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10.9008. The naked king is courageous.   AR AR

Courageous people are not afraid of anything... including, they are not afraid to be cowards, fools, ignoramuses, liars, wrong ... they are not afraid of fear and other people's opinions.

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10.9061.   AR AR

The thought "what will a person think of me" is selfishness.  Instead of thinking about your neighbor and paying attention to him, you are thinking about yourself.

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10.9071.   AR AR

If you intuitively don't like what people tell you, well, don't believe them, what could be easier?

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10.9080. Lust for power over judges.   AR AR

Dependence on external opinion is a violation of the commandment "do not judge" with someone else's hands.  You go into a passive position, look for a judge, try to bribe him and demand a favorable sentence for you.  If the judge is incorruptible, it creates wild fear and anger in you.

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10.9115. Inferiority complex.   AR AR

Dependence on someone else's opinion is the inability to independently answer the question " Who am I?".  Such people are cunning manipulators, they really want to make the mirror lie, giving wishful thinking.

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10.9117.   AR AR

The inferiority complex generates megalomania and the question " Who Am I?"A person divided in two does not understand whether he is good or bad.  "Who Am I?"- the person asks each counter.  And if people say, "You are good," the person falls into pride and megalomania.  Having become imbued with pride, a person begins to force people to lie, calling him good.

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10.9118.   AR AR

An insecure person is very dependent on mirrors.  He really wants to be good.  He really likes being good.  He can't bear to be considered bad.

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10.9138. Very touchy and vulnerable person.   AR AR

A narcissist is a person who is dependent on someone else's assessment in the sense that he has pushed all the negative assessments of himself out of his head.  Since there was no self-criticism left in this person, he lost his immunity to criticism.  Now this person only wants to hear from others how good and perfect he is.

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10.9166. What will people say?   AR AR

To the question of dependence on other people's ratings, can I ask you, on whose opinion exactly are you going to depend?  What do ants think?  Ants think about food, twigs and leaves, sand, mushrooms and aphids...  What does it have to do with you and your business?  Are you food?  Can I eat you?  Or don't you have enough sex?

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10.9171.   AR AR

To be offended because you don't like this pride.  You set fear against love.  You crave power over love...  This is a terrible crime.

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10.9421.   AR AR

The feeling of your own uselessness is a sign of pride.  You cry, everything is useless and no one needs it.  You don't love yourself.  You try to judge other people in your pride.  What do you need?  If you don't need yourself, why do others need you?

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10.9605.   AR AR

Dependence on someone else's approval is an addiction and fear of pain.  A person cannot bear pain, but pleasure and the feeling of love for him is a drug that generates addiction and withdrawal.

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10.9663. Lazy tenderness.   AR AR

Fear of doing bad, fear of ridicule, fear of bad evaluation....  You say you are lazy, but no, you are just cowardly and afraid to do anything for fear of pain.

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10.11330. A real person.   AR AR

When you are told that you are bad, if you believe it, you will fall into pride.  If you don't believe it, you'll get proud.  If you fall into pride, you will fall into fear, paranoia, and schizophrenia.  Don't judge.  Say: "I am not bad or good, I am what I am.  I'm real."

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10.11536.   AR AR

Many people are so dependent on other people's perceptions of them that, in fact, they don't exist.  The" I " of such a person consists of 62% of other people's ideas about him.

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10.11540.   AR AR

A dependent personality consists of other people's perceptions of themselves.  To get rid of addiction, it would be useful to understand yourself and realize who I am.

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10.11672.   AR AR

When you are loved, you get energy.  The thirst for pleasure from this energy makes you very dependent on other people's ideas about you.

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10.11906. God is your judge.   AR AR

It is difficult to live appealing to many judges.  Man is dependent on his judges.  It's hard to be dependent on everyone.  Let you have only one judge left.  Tell yourself, God is my Judge.  What will God say about me?

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10.11911.   AR AR

If you are innocent from the point of view of a higher court, then you have nothing to fear from a lower court.  The Supreme court will free you from the bondage of other people's ideas.

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10.16072.   AR AR

A noble person is ashamed of himself, and not a noble is dependent on someone else's opinion, and is afraid of other people.

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10.18303.   AR AR

What should I regret?  The mistakes that made me smarter?  About the experience of knowing the truth?  About honesty?

