Direct your fear to the object of your fear. Fear is very easily transformed into rage. Rage is pure energy and power. On the other hand, remember that most of your fears are phantoms, so try not to be like a dog barking at every passer-by.
If you don't like what you have and want more, you need hunger. Wild, furious hunger, sweeping away everything in its path, will be the energy of your movement upward. Get rid of everything superfluous, break everything that can be broken. Let all you have left is primal hunger.
One should distinguish between apathy and humility. Humility is courage and strength. Apathy is the despondency associated with the loss of faith in yourself. One hates the outside world, but because there is nothing one can do, one becomes apathetic and begins to ignore it.
In real life a Fighter needs strict rules and hedges. A fighter should store up a furious desire for freedom. And when it comes to a fight, a fighter should become unchained to get filled with a wild power of chaos freedom. The wilderness of freedom will make a Fighter especially strong during a fight. The monster who becomes unchained, should gain freedom during a fight. There are no rules for a fight as it's instincts that determine the course of action.
You attack because you're a hunter. You are hungry and you need some resources. And the resources can be totally different. For instance, you may need slaves to make them work for you.
You attack because you are scared. And it's a self-defense, a counterblow or preventive measures.
You attack because you go crazy and see everyone as your enemy. And it's a disease. Besides, there are different types of craziness: paranoia, madness, or megalomania. The motives of any crazy psycho are covered with the mist of mental illness.
- And where does stupidity belong to? - To the first two types.
A mother teaches a child to love... fulfilling his every desire, is making a big mistake. She teaches him that love is the fulfillment of desires, and, therefore, the one who dared not fulfill at least one of his desires, does not love him and, therefore, there is evil and the enemy that causes fear, anger and hatred... Fleeing from enemies, the enemies hate the near enemy wither and fade, sinking into apathy and laziness.
The Oedipus complex is the desire to win love and is usually accompanied by Thanatos (the desire to kill rivals). And if the object of love is not particularly looking for this love, then Thanatos with hatred refers to the "beloved" person.
A child is a reflection of his parents, which is controlled through the management of himself and the external circumstances that surround the child. With a child who fell into fear and denial of reality (aggression is the main symptom of fear and unpreparedness for real life), you need to work out, communicate, teach him life. This is not one conversation from the category of "please be an ideal child and then you gingerbread" and not an exorcism procedure for expulsion from the sinner of the devil. This is a long and painstaking educational process. There are no problems, just a small and immature soul is extremely afraid of the real world, can not live, can not communicate... from which falls into the rage of a wild beast. The problem is solvable, it would be on that desire, patience and goodwill.
Rage and anger should be kept within and used solely as a powerful internal source of energy. Outwardly, one should remain calm and refrain from impulsiveness. For in many circumstances it would be wiser to exercise patience and calmness in order to maintain one's position, to accumulate strength, and to gain time.
Sadomasochism and sadism are the qualities of the soul, inherent to feminine essence ( not to sex, but to the very essence). These are so called «compensational desires».
Sadomasochism is inherent to person due to lack of confidence and guilt. Therefore, a person feeling guilty subconsciously wants to be punished and this way to be released from fear, pain and responsibility. He gets calm and forgiveness. It gives great pleasure and satisfaction.
But any extremity can easily turn into its opposite. The inferiority complex easily turns into the «God complex». Fear and pain turn into hatred and anger. The same way is here: inner sadomasochism easily turns a person into a sadist under some circumstances. People that were beaten and humiliated much, bully the weaker with particular pleasure and cruelty having got power.
A woman's desire to tame a raging animal of a man results from her primal instincts. And the stronger the man and his rage are, the more pleasure a woman will get out of taming him... A weak woman who tamed a Strong man… The stronger he is, the more rage he's got and the nicer a woman feels while taming him. A raging animal wants freedom, but... a female needs the strongest of all males and only after making him tamed she will be happy.
When a woman looks at the best man, she imagines her future children. These children will be wonderful. As it's exactly her Mr.Right. And it's only him who she will show her real nature to. For others she will always be a monster or a set of masks, but the one chosen by her will get to know her real nature.
It's hard to hate someone weaker. You may simply break this person. But someone stronger is hard to break indeed so it's rational to hate. Hatred gives strength. And the more strength one gains, the more possible it becomes to break someone stronger.
Don't say no at once, don't make someone's hope die.
Making one's hope die you break this person's heart. Give this person time to find a new reason for hope and forget an old one. Disappointment that gets accumulated drop by drop, gives one time and strength to put up with everything.
A broken-hearted person feels excruciating pain. The fragments of the broken heart cut this person's soul. This terrible pain makes this person hate you more than ever as you're the source of this pain.
You got a hard lot. Many things in your life make you feel hurt, angry and hateful. Usually these emotions ruin your own soul. But not today. Today you got a hard fight and a terrible battle. Today you will need more power to defeat a desperate powerful enemy. You have conserved your anger and hate for a long time. And it's only today that you can clench your rage collected from a hundred sources, like a single fist. And this unity of hate, anger and pain will give you inhuman power that you will unleash on your enemy, simply driving him soul-deep to hell.
Joy drives one crazy as well as grief does... And love drives crazy too… And hatred does as well. There is incompatibility of any emotions and coldness of head. It's either emotions or sense. Together they don't work well. It's better to think and take a decision when the head's mode called "sense" is on.
On the other hand, due to the fact that there's no perfection in its pure form in thisworld and any real perfection is in the balance, then feelings exist only for switching off the brain from time to time. Because making the process of taking decisions a task for the brain only will lead to a global disbalance and everything will be rather dead than alive.