switching off all emotions and fears. A bit later pain goes away, because a woman's task is to live on.
But as for a man, it's the opposite and when the protection gets switched off, he starts to analyze the situation, his pain and suffering may last really long as he can draw reasonable conclusions. The thing is that the strategy of fight implies many variants and it takes time to consider them all, while female strategy of escape is simple and clear, that's why women's pain is always acute (to be remembered) but fleeting.
A beautiful girl has a very positive effect on a boy, motivating him to strive for perfection and strength. Girls love strong, courageous, smart and rich boys. The boy will have to work hard on himself to learn how to earn money and like the girl.
A man is always a beast but once a woman falls in love with a beast she can turn him into a human being. However, if there is no love in this story, someone will be eaten. It's either a beast who will swallow a beauty or a beauty will torture a beast.
Ocytocin is a thing whose absence causes stress and anxiety. By stimulating the production of this hormone in her man and children, a woman makes them feel anxiety and stress, when she has long been absent, and joyful calmness, when she is present.
It's only a stupid woman who dreams of becoming a man's meaning of life. The task of any woman is to find a man who already got some meaning of life and become his muse on his way to fulfilling his dream.
Men’s passion for cunnilingus can be regarded as the sign of an extreme form of the desire to possess a woman. Such men are extremely jealous and try, literally, to eat their woman. They are after the woman all the time, limiting her freedom to the maximum, literally devouring her and making her live in the depths of their stomach.
A woman will fall in love with a man whom she cannot defeat while being sometimes capable of defeating him. Men love in a similar way. This is why truly durable relationships are about both of them constantly quarrelling, making up and winning in turns.
On dating sites, write that you have long been dreaming about something, for instance: learn to play court tennis, preference, paintball or Dota 2, go to Tahiti or to the Daisy health camp in suburbs. No matter what. What matters is that you have a dream and you would like to find a man who could fulfil it. For example, you write that you dream of watching all seasons of Star Wars and look for a twin soul. As a matter of fact, there are many ways and places… there are thousands of them – all you need is imagination and courage. A client of ours purposefully found a job at the Federal Rescue Service to be closer to hot, single rescuers.
By letting a man pay for her, a woman provokes in the man the thirst for power and the desire to dominate her. Arrogance is thirst for power, mostly characterized by anger, aggressiveness, jealousy, the suppression of another person’s will and so on. What could be more foolish than to become a slave for a handful of coins? – Prostitutes will disagree with you.
It’s about men’s age-old habit of always boasting and sermonizing. On one hand, this annoys everyone and arouses contempt and, on the other hand, women love with their ears. For a woman to love a man, she has to admire how smart and strong he is. One should pay attention to what kind of woman she is. What can amaze her and what can annoy her. It is very dangerous to boast in front of women of high social status. The smarter a woman, the more sophisticated a peacock’s beauty should be. The stupider a woman, the quicker she will believe a man’s nonsense. All other things being equal, a man has to be very smart and sagacious if he wants to talk to a woman from the top league, i.e. a beautiful, smart and rich woman.
If a female sees no code sequence of words and movements in the ritual dance of a male, she will take him to be the male of a different species and will not let him approach her for mating. A man should inspire and ravish a woman, otherwise this man is not of her species.
As far as excessively persistent men are concerned, there is a theory all girls are familiar with. Such men can only overcome obstacles and immediately lose interest in what is already conquered, that’s why having a relationship with these idiots is a very bad idea. And certainly women should not love such men, have children with them or start a family.
A person twisting a cow’s tail or untwisting a dog’s tail is a person who has nothing to do. Such a person has no intelligence and, consequently, no love and, consequently, no job to do. Such a person is stupid, lazy and steeped in vice. Evidently, a man like this will be focused on lustful thoughts. A lustful bull capable of thinking only about cows.
Let’s make it clear: a husband neurotically in love with his wife will love only her and will not love his child. As a result, the neurotic woman will focus 100% of her love on the child, the husband will get none of her love, and narcotic withdrawals will start driving him crazy. To remedy the situation, the man should consciously give some of his love to the child, and then the woman will give some love back to him.
The reason why men lie and brag a lot is because something small needs female love and affection, and women can only love what they admire. This is why young and immature men always lie; otherwise, without love, they will wither away. However, when they start living together, the man wants the woman to love his real self, warm him up with love and affection and let him grow to the ideal he deems himself to be.
The property of a man Onanist – "I want everything at once and quickly", but women do not lag far behind men. Is a woman - a Muse she inspires and helps the hero, and sometimes a woman onaniste, it wants to find a ready-made hero. Such a woman does not understand that the hero loves beauty, not women, so a woman can not attract such a man. Therefore, the woman Onanist attracts the men of onanists, men of unprincipled and little capable of exploits, and such a woman does not know how to inspire.
A man should be a fighter and a creator while a woman should be a helper and a keeper. And can a woman be a fighter and a creator and a man be a helper and a keeper? - Yes they can. - Why? Because there is both male and female essence present in very person and their proportions hardly depend on sex identity.
A woman should understand that most men are paranoid and the only thing that can make them sane is female love and gentleness. Otherwise, a man may become a loose cannon who will plunge into anger and grumpiness. That's why it's very dangerous for a woman to get offended by a man and show her irritation or indignation to him... This way a man will see her as an enemy with all consequences it may involve (anger, aggression, attempts to get rid of the aggressor)...
