The essence of managing a neurosis is that you can come out of a neurosis or depression as a new person. You can be what you want to be. Everything will be as you want, if everything is done correctly.
Neuroticism is useful, the neurotic is able to concentrate his attention and love on his goal and fanatically serve it. Plus neurotics are vain, which makes them reference careerists, mad scientists and stars of show business. The only question is what exactly he will concentrate his love on.
Depression and neurosis are a great chance to change and become better. In fact, both depression and neurosis are two signals of varying degrees of anxiety that you need to improve and change for new goals and circumstances.
Neurosis is a situation associated with growth problems. The person does not understand what is happening, is afraid, tries to control the process, resists it. In some cases, it does not grow. And this problem. In others, it grows and turns into an unknown thing. Neurosis is not a disease, it does not need to be treated and feared, but it needs to be managed.
For the neurotic rituals are very important, they give them peace and joy. In dealing with a neurotic should observe the ritual of communication. Neurotics are very suspicious and touchy, once they feel a deviation from the script, they will be seized with anxiety and bitter resentment.
Neurosis always produces a split personality. By creating perfect images within, the mind is forced to piece them together. For example, one I - poor, other - good, or just one perfect partner no, need two or three to collect. Under each piece of the ideal is formed its semi-independent personality. Each personality of their own loves and hates, has its own preferences and tastes, usually in conflict and criticizes other personalities.
Freud saw the cause of neurosis in suppressed sexuality. Erickson – the inability to fulfill your destiny. Adler is in a lust for power that stems from sexual instinct. Still it is possible to say that neurosis is a discrepancy between his view of himself or a growth problem. In General, we can say that the definition of Erickson wider than all other ideas.
Allowing the child to sit on his hands for a long time, sleep with his mother, the mother concentrates it on his love and turns into a neurotic. Now, when a child is separated from his mother, he feels fear and anger. Now the child will be paranoid with delusions of vanity.
"Neurosis" - a medical concept and" neuroticism " in psychologists are different concepts. Moreover, the concept of neurotic is outdated, and today is replaced by a gradation of 6 different cognitive personality disorders.
The tale of Ilya Muromets gives hope to all people who have lost a lot of time on entertainment, vices, entertainment, depression and depression. Blessed are the poor in spirit, because they are like a coiled spring that has been coiled for a long time. The energy stored in the point is enormous. Even our universe is said to have originated from a point. If the Genie is released from the bottle, he will be capable of miracles.
The lack of growth and movement leads to the release of energy, which can be accumulated by stretching, like a bowstring or spring. The stored energy can be used for explosive growth. To do this, you need to have a specific goal and avoid energy leakage. Fear and joy are radiators to release excess energy. In addition, the energy can leave through parasitic actions that are kind of calming. Any activity, including thoughts, leads to a drain of energy.
Black-and-white dichotomous thinking breeds obstruction. Man seems to lock himself on the border of these two environments. To gain freedom, you need to destroy everything and prove that the razor blade is an illusion of the mind. Black and white are one, and no different from each other.
This truth is the unity of potential and realized energy. Therefore, the less a person realized himself, the more potential energy remained inside him. Blessed are the poor in spirit, for their potential is enormous.
If the conscious mind does not take into account the interests of the subconscious in its actions and does not listen to feelings, this will provoke a great conflict and sabotage. If you lose contact with the subconscious, you will be left without the energy of love and inspiration. Laziness, apathy, fear, anger, neurosis and other delights of life will become your eternal companion.
The perfect man is the master idealist neurotic. In fact, this is a terribly unhappy, burning in hell of eternal suffering. What do we know about him other than that his life is eternal hell? – We also know that he always pretends to be very smart and good and happy. That's terrible. When does he cry? - Usually when very drunk or at night.
The idea of yourself is a mask dressed on yourself. The mask that defines your meaning of life and your purpose. Man's free will is such that he can choose his own mask, answering the question "who am I?". Thus, he will determine the meaning of his life, properties and functions of his Self. Determine what is good and what is bad. A mask is a role that a person should play well. Human consciousness is his mask, his role. The role should be played well, it will give a person happiness. Poor performance causes suffering. However, a person can choose his own role and even within it to redefine its properties and characteristics. It's the main goal, so improvisation is encouraged. A game in which there is no impromptu, too ugly and generates neurosis.
