Guilt is a feeling associated with a person's failure to fulfill his or her own or other people's expectations. Sometimes it's a good feeling, often not so much. To turn it off, start breathing deeply, talking internally to the person to whom you have a duty, explaining that the promised three years are waiting, and then the debt is forgiven. Other things being equal, it is necessary to understand whether this debt is fair, plus various accompanying circumstances.
You lie exhausted and can't bring yourself to get up. Strength has left you, depression and impotence hinder your body. You have too much garbage and waste, the severity of the soul gives birth to apathy. You lack love, you lack hope, you lack faith. You urgently need someone to cheer you up, but what is the name of this good doctor and where to find him? Clenching your will into a fist, you find a spark of madness in yourself. In a frenzied rush of passion you get to your feet and rush back into battle. Fighting is what brings you closer to death, and death is salvation.
One who is not resigned cannot achieve success. Chaos does not wish to give in to order just like that – the main weapon of chaos is fortuitousness and order is love. To accomplish your job, you should do the same thing in circles, resignedly and lovingly, for tens and hundreds of times, detecting fortuitous errors and irregularities.
The truth does not need neither in your love nor in worship. However, the truth can save you from suffering. When you are quite unbearable, come and sit with the truth.
Love dies, but love is always reborn as long as hope lives. Hope is a period when love has died, and we are waiting for its revival. Faith is a state of conviction that is fueled by the energy of love or hope.
Best people die first. It's all because this world resembles a hot-house where providence raises flowers. These flowers are human souls. When a soul is ripe and perfect enough, it is considered to be nice for "reaping a harvest".
An algorithm with errors is said not to work, but that is false – it does work, it works badly but it works. What’s more, these errors encourage you to perfect the algorithm and make it ramify, working through thousands of different options.
Treat events now as memories of the past, this will allow you to reduce the energy of negative emotions such as fear, suffering, anger, irritation, unhappiness, pain... Look at your present sufferings from the height of the future.
The main way to get rid of the burden (hope and fear) is the lack of coziness, that is, the urge to avoid comfort. Comfort is consolation. The urge to avoid consolation and painkillers. You cannot flee pain and fear, cold and sufferings.
Comfort should be inspiring. There is hope, hope million. No death. Destruction is only a change in the flow of water. The current never disappears, it only changes. Wind is immortal. Movement forever.
As a consolation, reflexive answers work well. By affirming aloud the right of a person to suffer, it is as if you are freeing him from suffering. Now that he knows he had a right to his emotions, it'll be a relief.
When a man dies, we should rejoice. Life is suffering, death is joy and salvation from the suffering of life. The dead are joyful, they have nothing more to grieve for.
A paradoxical fact. Fire in hell is an escape from pain. In fire burn vices and all that superfluous that was deprived of love and became the cause of human sufferings. In fire man finds salvation from pain and joy. Fire requires humility. In the absence of humility, the sinner runs from the fire, grabs at straws, tries to hold on to excess, seeks comfort and comfort, but finds only an ocean of pain and suffering.
Reset to zero and forget your mistakes. Mistakes should be gotten rid of and forgotten as quickly as possible or they will destroy your conscience and life.
Situational constraints are useful in that by limiting one, they make it possible to achieve perfection in the other. So if you have something limited, do not beat your head against the wall, and bring to perfection the use of available tools.
No need to argue, no need to justify anything. You need to listen carefully and think about how you can use the situation for the benefit of the case. Even if I disagree, there is no need to argue. Say, "all right, all right, let's think."
If you want to break down your team, pretend to agree or act neutral, do not argue and do not protect anyone, avoid pressure, just nod but, deep inside, do not believe and take no notice. Do not be as stupid as a nut, or you will be eaten.
Nothing will ever be really easy. Besides, lower pressure can be dangerous. Remember, that a deepsea fish taken to the shore can be easily crushed by the unbalanced inner pressure.
The cult of the suffering God… "Well, since God himself suffers, we mortals have nothing to blame. "Yes, consolation - Consolation… - Well, let suffer, and we are here with? He needs to, let him suffer. - Suffering is the price of sin. Say, for us suffers… "Well done!
I dislike painkilling and consolation because easing of pain doesn't allow to realize errors and get wiser. Pain is a weapon of the truth in its fight for the place in the sun. Pain is a sign of someone's mistake. Pain can help a person become disappointed in sweet illusions and say no to destructive temptations and to master laziness. Pain is a source of strength for fighting with personal sins. And killing pain, in its essence, destroys the incentive for fighting with personal faults.
Your problem is that you're always trying to compete with someone, and so you're always exhausted, and then you lose. No need to compete with anyone, no need to run anyone. Just do your job well, without stress, but steadily and constantly. This is the real victory.
The point is, even the biggest setback doesn't have to stop you. On the contrary, stop and consider what great benefit you could theoretically derive from it. Use failure to build new weapons.
Be afraid to rely on the help of other people in solving their problems. Moreover, such assistance does not so much solve problems as perpetuate and exacerbate them.
