If you think one thing and do something else, it means your spirit and you are weak, and you are the slave of your subconscious (the It). Emotions, sins and vices control you, and all your reason can do is to helplessly bark at and scold them, like a small dog.
First of all, people should be taught to think and feel. The inability to think and feel generates mental disorders, neuroses, idealism and fills life with pain and suffering.
To overcome your impulsiveness, try to restrain your reaction until you write down your thoughts. Write down why you want to do it first, and then do it.
Prove to yourself that what you want is beautiful and worthy of love. And the subconscious will inspire you with energy and desire. You have to convince yourself to say "I Do."
Having made a decision, you should stop all your thoughts and, listening to yourself, understand what you feel-joyful relief or heaviness and anxiety. Right decisions are joyful.
Man always knows the truth, it is impossible not to know the truth. We are born knowing and feeling the truth. Our intuition knows the answers to all questions. But we are afraid of our intuition, afraid of ourselves. We fear the truth, we run from the truth, we are angry with the truth. We love lies because we are cowards, ignoramuses and liars.
Knowledge comes through the senses, not through thought. Receiving new information, it should be felt. If you pass the new through a swarm of thoughts, it will generate doubt, denial and resistance. In the end, you will feel pain and fear, and everything will understand the opposite. On the other hand, if such a person is told a lie, he will turn it into the truth.
Feelings are an ocean. The wind and the waves on its surface are the mind, and the mind is the atmosphere... Waves are not just waves, they are information code. The system is inverted, the mind in the depths of itself, through the cold of space is powered by the energy of the Sun. Space in this system is a heat insulator. At the bottom of the ocean, too, there is an insulator and its Sun.
You misunderstand the concept of restraint and calm. You suppress anger and fear, which is unhealthy. It is necessary through the enlightenment of the spirit to abandon emotions such as fear and anger.
Try to allocate all your negative emotions strictly limited 40 minutes a day. You set the alarm for 40 minutes and at this time you force yourself to cry or be angry.
You’ll find it difficult to like your interlocutor as long as you are insincere and keep your negative emotions inside yourself. You have no faith in you as long as you have no love and, consequently, you cannot be trusted. Nobody will want to deal with you if they feel you are a liar.
Empathy training is next. Carefully and without interrupting listen to other people's ideas, especially different from their own. You thank for opinion, you ask leading questions, trying to fully clarify thought. Pondering where these thoughts might be useful to you or intersect with your own. That is, you are looking for similarities and useful differences that you could take for yourself.
Visualize your negative emotion as a red balloon, such as resentment, anger, shame, or fear ...gently take it in your hands, hug, lick and eat... "Can I put a needle through him, big Bang?"
The subconscious is ready to be motivated for the sake of beauty and love. If the subconscious mind to prove that what the consciousness wants is beautiful and worthy of love, the body will support it with feelings and desire.
Hot thoughts need to be implemented immediately, until they have cooled. Hot thoughts go up and cold thoughts go down into the depths of the subconscious. Hot thoughts are thoughts for which the subconscious is ready to allocate energy. The colder the thought, the less energy.
Pleasure from vices, on the one hand, reduces sensitivity to pleasure, and, on the other, increases sensitivity to pain. Lust, gluttony, lust and vanity make a person very vulnerable.
The point is that if you let go of your negative emotions, they will overflow, and the sensitivity to them will automatically decrease. The more immune you are to negativity, the calmer you are.
Feelings and emotions are feedback mechanisms between the subconscious and consciousness. Reacting positively or negatively, the subconscious mind makes it clear to the consciousness of its reaction to information received from the outside.
The first question is, who am I? Second question - what do I want? When I is the unity of the angel and the demon, we should listen to the desires of both.
Problems with sensitivity to fear are not due to the fact that it is increased, but, on the contrary, because it is lowered. Due to the decrease in the natural level of fear, immunity to it decreases, which reduces the level of fear triggering. The slightest stress factors cause fear and panic. It is necessary to increase the overall level of fear so that it does not work on insignificant threats.
