A person who denies and does not love himself is, in fact, a vampire, he thinks himself perfect, does not reflect in the mirror and does not cast shadows.
The inferiority complex generates the strongest self-pity. Say to yourself, I have nothing to feel sorry for, I am and, therefore, I am the truth. Truth has no need to feel sorry for itself, truth is perfection and beauty.
The narcissistic person can't stand being bad and craves love. If a child tries to be "I am good" all the time, he will begin to deny himself "I am bad". You can not praise the child all the time, you need to scold him periodically, otherwise an extremely sensitive person will grow up, dependent on external good attitude.
Don't be too good. If you are too good, you will be instantly devoured. You must be half bad and your bad half must protect you good from all sorts of attacks.
A demon is a person who inspires himself that he is an angel and pushes all his bad into a separate sub-personality, which is called a demon. Thus, the very fact of denying oneself bad and dividing reality into good and evil, generates this very evil and demons. When the system was complete, and good and evil compensated for each other, everything was good; when they were separated, everything was bad.
The idea "I'm good» turns a person into a demon or a witch, and his life - in hell. " I'm good» denies "I'm bad» and this, of course, is a vile lie and a chronic fear of everything bad.
You suffer because you think you're good. You suffer because you think you're bad. You are suffering because you have divided yourself into two halves and have lost your integrity.
The idea that " I'm good» it generates fear of "I am bad", contempt for those who are worse than me, and awe of those who are better than me. Contempt and awe are also different facets of fear.
A proud man is an ear on clay feet. If the proud man collapses, he will lie there, unable to rise, fantasizing about his former greatness. Salvation lies in quelling your pride and starting to grow right out of the mud into a Prince again. We all came from the mud, even those who now shit in the Golden toilet. The one who denies dirt denies himself.
Light is something that is invented and created by darkness. Light is a fantasy and an ideal. Light is a picture on TV, a dream of a sleeper. There is no light... but there is you who deny yourself. You are darkness, everything is darkness. You were bored, you came up with his light, to rejoice.
In their struggle with their inferiority complex, they want very much to defeat the idea of their own insignificance, but at the same time to preserve the idea of their own greatness. Is this fair?
The forked tongue of the serpent symbolizes the duality of the demonic nature. This infernal person thinks of himself as both an angel and a demon. And, in our experience, she usually pretends to be an angel, and denies her demon.
The Apple of sin is a metaphor for man. There is always a Vice in man, and this is good, for the meat Apple is a symbol of love and trust in being. The perfect Apple is too smug, and it's sourer and has no protein in it. Animals and the tree itself is moderately more likes wormy apples.
You dream of becoming an ideal, but the ideal dreams of becoming you. The ideal is infinitely happy that you love it and allow it to somehow be present in reality through yourself. On the other hand, since the ideal is unattainable, the situation of identity with the ideal is impossible. The ideal in the real world is expressed in an infinite growth that fills the entire world without a trace. The ideal must be restrained, otherwise it will paint everything in a black square.
The greatest desire of schizophrenics is to be good – they hate themselves for being bad. A hallucination is a dream of a suppressed wish that made it into reality. Schizophrenics dream of being good, they do something for their parents to praise them, clean up or manifest their love in a different way. However, since a dream (hallucination) is the negative of reality, they do everything the other way round. In manifesting love, schizophrenics could kill someone.
The good is the true one, the one that exists. He who is false and does not exist is bad. Idealists are all bad, because their ideal lives in the future, in the past and never in the present, that is, it does not exist.
The devil is the product of idealism; it is the idealists who have divided God into good and bad. The reason is that idealists themselves suffer from a chronic split personality and therefore they see the black-and-white world everywhere.
Your lack of self-confidence is also a judgment: you judge yourself, thus engendering lie, fear and dejection in yourself. Dejection makes you weak. Faith is strength, so you get weak by killing faith.
Man himself condemns himself to suffering and unfreedom when he believes that he is unworthy of freedom and happiness because he is bad. A man who is not good enough for freedom is a slave to himself.
Your being good is good, but a concrete plan on getting use of you is necessary. Which use will you bring us? Which plan do you offer? Where is your place in the system?
A successful person will be very useful to your personal psychologist. The man, who was himself a psychologist, is usually prone to self-deception and even the log in your own eye ignores. But if you have your own personal good psychologist, it can be used to deal with their shortcomings, weaknesses and vices, put thoughts on the shelves, motivate yourself, make quick decisions, be inspired and fill yourself with energy.
It's not true that you need someone who appreciates you for who you are. You need someone to make you better and pull you up. The maxima that you're good anyways is stupid. There is no limit to perfection and we have more disadvantages than advantages.
Do not feel upset that nobody appreciates your work or understands what you are doing. The fewer people there are at the stage of growth, the better. Seeds thrown along a road will not raise. This is why the fact that nobody goes around praising his growing garden is a good sign and a chance to grow.
It is difficult for a person to plead guilty, therefore, justifying his old mistakes, he fatally breeds new ones. If you didn't judge yourself, you wouldn't have to justify yourself and lie. A lie is a direct ticket to hell.
I noticed that the" I " of a person denies and instantly forgets all the facts of real life that undermine his self-esteem and the picture of the world. The glass house protects the force field, annihilating all the stones flying into it.
Right way or wrong does not depend on the path, but from the man himself. When a person is good, his way is right, when bad, whatever he does, it will also be a lie
There are many ways to deny yourself... If negation is accompanied by knowledge and personal growth, it gives rise to the growth of life, if there is no more growth, it is death and self-destruction.
Suppressing your emotions generates guilt and a desire to compensate for that guilt. That is, if someone presses you, and you do not respond, you automatically have a desire to serve him. I'm bad, I have to be good.
When a man ate the Apple of the knowledge of good and evil, he broke the commandment " judge not, that ye be not judged." Thus, a person automatically became a judge himself, that caused in him a fear of the inconsistency of their own ideals of good. In real world there is no ideal, here good connected with evil, evil this skin for good, his bones and form of. Good does not want to be skinned and bones removed, so, to put it mildly, hates man and considers this asshole the devil.
The essence of idol worshiping is denying of God in himself and looking for sourses of energy outside himself. Such sources make a person dependent from them, turning him into their slave.