Kindness is one of the cornerstones of the mind’s evolution. Animals are very aggressive and rarely help each other. Kindness is a mode that favors exchange of information.
To get an answer, try not to ask a question. The answers are often afraid of the questions and fleeing from them. Question this aggression, no one likes, when to him belong aggressively.
Don't take hits from inconvenient adversaries, they often want to provoke you and involve into conflict, they feel your weakness, feel they can eat you and own your energy. Nearness of the food makes them aggressive, they attack you, barking, trying to provoke fight. The best you can do is shout “No! No, doggy”.
It's only love that can win the triumph over evil. Human evil nature is the direct consequence of need for love. They really lack love and it makes them evil.
A situation when someone wants to get too much but gives too little, is called 'vampirism' and makes people want to hammer a stake into the bloodsucker's heart.
Angry and aggressive people leave themselves wide open for others as they attract too much negative attention and look for trouble... That's why try at least to pretend being friendly and smiling. Even if people disgust you and make you feel nauseous...
Standing up for your opinion is not when you're whining or aggressive, but when you're light. Clarity and confidence of judgment, that's what convinces people.
It will be a disaster. A situation like that in the world of limited resources and opportunities will lead to a disaster.
And who will do all dull and routine job that includes 80-90% of all possible deeds… People will become unhappy, aggressive and dissatisfied with their lot and life.
And still equality is impossible. Still some will be better and others will be worse. In essence, it will change nothing besides one moment: there will be more unhappy and dissatisfied ones, who will soon join the aggressive ones and the world will turn to chaos.
Any piece of advice should be taken rationally, for instance: the advice to be yourself doesn't mean you should keep on being a dumb aggressive idiot neglectful towards anyone's wholesome advice.
A woman should understand that most men are paranoid and the only thing that can make them sane is female love and gentleness. Otherwise, a man may become a loose cannon who will plunge into anger and grumpiness. That's why it's very dangerous for a woman to get offended by a man and show her irritation or indignation to him... This way a man will see her as an enemy with all consequences it may involve (anger, aggression, attempts to get rid of the aggressor)...
If a young man tries to get in touch with a girl who dislikes him and if she's generally not in the right mood, it makes her let him know she's not into it. And usually a girl turns rough as she does her best to show a guy she's not interested in him.
Many people say that being rough or aggressive like that is wrong. And that a self-respecting smart girl shouldn't act like that. But the question is why not? As time is money and a man is a creature who can take even any slightest ambiguity as a great chance and may start getting fresh without understanding any hints. That's why if you dislike someone it makes sense to quickly show this person to search for other variants. Such a quick reaction will save a lot of time and efforts.
Again, men are not evil-hearted and if you need a man's help some day, it's always ok to come up and explain you didn't notice his inner advantages at first sight. And this man will have to help…
Continence makes hormones poison the body and give a rush to the head. A person may become very aggressive or strange... However, continence may be useful as it may redirect the flow of unreleased sexual energy to some other activities. For instance, studies. Hence, continence is useful for studies. It's also useful for soldiers before battles. Thus, continence becomes useful when some extra energy is necessary or when one feels exhausted or lacking energy. But when this unreleased energy is not channelized into some constructive tasks, it may simply drive a person crazy. As this person may simply be on the boil like some crazy whistling kettle, go a little nuts and go straight to a nut hospital.
Dislike, waiting, fear –these emotions and many others switch a person to a mobilization mode. It’s an ancient mode of a hunter and warrior, when a person strains and starts to spend 10 times more energy. It’s necessary to react to danger quickly. However, it’s an extreme working mode – it destroys organism, leads to diseases, causes tiredness and it is linked with aggressive behavior. This mode is necessary for the state of struggle. In the modern world, where the majority of threats is virtual and it’s undesired to kill the adversary, this mode affects a person suicidally. Moreover, dislike, negative and danger of being late literally surround a person, he is in a mobilization mode for days. This should be stopped. Mobilization is needed when there is struggle, if there is no struggle, there is no threat. When you understand logically that there is no threat, you should turn this alarm off, as it prevents from working. You should switch thoughts from threat to something pleasant and easy - to rest, beach, nature, children, home, your loved one. So that inside you feel the click that the «Danger mode» is turned off. When you feel relaxed, you should keep doing main job.
