The question of perfection is the question of a person's identity to the goal that he wants to realize. The person is initially perfect and ideally suited for all their tasks. However, if he comes up with a non-standard goal, he will have to redo himself for it and train.
Perfection is a very interesting entity. Perfection is inseparable from goals and objectives. Everyone is perfect in their own business, and imperfect in someone else's. Man is born perfect in order to bear his cross. Everyone has their own cross.
Treating low self-esteem by increasing it in external ways is like putting out a fire with wood. The inferiority complex is always compensated by megalomania, that is, pride. To heal a person from an inferiority complex, it is necessary to humble their pride, while discrediting the lie about their own imperfection.
The fear that I might be scolded is pride and self-denial. Pride is self-denial. Pride is a lie that I'm bad. The lie that I am bad creates a denial of lies and a new lie... I am perfectly good. Humility is the realization of the integrity of truth.
A person strives for what he lacks. I seek wisdom because I am stupid. I seek the truth because I am a liar. I strive for courage because I am a coward. I strive for strength because I am weak. I strive for perfection because I am imperfect.
Your problem is that you are sitting inside yourself, you are too focused on your loved one. You're running away from the real world. To escape from fear, focus on people and things, on work and goals.
Everyone is afraid of being thought badly of. This is normal, we all live in a society. On the other hand, given that everyone is focused on themselves, people think about others solely about their attitude to themselves.
You can only love a person if you love yourself. When you love yourself, you accept yourself as you are and forgive yourself for your imperfections. If you forgive yourself, you can forgive others. Otherwise, you will begin to despise the imperfections in other people, elevating yourself above them.
Cowardice is the desire to control your fear or run away from it. By suppressing your fear, you become neurotic. If the neurotic succeeds in his goals, he will turn into a schizophrenic. A schizophrenic is a person who denies himself and his Self, who has squeezed fear inside him into a burning fireball. Output. Fear cannot be squeezed, fear must be released.
The displacement of the fear itself leads to the fact that along with it goes the hope, faith and love. In the absence of hope for yourself, you have to rely on other people. All this is sublimated into a thirst for power. In the absence of self-love, joy goes away, but pain and thirst come pleasure. In the absence of self-belief, the ability to move goes away, but laziness and procrastination come.
The point is that pain and fear are good… You will lose pain and fear, you will remain without faith in yourself, hope for yourself and love for yourself... for everything is one. When you run away from pain and fear, you run away from yourself. You should accept yourself, rejoice in yourself, and love yourself.
The Apple of sin is a metaphor for man. There is always a Vice in man, and this is good, for the meat Apple is a symbol of love and trust in being. The perfect Apple is too smug, and it's sourer and has no protein in it. Animals and the tree itself is moderately more likes wormy apples.
Non-existence, ideas and their energy want to become being. The Genesis though is not perfect, but the perfect ideas are jealous of any form of existence. You-reality want to become an ideal, but the ideal is no less eager to become a reality. From this point of view, reality is primary and more valuable than the idea, but in General it is about equality.
Arrogance is one’s negation of and dissociation from God. God wishes unity with man and the arrogant one wishes freedom. “I am my own God”, said the Arrogant one, forgetting that his soul and body are God and the world around him is God too. What is the arrogant one? – Nothing.
Resignation is simultaneous resignation to yourself and to reality. You want to resignedly serve your goal – so serve it. Is reality resisting and posing barriers? Get round or overcome them. Do not waste too much emotions, just do your job resignedly while taking account of reality.
A schizophrenic is a person with a strong inferiority complex who has succeeded in denying his own Self. in fact, he is a murderer who killed his Self. However, since the Self can not be killed, it periodically emerges from the depths of the subconscious, giving rise to hallucinations.
Alcoholism and other dependencies, generating an escape from reality, there is a kind of schizophrenia that is associated with the denial of self. In the depths of illusion more or less comfortably, and reality becomes unbearable. Man silences his real self and reality.
People immersed in illusions intellectually imagine themselves to be extremely intelligent. However, the degradation of their bodies to deny them difficult, so they are very actively admire those whose body and skills are perfect.
What is pride? They say things that deny themselves suffer greatly. Things lacking humility. Content that does not want to accept its form tends to self-destruction and death. Pride is self-destruction due to lack of humility.
Rejection by the content of its form is pride and lack of humility. Things that deny and do not accept themselves tend to self-destruction. On the other hand, self-development is a situation where the content changes its form to suit its new goals.
Suppressing your emotions generates guilt and a desire to compensate for that guilt. That is, if someone presses you, and you do not respond, you automatically have a desire to serve him. I'm bad, I have to be good.
If a person is afraid to drink, what does it say? "A sick man or a scoundrel." But the fact that he is sick does not testify to his virtues either. All other things being equal, we know that we are faced with a neurotic afflicted with fear, pride, and a mania for controlling his own emotions.