The heaviness of being is generated by the absence of love, that is, by all that you do not love. If you love your cross, it will be light, and if you don't love it, it will be terribly heavy. The point is that you can't throw away your cross, because your cross is your meaning of life. If you try to throw away your cross, you will go mad with pain and become a slave to Vice.
Perfection is a very interesting entity. Perfection is inseparable from goals and objectives. Everyone is perfect in their own business, and imperfect in someone else's. Man is born perfect in order to bear his cross. Everyone has their own cross.
There is no one to envy, everyone suffers the same, but someone else's cross is heavier than his from unaccustomed, and someone else's shoes are squeezed.
In Christianity there is the concept of "carry your cross". And this cross should not be given to anyone. And all assistants who try to help, it is necessary to drive in a neck...
Your cross is like your travel bag, which has everything you need to be able to follow your path. If you give someone your cross, you will lose what you need and so you will perish.
Each has its own cross, someone gold, another silver or iron, the third wooden. Each chooses his own cross and carries the one that he can afford. The heaviest gold, the lightest wood. Therefore, they say that the poor are happier than the rich, it is easier to cross them.
Happiness is the conscious sacrifice of oneself to one's destiny and mission in life. Love is happiness. Love is the sacrifice of oneself in the name of the object of one's love. Unwillingness to sacrifice yourself and your time indicates a lack of love.
The metaphor of Abraham and his son Isaac tells us that a sincere willingness to sacrifice in the name of faith works miracles by averting the inevitable. The Chosen does not burn in the fire and does not sink in water. The mission of the Chosen one is the highest value of being, similar to the gift for which a person must sacrifice everything he has.
It's hard when you're carrying someone else's. Its mission and meaning of life is easy. Following the flow of Tao is easy and joyful. What is done with love is easy.
Life is movement, the direction of life is determined by the goals of man and his mission of life. If you set yourself a goal and go to it, then you have no other options but to reach it.
Do not judge anyone, because he who is a judge, cries, seeing human sins. Heavy cross judge. Do you think judges should have such big salaries? Comfort it from the pain, to suffer which is beyond the power of men.
If a man is not willing to pay for his desire, then he is a vile liar. For a true desire (treasure), a person is obliged to sacrifice everything he has.
A route change should not cause a target change. Thousands of roads lead to Rome. A change in purpose should not result in a change in mission. What can be done in Rome can be done elsewhere.
The one who makes and asks for help, gets angels' help. No matter how heavy your burden is, load it on yourself and move out on the road, praying to God for help. God helps the moving.
You don't have to do the opposite. You don't have to do what you're told. You must do as you are told by your mission in life and the pursuit of the perfection of truth.
He who lives in hell in life will be there in death. But you must remember that hell is in the soul of man, not outside it. Some crucified on the cross are much happier than those who crucify him.
One who has understood life is simply doing his job, fulfilling his mission, while completely ignoring all fears and distractions. Complete ignore of carrots and sticks. Do what you must and be what you will. God will not forsake those who are useful to him.
Sisyphus does not just roll a stone up the mountain, but carries a cross there, and a stranger. It is known that you can not take someone else's cross, everyone should carry his own cross. But Sisyphus has lost its cross and is now trying unsuccessfully to replace him as a stranger.
Reference pain is good in that it disappears against the background of all other pain. The one who carries a heavy load, to test and problems indifferent, because hardly anyone scare less when he comes with great.