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10.18390.   AR AR

On any criticism in your address say:  "I like it…»

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10.18554.   AR AR

First of all, think about yourself.  What you personally want, not what other people and social norms want from you.  Your actions should be driven by intuitive desires, not external fears.

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10.19012. What will people think?   AR AR

A person who is dependent on someone else's opinion very much wants someone else's approval and thinks something like this:  "What approval?  From whom?  From this gray mass?  I don't care about them, I'm out of the crowd."

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10.19212.   AR AR

Your inability to say no»  it comes from fear.  You are dependent on someone else's approval and you can't bear someone else's disapproval.

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10.20038.   AR AR

The fear that I might be scolded is pride and self-denial.  Pride is self-denial.  Pride is a lie that I'm bad.  The lie that I am bad creates a denial of lies and a new lie... I am perfectly good.  Humility is the realization of the integrity of truth.

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10.20060.   AR AR

Self-respect is accepting yourself as you are.  Don't believe anyone that you're bad.  No one can say you're bad.

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10.20401. Beautiful people.   AR AR

The narcissistic person can't stand being bad and craves love.  If a child tries to be "I am good" all the time, he will begin to deny himself "I am bad".  You can not praise the child all the time, you need to scold him periodically, otherwise an extremely sensitive person will grow up, dependent on external good attitude.

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10.20426.   AR AR

Self-pity can be seen as a drug breakdown, due to lack of external love. They don’t love me, a person dependent on love experiences and cries. To stabilize the situation, you need to fast and suffer steadily, waiting for the body to clear itself and be ready to love again.

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10.20500.   AR AR

You should be guided by ideals and principles, not by the opinions of any people.  People may be motivated by fear, but a noble person should always serve the truth.

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10.20597. Self-sufficiency of the sun.   AR AR

Is it possible  destroy the sun by ignoring it?  You closed your eyes and the sun disappeared?  You hid in the night, but what does the sun care?  God is the sun…  You can use the sun, you can not use it, it's your own business.  Moreover, even if you want to renounce the sun, you can't do it.

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10.20718.   AR AR

There are different ways to calm your fear of people.  Imagine that people are abstract functions or ephemeral forms of things.  Fear is a function, an information signal.  Fear suggests that the boundaries of the forms converge, an accident or absorption is possible.  On the other hand, both the form itself and the fear it generates are all illusions.

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10.20818.   AR AR

Everyone is afraid of being thought badly of.  This is normal, we all live in a society.  On the other hand, given that everyone is focused on themselves, people think about others solely about their attitude to themselves.

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10.20982.   AR AR

Your desire for everyone to agree with you and intolerance of other people's opinions is also pride.  What is surprising is that your life is a continuous burden against the background of rare bursts of contrasting pleasure, necessary for you not to get used to your suffering.  The sinner must suffer; it is not good if he gets used to suffering and so exhausts it.

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10.22202.   AR AR

The crucifixion  Jesus on the cross is a metaphor that your faith should not be dependent on other people's opinions.  Even if your love has been crucified, you must be the one to resurrect it.  True love is good because no matter how many times it is crucified, there are those who will rekindle the flame of love.

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The beginning of the book


8.96. The social instinct.   AR AR

Social  research  is  an  effective  way  of  manipulating  social  mind.  Many  people  are  not  only  susceptible  to  others's  views,  but  also  very  naive  and  credulous. 

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972.   AR AR

Perhaps  human  beings  are  the  most  stupid  animals... 
Barely…  any  other  animal  would  hurt  itself  due  to  stupidity  or  others'  opinion... 

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1210.   AR AR

There  are  many  people  who  get  offended  when  others  do  not  care  for  their  opinions,  but  often  they  themselves  don’t  care  for  opinions  and  thoughts  of  others… 

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2334. Dependence on someone else's opinion.   AR AR

Poor ball-shaped man.
His movement on the field is very chaotic.
Other people's feet are very nimble ... decide where to roll…
Well around, repairing the mischief, he shouted:…
... you cry here and laugh there…

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2496. The joy of a predator.   AR AR

The  best  praise  is  when  you  praise  yourself.  This  very  self-pleasure  that  tells  you  -  Yes,  you  managed  to  do  it,  You  did  it,  You  won  over  yourself,  You  got  a  nice  bag,  Today  is  your  day. 