You should know that idealists are extremely inattentive to the little things that are not interesting to them, and absolutely attentive to everything that is interesting to them. Yelling at a neurotic for inattention is generally ineffective.
Before the birth of a child, the mother neurotically loves her husband, then her husband removes love and throws it on the child, the husband without love dies from the cold, and the child, on the contrary, love burns. As a result, everyone suffers.
The neurotic child is looking for love, but does not want to pay for love. He reaches out to other children, wanting love from them, but giving them nothing in return... gets nothing from them. It Angers him and he attacks other children, and those in response.
The classic God is a monstrous paranoid, hungry for love and attention. Why was he alone? Its civilization has created virtual worlds and propagation through the tube. God does not have to work, he does not need to communicate with other people. He's completely alone. Pure mind? No! Absolute child...Neurotic... Idol... The devil... How to live with such a God? They say evil can be conquered by love, order and beauty.
The Internet seeks to create a quantum God. The soul of the Internet is a quantum God, the Internet and its servers are the brain and its neurons. The soul of the quantum God is "Variothoughts". "Variothoughts" is Soloinc.
Idealists and neurotics always lie because it's hard for them not to lie. There is no humility in these people and they are very angry with the truth, taking everything they disagree with as a personal insult and insult.
A neurotic is a deep-sea fish that, if given freedom, will be torn apart by lust for power and vanity. The neurotic lives under the eternal pressure of fear. Megalomania and lust for power save his Ego from destruction. If this man escapes from the power of fear through the acquisition of money and power, a monstrous pride will happen to him. I have overcome fear is a proud man, Sozvezdie people and it will literally explode from the inside, contaminating and spoiling everything within a radius of 10 km.
Inside the neurotic lives a lump of contradictions, which, on the one hand, turns his life into hell, and on the other - his source of energy. Weak and not trained neurotic, unable to control this jet scream inside yourself turns into a schizophrenic whose time is devoted to the suppression of these contradictions, which make it literally breaks. The lump came from fear, to contain fear. A neurotic is a fish living in the depths of an ocean of fear. Vanity and pride save the neurotic Self from being destroyed by fear. The problem is that if you remove pride, fear will destroy the unfortunate, and if you remove fear, it will tear from pride. It takes gradual decompression and very hard goals to change fear to work. Work and dreams are as hard as fear.
A neurotic to tame a jet scream in his chest needs to come up with a job for him. This gin can hold either fear or dream. Gradually replacing fear with a dream, and starting to slowly and gradually emerge, the neurotic realizes the principle of decompression, which will give him a chance to escape. If there is no fear, there must be a dream.
In the ordinary state, the neurotic is afraid to be aware of the contradictions in his chest because he is afraid of them and rightly believes that this can destroy his personality. The main solution to this problem is personal growth and dream. A hard, distant dream, the achievement of which will involve hard and endless work. Work, which is growth, is joyful. And don't forget the truth, the truth is what shapes things.
It is difficult for a person who was over-loved in his childhood to find a good job because he thinks everyone owes him something. For such a person, looking for work is beneath his dignity: he considers that others have to offer him work. In his view, he does his employer a huge favor by working for him. Not all employers need that favor.
Praise and attention are the most important and irreplaceable sources of pleasure in human life. Once you deprive a person of praise and attention from kith and kin, this person will soon become a psycho or a maniac.
Psychoanalysis is the basis of Western civilization. It was psychoanalysis that created modern man. A man of efficiency, sanity and balance. The job of a psychoanalyst is to maintain the best in a person. Psychoanalysis allows us to avoid extremes and cultivate a balanced person. A man who could overcome his complexes and neuroses, his stupidity and his delusions. A man of thought and reason. A man who has ceased to be a slave to his subconscious, his feelings and emotions.
Upgrade and fine-tuning of the human soul - that's what a real psychoanalysis.