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Boys psychology.


 


   

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Foreword


9.6456.     AR AR

The  efficiency  of  the  child's  learning  is  described  by  the  exponential  law.  The  main  progress  occurs  at  the  last  stage  at  the  moment  of  achieving  the  knowledge  integrity.

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148.   AR AR

I think the education of girls 
this is a more subtle art than 
education of boys.
This little delicate flower
so easily ruined...
Boys are easier that way...

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2729.     AR AR

Teaching  boys  is  in  the  first  place,  like  teaching  hunters  and  heroes. 

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9.106. «The strategy of bringing up boys. Heroes and Hunters».     AR AR

There  are  several  reasons  why  it's  mostly  women  who  bring  up  children.  Men  work  more,  plus  there  are  many  incomplete  families  and  divorces.  All  of  these  factors  make  women  ask  how  to  bring  up  boys  properly.  The  thing  is  that  a  boy  who  is  brought  up  like  a  girl,  will  never  be  successful  in  life  and  won't  be  able  to  start  a  normal  family.  Such  boy  will  be  passive,  lazy  and  will  resemble  a  princess  rather  than  a  man.  Bringing  up  boys,  is  mostly  about  bringing  up  Heroes  and  Hunters.  Bringing  up  breadwinners  and  protectors.  The  process  of  bringing  up  boys  has  many  peculiarities  that  should  be  taken  into  account.

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9.5086.     AR AR

In  bringing  up  boys,  a  woman  should  beware  of  infecting  them  with  her  fear.  That  very  cowardice  that  often  hides  behind  the  mask  of  prudence  is  extremely  harmful  to  heroes  and  hunters.

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3.460.     AR AR

School education contradicts the idea of love, forcing children to learn everything, not just favorite.  That is why boys who are more passionate and amorous, learn worse than girls, who are afraid of their parents and the system, in General, do not care what to teach.  The weaker and more cowardly a child is in this sense, the better he learns.  But knowledge is power, and over time the child can gain power.

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6.138.     AR AR

The over-loved child is afraid of losing love. He is always tormented by the fear that he is not loved. It is necessary to talk to him, to say that everything is good, that everyone loves him and loves his mother. And especially his mother loves him when he behaves well. And if he doesn't do what he's supposed to, mom gets sad and mom feels bad. If he is a good boy, his mother will love him, and will not be sad, and will smile. The main thing is to make sure that the child does not have the idea that when he behaves badly, his mother pays attention to him. You should ignore his bad behavior, showing complete coldness. On the contrary, good behavior should be responded to warmly.

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9.681. Idealism is meant for pretty girls, others need pragmatism.     AR AR

Idealism  is  meant  mostly  for  girls.  Beautiful  girls  are  loved  automatically,  while  boys  need  to  get  and  conserve  energy.

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5.2433.     AR AR

They say girls learn the faces, and boys items. They say that the boy looks at the girl as an object that requires knowledge, and the girl looks into his face, wondering if he can know me.

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5.2439.     AR AR

On  average,  boys  do  worse  at  school  than  girls  because  the  masculine  brain  is  more  specialized  than  the  feminine  one  and  is  unable  to  learn  everything  just  in  fear  of  parents  and  teachers.

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5.2440. Weakness and strength.     AR AR

Girls learn from fear and boys learn from love. Cowardly boys, too, can learn from fear, and strong girls from love.

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5.4988. Emotional addiction.     AR AR

Hypersensitivity have prelomleniya children observed as fusion matter. Largely this fusion is characteristic for girls, less for boys. If the child is alone in the family-it increases the risk. The more neurotic the mother is, the more likely it is to merge. The stronger mother nature absorbs the child, the mother's desires become part of the child's soul, his conscience, his super Ego, thus generating a pseudo-split personality. The child begins to live not with his feelings, which he does not have, but with others. The feelings of the mother, a loved one, other people and systems.

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6.2796.     AR AR

Girls more important beauty and order actions, then as boys need a goal and outcome.

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6.2797.     AR AR

Women in fear looking for protection and company, the boys in fear seek solitude. These are two reactions to conflict and stress. Boys don't need witnesses of their fear and girls need protection from fear and loneliness spoils their health.

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6.2821.     AR AR

Boys, so they do not deteriorate, you need to keep in the cold, and girls, on the contrary, warm.

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6.2822.     AR AR

Boys need to praise and to give them freedom of activity, but to watch them with one eye. If the boy is not praised and all his freedom of movement is restricted, he will wither.

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6.2823. Boys warm lazy.     AR AR

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6.2824.     AR AR

The boys lowered the ear and because they speak louder and they need to speak louder.

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6.2828.     AR AR

Boys need to ask questions, girls are more interested in answers.

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6.2829.     AR AR

Teaching children in mixed classes is a big fool. Boys need loud and more questions. Girls need quieter and more answers. As a result, teachers speak quietly and tell something... This manner teaches only girls. Therefore, in recent years, excellent girls became more than excellent boys.

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6.2830.     AR AR

Boys love diagrams, models and diagrams.

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4.71.     AR AR

Education of children is not reduced to the concept of "who is a good child", but the answer to the question: "Who is a well-mannered parent?".  Bad parents can't raise good children.  The problem is that parents do not know or are deeply mistaken in the question "how to be good?".

