The capacity for ritual is the capacity for love. If a woman sees that a man has dreams and he systematically implements them, then we can hope that he is able to love.
What is love? Ritual and systematic planning-action, focused on one goal. Love is a truth that is not afraid of time and does not lose its focus over time.
One law for the rich, another for the poor. The point is that the law is a ritual, principles and order. The rich create habits and rules and follow them, thus achieving wealth. The habits and principles of the rich make them rich. The poor are made poor by their habits and principles.
One who honors rituals and order is like a windmill, extracting money from the air. One who does not honor order is very afraid of the future and feeds on chance.
And what is morality and morality but habit and custom? They're used to doing that, and if they don't, their conscience will torture them. What can I advise them? Think of another habit.
Forget the word "inconvenient"! "It's a matter of habit and willpower. A little care and in three days a new habit will be born, and everything will be convenient.
Ritual is synergy. It seems like you're doing a meaningless thing, but you're actually creating time. Time is God, time is energy, time is a great value.
Rituals provide unity people, unity this love. Life is a movement, so that rituals do not become boring, the action requires humor, beauty and diversity.
Rituals are a good cure for fear, but not a panacea. Rituals create the illusion of control, while there are many factors that cannot be controlled. It is useful to combine rituals with practical actions.
A vampire can only be killed with an aspen stake through the heart, because those who live in illusions are very stereotyped and stereotyped in their thinking. Any violation of ritual begets terror, on the other hand, rituals are not only the Foundation of their life, but death.
Keep an eye on what kind of flow you're in. You can enter the stream in different ways, but it is always difficult to get out of it. Especially avoid bad habits and killing time.
Don't get me wrong, this whole "dislike", "better" or "worse" thing is a matter of habit. Any thing, if you get used to it, begins to like and becomes comfortable. So don't bother. What is better or worse, it does not matter.
She is already healthy, and he is still sick.... ...the impression is not unique… but painfully - long… They say everyone wants to die. ...and so - every day, for many years… They say a woman gets sick quickly, man long… They say it's a matter of habit...
Watch your words carefully. People are quite easily offended, especially loved ones. Communication is a ritual, the violation of the ceremony of which is fraught with mutual grievances.
TV is a collection of half-truths. I see an interesting picture... The crowd is wise. People-millions of indulgent and mocking people... laughs at journalists, laughing at politicians, laughing at the officials, understands, reads Newspapers, watches TV - this useless chronicling the life, this set of meaningless words-templates and pieces that survived centuries, and for the starter - set of gossips of different volume.
On the other hand, thousands and forgiving mocking politicians, officials and journalists something written and said in the Newspapers, TV, radio... Everyone understands. Everyone laughs at everything. All wildly funny... And events life, meanwhile, flow, as they should flow. NO... Of course there are fools - rabbits, hang the ears, but for the most part, everything is clear to everyone. However, this does not change anything... And most importantly, we can not say that someone is lying or someone is being deceived. Moreover, all this talk it's a dance, it's a ritual. Nobody believes in anything, but it must be done. Everyone plays their part. The game continues. In between running days, life flows... Some have business and money, for other shows, leisure, killing time. Everyone is happy...
Even minimal but regular physical exercises can drastically change a man's looks and health for the better.
It only takes two exercises. Work out abs every day in 2-3 sets and do 8-12 push-ups in 5 sets (or as many as you can). These exercises will make your body beautiful and your posture erect. It trains abs, breast muscles, shoulders, back and arms. With minimal waste of energy and time you get maximal effect for your body and health. The way you look is the way they see you. Where there is a sound body there must be a sound mind. The better you look like, the fewer complexes you have and the more you like yourself and others like you more as well. Women like fit men. And other men will respect you more.
There is one interesting way to overcome your sin, passion or bad habit. Hypertrophied rapid increase in sin. If sin is good to unwind and increase, it will be clearly visible and clearly allocated. He will be a good target and it will be quite easy to isolate and destroy. Moreover, having increased to a giant size, it will quickly get bored. Will be seen all the shortcomings and pitfalls, and very quickly want to get rid of it inside. For nature does not like when something becomes too big, and if something becomes too much, natural natural mechanisms are involved, destroying this phenomenon. So, hipertrofiada your sin, You make a really good target for anything that wants to destroy it. Importantly, very not perish together with him for company.