Experience has shown that there's nothing more stupid than the situation when a man chases a woman. It resembles the situation when a hare chases a lioness and screams "Eat me!"
And generally, it's even silly when a lion chases a lioness. A man is a potential God, his work is to create worlds and not to chase anyone. However, it's not that simple. As we remember that the more we run, the more energy we produce. In other words, a woman is a great reason for working and getting more energy so that to use it for building new worlds later. (The main thing is not to waste it all on women, otherwise this manoeuvre will lose its meaning).
A man's problem is not in alcohol, gambling, women or other human passions. But the problem is in excess and lack of sense of the moderate. Good things come in small packs. And if there are too many good things, the good turns into bad.
Eat an apple to feel fine but eat a hundred of them ...and you'll die in pain.
Male patriarchial attitude, or the desire of a man to care and protect a woman, is probably the strongest male feeling that a woman can use to her advantage. The desire to care, treat gently, forgive weaknesses, protect and owe - it all is in a man's blood. If a woman manages to show that she belongs to HIM, it's wonderful. Using «male patriarchial attitude» a woman can skillfully use the following tricks: “blandishment”, “give me presents”, “a play upon sense of responsibility”, ”a play upon sense of guilt”, “oh excuse me please”, “acting like a little girl”, “I am blond”, “crying”, “pretending to feel bad”, “help me”, “make my work for me”, “meet the desires of mine”. Many women (formally) would like to get rid of male ownership over themselves. But the question is why. In a way, this ownership resembles symbiosis. Thus, a man who owns a woman, letting her own herself and making her a part of himself as he starts to care about her, protect her, spend money and feel her as a part of himself... And a woman, in her turn, by means of purely female tricks rules a man and gets from him anything she wants.
P.s. By the way, patriarchial attitude is in men's blood. And this attitude is given not only to a woman a man considers to be his (but it's much stronger to his woman) but also to other women he knows and treats nicely. Some call it “being a gentleman”. In fact, any woman, can skillfully use this male attitude to her advantage.
Still, in a harmonious relationship a woman can be seen as a man's helpmeet. As a man's experience and role make him a captain while performs the role of a crew. Of course, it can be vice versa but somehow it changes the roles. But still, a woman wants to be cared about and protected as she wants a strong man. As being with a weak man, taking care and protecting him or thinking for him etc., is surely possible but it will hardly bring any family happiness. And of course sex with a man like that will be bad. But sex is one of the free joys in life that shouldn't be underestimated.
That's why it's better for a woman to get the role of a crew and share her man's goals, thoughts, work and plans for the future. In their fight for the place in the sun a couple will become a great team and will live happily together.
Considering this thought deeper, it can be said that it's better for a woman to share the thoughts, ideas and goals of her man, while helping him to achieve goals and inspiring him for feats and deeds to be done... Thus, being like a loyal squire Sancho Panza to Don Quixote to give him a lance when he fights with windmills»… What's more important, is that a man seeing a woman's attention to his ideas and goals and feeling her support, will see this woman as a very precious and loyal person whom he would never like to lose.
A man really chooses a woman because of sex but in family life he's more interested in comfort, peace, safety, coziness... A man wants his life to become easier and more comfortable. People tend to choose pleasure and avoid negative emotions or problems; but love to be helped, praised, loved and supported. If a woman wants to get married to man some day, she should make him think that his life with her will be easier and more comfortable than without her. That's why women's tricks concerning bitchiness, scandals, jealousy and things like that should be used really carefully during a relationship.
There's an opinion that men don't like smart women.It should be explained. Actually, everyone loves really smart people, both men and women. And a smart person knows human nature and can make anyone fancy him/herself. A person may be nice, positive and good in every way. People like that are loved and they try to help them and find favor in their eyes. Because people like that know how to get on well with people and live well and talk well.
And it's smart alecs who are not liked. Boastful people and showoffs are not liked as well as those who demonstrate their knowledge proving others to be idiots as compared to smart them. They don't like those who crave conflicts and regularly oppose themselves or suffer from superiority complexes etc.
Even minimal but regular physical exercises can drastically change a man's looks and health for the better.
It only takes two exercises. Work out abs every day in 2-3 sets and do 8-12 push-ups in 5 sets (or as many as you can). These exercises will make your body beautiful and your posture erect. It trains abs, breast muscles, shoulders, back and arms. With minimal waste of energy and time you get maximal effect for your body and health. The way you look is the way they see you. Where there is a sound body there must be a sound mind. The better you look like, the fewer complexes you have and the more you like yourself and others like you more as well. Women like fit men. And other men will respect you more.
The best age for a man for getting married is about 30-40 years. That's the age a man gets really mature at. He gets some life experience, gets his fill and maybe first real estate. And the most important thing is that he starts to want to start a family as the thought of his woman being pregnant starts to arouse him. Maybe thoughts like these are the main indicators that it's time to get married and start a family.
What's more, there's some financial wealth necessary for getting married and starting a family. Children are expensive to handle as they demand a lot of attention and take many resources.
One should also take into account the concept of emotional and moral maturity. By this time a man becomes experienced, independent, leaves paternal house and gains some life experience. Generally, it's a big human mistake for a girl to get married to a young man in his 20ies. It can be said that Christ's age is 33 and it's approximately the right age when a man can be trusted.