There are some nuances. The key of switching is turning the danger mode off, not reaching the idiotic joy and swimming in it. In doing so, your brain works logically and you know and remember everything. Having turned the «danger-alarm mode» off, you keep doing your job.
We should turn the alarm and «danger mode » off, not more than this. We should remember dangers and know about them. If new threats emerge, they should be reacted to appropriately.
Anything new that joins the old, should realize that it's nothing but a joyful spirit yet. And it's possible to become material only through suffering.
The practical meaning of this thought is the following: anything new suffers and gets abused at first, and it makes the new stronger and worth existing. Some living examples in real life include the abuse of new conscripts by older soldiers and heavy criticism from well-known scientists towards new ideas. And probation period and the start of any career resemble it all too.
Everyone and everything should prove its right for existence by the ability to withstand any attacks of aggressive external circumstances.
Main symptoms: anxiety, turbulence, shifts from activity to apathy, insomnia or sleep problems, differentiating oneself from others, thought about one’s own exclusiveness, the patient’s despise for those he considers inferior or more stupid than himself, immersion into pseudo-mystic reasoning, mistrustfulness, suspiciousness and aggressiveness. Hallucinations are possible.
The disease may aggravate one’s greed, unhealthy curiosity, cruelty, dejection or viciousness. Mood swings from bitter to bitterly amiable viciousness are possible. One may be now extremely friendly, now increasingly aggressive.
The more stupid a person is, the more this person wants to tell others what to do. Stupidity is very aggressive Глупость очень агрессивна к тому, с чем не согласна.
It's all because stupidity is known for template thinking and stereotypes. Stupidity that has once believed in some template, is no longer able to get two things. The first one is that there are many exceptions from any rule. And the second one is that any template should be compromising as anything it may ever be applied to, may differ a lot. It's important to be able to generalize properly to apply templates the right way. As a rule, stupidity doesn't have a complete command of dialectics and badly recognizes similarities and differences.
True wisdom is capable of accepting any point of view while seeing it as an exception. But stupidity doesn't accept any different points of view.
I started this text with the idea that stupidity tends to teach others in an aggressive way. It happens because the templates that stupidity applies are not compromising and thus, stupidity is doomed to see everything as WRONG and imperfect. Stupidity thinks that it is obliged to correct all those wrong and imperfect people around. It simply thinks of itself as an embodiment of the Truth...
P.S. Besides, stupidity is often unable to size up the situation in the right way to apply the right behavioral template to it.
One lie leads to quantum uncertainty, which destroys the space of being. Lying is a disease that attracts the attention of the body's immune system, which begins to aggressively crush liars, trying to restore the spatial continuum
The giver of too much will receive too little. He who takes too much will give too little.
Parents who give their children too much corrupt them. In this sweet syrup, weeds and vices grow very well. Selfishness, malice, rudeness, stupidity and powerlessness... This is only an incomplete list of vices nurtured by blind immeasurable love.
A woman should avoid men who believe that their parents owe them something. A man takes his eternal, that "all he needs" a woman and becomes unbearable, aggressive and touchy. A person who believes that someone owes him something is by nature a degenerate, unsuitable for a relationship.
It is dangerous to love a cowardly and weak person. Such people, believing that there is nothing to love them for, intuitively believe that only those who are worse and weaker than them can love them. This thought awakens in them pride and contempt for the lower. They become arrogant and aggressive.
Depression is the loss of love, faith, and hope, replaced by fear, doubt, and falsehood. Love is movement, and lack of movement is a lie. Everything that tries to stop you from moving towards the goal is a lie. Depression is the inability to resist a lie. We know the following masks of lies – fear, laziness, doubt, indecision, suspiciousness, apathy, aggression, etc.