Do not try to console suffering with pleasures, it will only add fuel to the fire. Pleasure breeds suffering. If you seek happiness, seek relief from suffering, not throw wood on the fire.
You do not need to hurry and be afraid of not being in time or losing time. Time is an illusion and a lie, it does not exist, and therefore it is impossible to lose it.
The tale of Ilya Muromets gives hope to all people who have lost a lot of time on entertainment, vices, entertainment, depression and depression. Blessed are the poor in spirit, because they are like a coiled spring that has been coiled for a long time. The energy stored in the point is enormous. Even our universe is said to have originated from a point. If the Genie is released from the bottle, he will be capable of miracles.
A person is always dissatisfied with something, and this is fine. As long as there is discontent, there is life. You should be happy with your discontent. Discontent means that there is work, there is a hell that can be turned into heaven.
You stand in front of each other. You're unhappy – and the world around you is grey and humdrum. He's happy – and the world around him is bright and wonderful.
However, you're just two different observers of the same world. The conclusion – ………………… - is unconsoling…
A sinner cannot be delivered from suffering. If a sinner is delivered from the suffering with which he atones for his sins, this man will go mad with fear.
You want to be loved, of course, for no reason. You want to be served for nothing and you don't want to pay for it. Such a desire is pride, that is, sin. If you want love, you must pay those who serve you.
People, in fact, its a demon, and only the presence of the power of the spirit and mind turn him into a decent man... In the absence of mind and spirit, man is nothing more than a wild animal.
When things go wrong, it's better to wait out it all.
Sooner or later things will go right and the main thing is not to die of hunger and not to fade away before life goes your way.
When I get tough luck, I prefer to hurl myself into work. As work helps forget about all misfortunes. Of course, I also cheer myself with thinking of King Solomon's Ring or the story The Old Man and the Sea by Hemingway. But what really cheers me up is work. And later, when life treats me better I look back on what I've done and how much work I did during my hard times. And my exuberance of high spirits becomes realhappiness...
On the one hand, consolation is a good thing but on the other hand, how does it really help? Consolation doesn't solve any problems and only allows one put up with them and calm down... Perhaps, that's how it helps. And after calming down, one may peacefully think and figure out how to solve all problems.
Emotional pain is a signal that something goes wrong. A person makes many mistakes and feels pain because of it. This pain should indicate the source of the problem and give power and energy for destroying this problem inside oneself. The source of pain is like a disease or an infection that may easily destroy one's soul or even whole life. Thus, this disease should be destroyed as soon as possible.
However, instead of fighting against a disease a person gets under the control of the demons of consolation. People of this kind (let's call them demons despite the fact they're ordinary mortals full of silliness) like to tell one stories and delusions and indulge in wishful thinking. Their words are like music to the ears. As one may listen to them and become full with joy. And the pain recedes for a while. The demon tells a person stories about how good everything around is and how this person is right about doing things and that all will be well...some day. Thus, the demon supports this person's mistakes, delusions and sins. And the person smiles in a silly way because of trusting these lies and feeling really innocent and righteous.
But the pain killing effect is really short. As the disease is progressive and no one heals it. Organs become gradually affected. And a bit later the pain becomes excruciating.
- And what did this person want? Killing pain doesn't mean healing. And wasting time on killing pain gives way to the disease in progress. Welcome to hell.
A demon that feeds on pain and tears. He kindles the flame of error and deception, and is heated in this smoldering pain, while his victim will not burn completely. The demon is a secret arsonist and a joyous extinguisher. With one hand he ignites the flames and the other theatrical it puts out. His task: to accustom the victim to pain, to make her voluntarily burn alive, dying long and painfully.
Delusion is the most sinful kind of violation of the truth. Delusion is a sneer at the truth. They imagine that they know the truth and it brings laughter.
Fake truth differs from real truth in the fact that real truth is useful and practical while fake one is just a consolation and a bag of beautiful words that cannot be proved in practice.
Problems and insurmountable obstacles are an illusion. When you come to terms with the problem, you will see that, in fact, it was terrible, but not strong.
The rich and the beautiful cry too. The story of Cinderella. The story about a lucky fool who suddenly became rich. A consolation story, a booky cookie, a dream story - that mistakes the wish for the reality. A fairy tale about a dream that will never come true. A fairy tale about great love that doesn't exist in reality. A fairy tale about those who are more stupid or unlucky.
To live is to think (Cicero). To live is to fight (Seneca). To live is to work. To live is to learn. To live is to love. To live is to enjoy. To live is to suffer. To end suffering means to die.
A person who doesn't want to think, fight, work, learn, enjoy or love, is doomed to suffering. And there are only two ways out from suffering and one of them is death.
We teach people how to be normal, how to avoid nervous breakdowns and extremes and how to search for consolation and fun among nice things instead of vicious ones.
A neurotic is a victim; he is always thinking of himself as a victim and seeking compassion and consolation. This man was so popular with the consolation that he was insanely pleased when his sacrifice. This man loves suffering as a harbinger of joy.