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The beginning of the book


3277. A normal school. (The school of Stoics)     AR AR

Nothing  in  excess,  only  the  necessary. 

Sport.  Group  or  one-on-one  training.  Single  combats  or  competitive  games.  Track  and  field  sports. 
Constructive  labor  and  masterhood. 
Philosophy,  ethics  and  moral  codes  for  being  learned  by  heart. 
Foreign  languages  -  for  being  studied  every  day  for  a  long  time. 
Mathematics  and  physics  –  for  learning  the  essence  of  different  processes. 
Native  language  and  literature  for  writing  essays  and  studying  the  list  of  books  useful  for  reading. 
Various  classes  and  hobby  clubs. 
Some  special  classes  for  major  subjects.  Biology,  chemistry  etc.  Gender-segregated  education  that  considers  psychological  differences  of  boys  and  girls. 

All  knowledge  should  be  background  to  remain  forever.  It's  forbidden  to  study  anything  new  without  having  got  really  in-depth  knowledge  of  the  studied  matter  or  subject. 
It's  rational  to  reject  the  track  system  and  pay  attention  to  personal  classes  system.  Thus,  a  pupil  should  have  a  personal  tutor  who  is  supposed  to  know  everything  about  him  or  her  so  that  to  make  a  plan  of  how  to  teach  this  pupil.  Every  tutor  should  also  give  recommendations  and  manage  their  pupils'  time. 

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3.468.     AR AR

Parents should restrain and not restrain the child in his desires in order to bring up a harmonious child.  Push and to show anger is undesirable, it is better to remain calm.  It is undesirable to show children that they do not meet expectations, it creates fear and aggression in them.

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4135.     AR AR

A  child  is  quite  a  high-tech  product.  It  takes  17  years  so  that  parents  would  make  a  person  out  of  "nobody".  Mistakes  are  inexcusable.  The  price  for  mistakes  and  defects  will  be  really  high. 

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8.377. Rectitude is a unique skill.     AR AR

First  of  all,  it's  rectitude  of  judgement  that  should  be  fostered  in  children.  It's  rational  to  free  mind  from  extremes,  illusions  and  other  stupid  things. 

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10.495.     AR AR

"As it is impossible" is more pleasant, than "as it is possible" because the hero who has won fear, is joyful.

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3.1171.     AR AR

You can't separate the wheat from the chaff as long as it's small, because don't judge and you won't judge.  By defining an object as bad, you will stop its development.  By defining an object as good, you will provoke a wave resistance, and when the child grows up, he from "white" will become "black".  The later you judge the kids, the better.

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3.1174.     AR AR

As long as a person grows, he can change his nature at any time, choosing a new goal for growth.

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3.1540.     AR AR

To the child fell in love with physics and mathematics, you need to learn a few topics well and solve puzzles on them.  Tasks are like small victories.  Hero happy.  You need to Polish the level of solving problems to perfection.  When the child loses fear and finds joy, he will be ready to quickly learn all other topics.  You can not rush and miss the victory over small tasks.

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3.1793.     AR AR

The attempt of parents to turn their children into heroes in 95% of cases poisons their life with neurosis.  The hero is the same genius, try to raise genius usually turns the child into an idiot.

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3.2063.     AR AR

A man likes to be considered good, and the more he is considered good, the more he wants to appear good.

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3.2362. Watch their wishes.     AR AR

It is very important to monitor what kind of behavior in the child (person) is encouraging.  What is effective and brings results, then the child will use, developing this skill to get what you want.

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3.2364. Growth energy.     AR AR

To combat negative trends should be by limiting them.  Solid frames and a sandbox to help you.  Trying to destroy them completely would rather make them stronger than win.

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3.2365.     AR AR

To deal with many negative phenomena is meaningless, it is much easier to organize them, giving them a strict form, forbidding to go beyond it.

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3.2367.     AR AR

Parents should monitor their children's goals.  Goals will allow you to train the skill of concentration and attention to detail.  In fact, the goal is a simulator of love.  If the child has no goals, there is a development of histrionic personality disorder, accompanied by laziness, frustration, inattention, etc.

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3.2772.     AR AR

Stupidity is a consequence of avoiding personality disorder.  A fool is one who is afraid to think.  Once such a person opens a textbook, his thoughts begin to stick and get confused from fear.

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3.2804.     AR AR

Teenager after 18 years harmful to live with their parents, because it creates fear and inferiority complex and, therefore, laziness, weakness and vices.

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3.3088.     AR AR

The double standard is a Prime example of dichotomous black-and-white thinking.

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3.3153.     AR AR

The father is a tyrant and a proud man capable of raising two types of sons.  One will open the false rebel.  The other will be a hidden liar.  To hate father are both.

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3.3236.     AR AR

The abuse of the use of order as a cure for fear leads to the degradation of other tools to combat it, such as humility, immunity and courage.  There is a greenhouse effect, when under the protection of rituals and templates "I must", a person is more or less free, but the slightest violation of the template generates panic and fear.

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3.3237.     AR AR

External pressure on the child causes over-development Of "I must" and degradation Of "I want".    As a result, self-consciousness and personal "I" degrades, turning a person into a living robot.

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