It's  silly  to  accept  the  reaction  of  others  in  this  situation.  As  these  people  may  have  strange  motives  and  may  know  nothing  about  the  object  of  the  hunt.  Or  they  may  be  in  the  wrong  mood  and  don't  care  about  you.  People  are  full  of  envy,  vanity,  anger,  greed-  so  does  it  really  matter  what  they  may  think? 

A  predator  praises  himself  for  his  bag  on  his  own  and  it's  only  sheep  who  wait  what  the  herd  may  bleat. 

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3096. Firmness of convictions and common sense.   AR AR

Firmness  of  convictions  shouldn’t  give  in  to  opinions  of  the  people  around.  No  majority  or  authorities  will  persuade  me  that  I’m  wrong  when  I’m  right.  The  truth  and  justice  are  the  only  judges  whose  opinion  I  value.

Common  sense  is  above  justice  and  the  truth.  Many  things  are  unjust  and  false,  but  they  have  to  exist,  as  so  is  necessary  and  right.

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7.956.   AR AR

To do anything because you want to be praised or admired is vanity, and therefore the sin of pride. It is clear that feeding vanity is a great pleasure. Understand correctly, when your pleasure depends on other people, it is not very good. Try to do things like this when you enjoy the process itself, not the evaluation of others.

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8.493.   AR AR

It's  not  true  that  you  need  someone  who  appreciates  you  for  who  you  are.  You  need  someone  to  make  you  better  and  pull  you  up.  The  maxima  that  you're  good  anyways  is  stupid.  There  is  no  limit  to  perfection  and  we  have  more  disadvantages  than  advantages.

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8.533.   AR AR

You're wrong about what other people think of you. Your well-being is 90% dependent on other people, do not care about their opinion, you are at great risk. If these people don't want to do business with you and tell other people what a bad person you are, it will make your life very difficult.

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8.800.   AR AR

I  respect  the  truth,  and  someone  else’s  opinion  itself  is  not  the  reason  for  respect.

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8.801. Respect towards another's opinion.   AR AR

I  respect  the  truth  and  hate  disrespect  towards  it. 

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9.321. Sticky pleasure.   AR AR

Addiction  to  someone  else's  opinion  is  a  sign  of  vain  weakness.  This  person  is  like  a  doggy  wanting  to  get  a  pat  on  the  belly.

-Tell  me,  Tell  me  that  I'm  good,  oh,  praise  me,  please,  -begs  he  for  others  'approval.  He  is  so  eager  to  feel  this  vain  pleasure  over  his  body.  He  will  do  anything  to  let  this  sticky  feeling  never  end.

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10.709. Two ideals of love.   AR AR

Two idealists, a boy and a girl, coming together, form a pair of people dependent on someone else's opinion.  The consciousness of these two focuses on what the partner will think about them.  About the partner they think exclusively in the perspective of "does he love them" and"is this love right".

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3.1222. Barking is always good.   AR AR

Look, the point is, if some people praise you, others will automatically bark.  If large praise, scold small, if small praise, scold large.  The fact is that in this world the main thing is balance and simultaneity, they ensure the integrity and growth of being.

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3.1896. God will punish those who have no love.   AR AR

Love is the main killer of remorse.  "They don't love me," you say...  burn them in hell for it."

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3.2018.   AR AR

The point of democracy is to show the doubters that the majority is right.  Doubting and disbelieving people are very dependent on others ' opinion, because they are afraid to take responsibility for making their decision.

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3.2135. Dependence on someone else's opinion.   AR AR

Emotions should be expressed moderately and immediately.  If emotions are restrained, they accumulate and turn into a neurosis.  "Why are they holding them back?"  Fear, they fear the disapproval of other people.

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4.2174.   AR AR

Judge not, lest ye be judged, means do not Express value judgements. If you want to judge someone, judge yourself and your Affairs. This will allow you to love yourself and not to extort this love from others.

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4.2921.   AR AR

You value other people's opinions too much and yours too little. You value your opinion too much, and others ' opinion is too little. You value someone else's opinion of you too much, but you follow someone else's advice the other way around. You fool.

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4.2922.   AR AR

Dependence on other people's opinions is expressed in morbid vanity.

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