The natural goal of a woman is to choose the best man among all those available to her. But how and by which means can she do it? A human being is a social animal. Most people do not tend to think for themselves but rather tend to see the reaction of those around and analyze it to take some decision. That's why sometimes it's not a man himself but women who are close to this man that seem important to a woman. Since a man is liked by other women, thus there's a probability that this man is precious. Besides, there are also several social stereotypes that can influence the choice, namely TV, mass media, the Internet that forms social preferences. Since they talk about it and write about it, and everyone thinks that THIS is the right thing, then it's true. At least, it's worth being paid attention to. As they don't show bad stuff on tv... Habits and company. Tastes often get formed in childhood under the influence of some random factors.A curious observation. Imagine some area. And let's imagine that all men in this area are long-eared. And all women have to choose these men (there are no other ones). A young girl who becomes mature in this area, will see that all other women choose such men and their ears will seem a sign of great men to her. But once this girl comes to another country, she may meet short-eared men... An exotic thing of course, but still there's something wrong... How to live with such freaks? And, certainly, there are some basic criteria like wealth, power, intellect, health, successfulness... No one has repealed classical things. P.S. By the way, in order to prevent all people from choosing the same, nature invented a great mechanism. Approximately 5-20% of people are nihilistic and choose the opposite. Thus, they look at what others choose and choose the opposite. But it doesn't mean that they make a right balanced decision. Totally not. They simply choose something opposed to what others choose. And what's more curious. Many people combine these two behavioral manners in themselves. Perhaps, there is some loaded dice inside them so they throw it and take a decision whether to be like others or do things vice versa in a particular situation...
Girls become mature quite early, much earlier than boys do. And not to seem strange, they put on masks and pretend to be little girls and habitually stay in this role up to the old age.
Template thinking and stereotypes save people from unnecessary mental efforts. It's even more helpful as people who are not good at thinking, would simply be unable to exist in our stark reality.
The problem of verbal communications is that you say and prove one thing but everyone gets you in their own way... And often you can't even imagine that someone may get you wrong. An image that one sees while watching the world around largely depends on one's inner world... A person incapable of thinking, takes the information from the outer world by means of inner stereotypes and templates... Thus, you may tell someone that some white horse gallops on the field but this person's inner template says that white horses don't exist and that horses are red and flying in the sky but not galloping... And instead of your information a person sees the image of a red horse flying in the sky. It's all very interesting from humanology point of view but it makes communications worse. As those people only see and hear what they want. It's really unpredictable what in particular WRONG way this time one may see and get quite obvious things.
War is not the best way to struggle with overpopulation. War is not the best way to struggle with overproduction crisis. War is not the best way to struggle for spheres of influence and market outlets. War is not the best way to break tension among young people. War is not the best way to do anything.
Obviously, they use wars out of habit. Just because they understand how it works and how to use it. Hence, we come down to the matter of ignorance once again.
Who is firm, that will break, Who is soft, will bend, And only elastic Stoik, Familiar to all devils, Will not be broken by the wind Having gone to feed the worms.
Healthy habits are one of the most precious things that parents can make their children adopt.
Early rising, morning exercising, healthy diet, going in for sport, household chores (putting things in their place), the habit of working, studying, taking care of oneself, dressing neatly, learning philosophy and ethics, the habit of getting things done, the habit of overcoming difficulties, the habit of reading – all simple things that are difficult to do.
Keeping bad hours, playing computer games and watching TV, surfing the net, overeating, indifference to sport, studying, household chores, literature and philosophy...
The most important period for bringing up a child is the age from 5 to 10 years (or perhaps from 6 to 12). This is the period of formative years for a child's personality, namely for good habits, love for learning and sport, ethical and philosophical values.
It's important to make a child exercise and take sports classes during this period. And to make a child get some knowledge base in foreign languages and philosophy. It's important to learn philosophy and languages by heart.
It's the period when essential skills and abilities form, namely drawing skills, writing and reading skills, fingering and sport skills. Strength of mind and ethical values are also formed during this period.
Child development periods can be divided into every 5 or 6 years, depending on the external circumstances. The first period is from 1 to 5 (or 1 to 6 years) when it's important to let a child grow naturally. The period from 5 to 10 years is known as the basic training level and a child's personality framing formation. The period from 10 to 15 (or 12 to 18) is the time when the framing is treated as a superficial area that needs its facade appearance to look nice. Later on, since 15 (or 18 years) there starts a period for a child's self-tuition (interior decoration and brushup). This is the period when a child learns how to study and work without anyone's help.