The problem with sinners is that they seek consolation and comfort. At first, comfort seems to bring joy to them but, by contrast, their sufferings increase.
By observing life, I understood this: arrogance and fear are the only causes of human suffering, and resignation and love are the only remedies for them.
The remorse associated with fear turns a person into a sadomasochist, who is very pleased with his own suffering. Suffering, such as if a person atones for their sins and it reduces the pain that causes him a conscience and guilt.
A sinner cannot be delivered from suffering. If a sinner is delivered from the suffering with which he atones for his sins, this man will go mad with fear.
In vain you wish to make your life easier. Lightness breeds fear and paranoia. We are deep-sea fish, if a person is pulled to the surface, it will literally tear from fear into pieces.
Of course, boredom is a mortal sin and a source of endless suffering. But boredom is necessary for a person to find love and so be saved. Trying to kill boredom with entertainment and vices is obviously more like firewood under the devil's cauldron than saving you from suffering.
Pride is a desire to change the outside world, not yourself. Different variations of this desire are the desire to save the world, nihilism, the eternal search for the causes of their problems outside themselves.
A sinner, doomed to suffer, is a person whose main aspirations are peace, pleasure, fulfillment of desires and passions of the body. He can not find peace until he satisfies the passion of his desires and strives for them to find peace.
They are free within their borders, but as soon as they cross the line, the chains will stretch and the spikes of the shackles will tear the flesh of their slaves.
When you love and admire a person, you learn good things from them. When you are afraid or envious of him, you learn bad things from him. From the first you grow and rejoice, from the second you degrade and suffer.
The narcissist is an ever-diminishing entity that strives to the limit of zero. Turning into a dot is very painful, so daffodils are very nervous and suffer greatly.
The main cause of suffering is comparison. It is especially dangerous to compare yourself with the future and the past, when the times of dawn are behind you.
To impose your love on those who do not need it and who resist it, is pride and the greatest villainy, for which you are waiting for monstrous suffering.
If you suffer and howl in pain, you have the worm of sin inside you. Worms of sin can be of different nature but the main one is the worm of arrogance.
The carrot and stick in life are the same, but there is a nuance. We quickly get used to pleasures and there are always few of them, but we run from pain and are afraid of it. As a result, subjectively, the bad turns out to be three times more than the good.
The main human problem is fear. Fear engenders paranoia. Most people are paranoids. Paranoia engenders anger, aggression, sufferings, despise, disappointment and dejection.
You feel bad because you're bad. You could be good and you will be good, but you are lazy, you are looking for the easy way. Alas, the easier the path, the harder it is. The more you avoid doing what needs to be done, the more you make it worse.
Epiphany is when you relax and stop whining and suffering about the imperfection of the world. The world is beautiful and perfect. The world loves us. Only a fool and an ignoramus scolds and fears the world.
You are angry at imperfection. This is stupid. Everything is perfect in this world, but there is no limit to perfection. Uniqueness is what distinguishes one perfection from another. Your desire to make all perfections equal is pride, the source of all your suffering.
A person is always dissatisfied with something, and this is fine. As long as there is discontent, there is life. You should be happy with your discontent. Discontent means that there is work, there is a hell that can be turned into heaven.
Resignation is when you take flies from your soup without too much suffering and keep eating it. Arrogance is when you are choking on your soup with flies but keep eating it. Alternatively, you refuse it and die of hunger.
A paradox is two opposite two points of view. Intelligence easily combines the opposite into a whole and is not afraid of paradoxes. In the absence of intelligence, a paradox is perceived as a major problem, engendering fear.
Man's spirituality is his philosophy, his consciousness and reason. A spiritless person is an unconscious person, and, rather, not even a person, but an animal.
Ask, and it shall be given you, but many people do not want to ask out of arrogance. “We don’t want to ask anything,” they say. “We want that it be given to us just like that. If we ask, we will be in debt.” Arrogance turns them into sinners and makes them suffer.
Ask, and it shall be given you, but many people do not want to ask out of arrogance. “We don’t want to ask anything,” they say. “We want that it be given to us just like that. If we ask, we will be in debt.” Arrogance turns them into sinners and makes them suffer.
It's much easier to be unhappy rather than happy... Happiness implies being active while unhappiness means hiding into a snail house and doing nothing...
We can say that the meaning of life is to be happy. If a person does everything or much correctly, he is happy. If he is overcome by misfortune, then he is prone to make mistakes.
One might say that the meaning of life is being happy. If you do everything or many things right you're happy. If you are dogged by misfortunes then you're mistaken.
Offended the man that God is very offended God... Very. A person offended by God is a great sinner, who not only offended God, but offended and did not apologize, offended and did not repent. And he did it more than once and not twice ...a lot ...many times ...until God finally stood up and cursed him and all his offspring seven generations ahead.
Fish very much dream of Paradise. Stupid fish are very jealous of a Man living on a Paradise island. Fish also want to live as human beings. Fish thrown on the shore, fish jumping in the network. Pisces are ignorant, they do not know that it takes a long time to evolve and work on themselves to get out of the ocean to the ground. Fish don't know that Paradise is full of predators. Fish do not believe that gills and lack of legs is a big problem. Pisces is extremely stupid.
The attempt to calculate time causes tension and kills joy. If you want to be happy, you should stop calculating time. Calculating time is like calculating money – it is vulgar and trivial.
I do not advise you to abuse memory training, the better a person's memory, the more he is an idiot. Why would he? He remembers everything by heart. However, bad memory is also not a sign of a big mind.
Feelings, devoid of understanding and awareness, devoid of feelings is a lie. Truth is joyful, truth is the unity of feelings and consciousness. An honest man is joyful, a liar is sad, and full of suffering or restrained insensitivity.
Insensitivity is not a given, but the result of great restraint on the part of consciousness. Such a tightness generates a lot of vices of the soul and body in a person. The extreme form of such restraint generates psychosis and schizophrenia.
Having ceased to amuse oneself with illusion, a person can get rid of the mask of this illusion. The mask gave the person a form and imposed on him methods and properties of this mask. Attempt not to obey the mask caused a feeling of guilt and pain in his chest. Answer yourself – who am I... I am a mother, I am a wife, I am a citizen, I am a Christian, I am a good person, I am an honest person, I am a good daughter, I am a good granddaughter, I am a good friend. Every single one of these masks puts obligations on you that need to be followed. However, you can override the properties of the mask, more accurately defining what is also good and bad. A man must be good. When he's bad, his own Self starts to self-destruct, howling with pain and suffering.
The idea of yourself is a mask dressed on yourself. The mask that defines your meaning of life and your purpose. Man's free will is such that he can choose his own mask, answering the question "who am I?". Thus, he will determine the meaning of his life, properties and functions of his Self. Determine what is good and what is bad. A mask is a role that a person should play well. Human consciousness is his mask, his role. The role should be played well, it will give a person happiness. Poor performance causes suffering. However, a person can choose his own role and even within it to redefine its properties and characteristics. It's the main goal, so improvisation is encouraged. A game in which there is no impromptu, too ugly and generates neurosis.
Man would very much like to be good, but he is too weak and stupid to have the strength to do it. Bad to be hurt bad, so bad people always suffer and have a very horrible look. However, do not be afraid of evil, evil it is very weak and only attack from fear. If it sees in you good and love, it will run up to you and will, caressing, lovingly lick hands. Give him a piece of sugar, make him happy.
As a consolation, reflexive answers work well. By affirming aloud the right of a person to suffer, it is as if you are freeing him from suffering. Now that he knows he had a right to his emotions, it'll be a relief.