The peculiarity of the neutron network is the absence of control centers. Such a network cannot be destroyed if each individual who makes up the network carries all the principles of the system. With colossal collective power, members of the network can control reality…
The strategy is: meet those who are above you and who are below you, then those who are below, meet those who are above. At the same time try to be as helpful as possible just so the people above. And those who are below will automatically owe you, if, thanks to you, acquire useful contacts.
Communicating with people, always be interested in what problems they have, and what they do. Whenever possible, try to help people solve their problems, as well as bring those who need help, with those who could help.
Recognition is a great value. Recognizing other people's virtues, you will become a very valuable person for them. It is especially useful to recognize the merits of their subordinates. Than a man is "less than", the more important it is the recognition of his merits.
When you give, people automatically want to give something back. Give people a good mood, thank them, give small gifts, help to realize their desires, amuse self-esteem, and they will love you in return.
If you want to break down your team, pretend to agree or act neutral, do not argue and do not protect anyone, avoid pressure, just nod but, deep inside, do not believe and take no notice. Do not be as stupid as a nut, or you will be eaten.
Helping a friend is an investment, just like any other investment: you can have 1000% margin, but sometimes you just lose a 100 rubles. Economists say that the resources must work, thus if you do not help, you decrease the value of what you have…
Ask, and it shall be given to you. However, you are afraid of asking, you are scared to get rejected. This would smash your arrogance to pieces. That is, you have two deadly sins in your soul at the same time – fear and arrogance. No wonder you are burning in hell. By the way, truth is a system and order. One or two times are lie. You should ask for a long time and tediously to be believed. Perseverance is your recipe to success.
Let's say you don't have the money for the project, but you have the language to ask for, the hands to write letters, the brain to plan your actions and the legs to go where you should. In the end, you can do everything yourself, even if it takes a little more time.
Especially effective, doing good, throw it into the water, asking nothing from anyone in return, but do not hide their problems, guided by the principle of "the card loves crying." But you can not ask and be upset that they did not help, too, you can not, in fact, most people would like to help if they could, and help on occasion a good person, but starting to demand from them, you can spoil everything.
I noticed that from the inside, each person resembles a soap bubble to himself... Our existence and assets are ephemeral and uncertain. Fear and a sense of own insignificance, perhaps, there is the only the General, which unites all people...
Having a mentor and mentor is good, but even if you don't, it's not fatal. I, for example, did not, but as the ancient Chinese wisdom says, a good student learns by watching the teacher. Watching people and reading books, you can learn a lot on your own. On the other hand, I could use a mentor, but where would I get one?
Idealism begets hate and evil. They are terribly hates everything that does not fit their ideals. For example, their ideal I thinks himself the best, and someone took and bypassed them. No, they will not look for reasons in themselves and improve competence, instead they will hate, angry and angry at those who dare to be better.
Idealism is a fairly formulaic method of thinking that prevents thinking flexibly. They do not like everything that does not correspond to their ideal, and if they do not like, they cannot use their deeds for their own benefit.
You are impatient and like the idealists, zero the figure does not consider, meanwhile, the zero increases the unit 10 times... and two zeros in 100... You neglect very valuable things. We need to look at things more systematically.
You have little love in you. That’s a problem. Love is a synergy that helps you unite with zero, thus multiplying your power manifold. Arrogance is multiplication – multiplication by zero destroys everything.