Standard person with factory emotions, school ideals, television soul, a news brain, uniquely typed external shape used: working outdoors, housework, sex and reproduction, consumption of goods, elections and voting, etc... Resource: 30-70 years. Material: natural, eco-friendly. Power consumption: bread, circuses, and sex. The price is negotiable, depending on: age, shape, useful skills and connections.
Ancient Greeks thought that our thoughts are orders given by various gods, bad ones or good ones... that is feelings and intuition were their personal but thoughts were given by some force outside...of course people don't think so nowadays...and it's mostly politicians and media buyers who deny that idea...
Many people naively believe, that makes others a lot feelings and emotions. And that others nothing to do but talk about them something to think about. The truth it is concluded that 99.9% people passing by we perceive as shadows, with hard remembering their contours. To remember the name of it is a feat... Ordinary remembrance of man looks like a blurry outline., which is something it once of us want...
The most important thing in family relations is to spare the feelings of near of kin... After all, any word or action will be taken as of tenfold strength...
Feelings, devoid of understanding and awareness, devoid of feelings is a lie. Truth is joyful, truth is the unity of feelings and consciousness. An honest man is joyful, a liar is sad, and full of suffering or restrained insensitivity.
As a consolation, reflexive answers work well. By affirming aloud the right of a person to suffer, it is as if you are freeing him from suffering. Now that he knows he had a right to his emotions, it'll be a relief.
Politics reminds me of the extension of the tail of the dog. There is a puppeteer whose job it is to make a show and take the attention of the viewer, and there are a number of actors. Actors saying emotional dialogues, swearing and declarations of love, ...the task is simple – to keep the attention of viewers.
With all else being equal, a happy person is the one who performs the right mission and fulfills the goals and tasks necessary for providence. And an unhappy person is the one refusing to perform the necessary things or doing things badly, or even biting off more than can chew. Hence, happiness is a reward for what one is supposed to do when one does it well.
"Don't want" all this emotion, if the subconscious mind to cheat, he will immediately want. The task of the mind is to deceive and control the subconscious.
It's close people who may hurt each other really badly. As their feelings towards each other are dozens of times as stronger.
It's rational to make a list of what is good and what is bad, then learn it by heart and stick to it despite one's moods and circumstances in order not to hurt a close person again.
The ant that can't cross a drawn line is like the person who has a certain set of thoughts in his head, outside which he can't basically think or act.
The point is that crossing this line is like crossing the border and plunging into Nothing, there is simply nothing there and there is absolutely nothing to do there, but expand your boundaries. To expand your boundaries you need to travel and communicate with clever people. You can also read, but reading is not a panacea, it only provides 20% of the information, the rest should be felt. And to understand, you need to feel and to do this, you need to be close to the source of information and feel it.
Information can and should be comprehended, but a lot depends on the strength of the intellect (logic, dialectics) and the power of the subconscious (the inner It). The subconscious refuses to expand its boundaries as it is dangerous. Everything new and unknown is outside the scope of the past experience and is therefore rejected by the It. Rejection of information occurs at the emotional-hormonal level: being bored, disliking, feeling pain, discomfort, aggressive disagreement. As a consequence, re-comprehension of information is available to very few people. It is difficult to get rid of the It's dictate. It`s possible to solve the problem by coming near the source of information. In this case, the outer social It is turned on thus turning off the inner It, forcing it to perceive information. In addition, direct contact with information allows to feel and understand it, having received previously unavailable 70% of information.
You don't have to say anything to say something. The words are only 20% of the information, the rest is felt by your interlocutors. Moreover, silence is more sincere than words, it is a kind of telepathy, it is more difficult to deceive feelings than ears. The same applies to you - listening to stillness and silence, in the pauses between the words, you will hear and feel much more than words can say even theoretically.
A woman can only love the man she can admire, the one who can protect her… … being near whom makes her feel honored, … the one who gives her positive emotions: pleasure, serenity, confidence, warmth.