The desire of the conscious to dominate the subconscious is pride. The subconscious is the President and the government. If the Duma begins to abuse its power, its activities will be instantly paralyzed.
The conscious mind must be careful that the subconscious mind is always busy. If the subconscious has nothing to do, there will be a catastrophe. Moreover, the subconscious doesn't understand the probability of events and sometimes might want such nonsense that to escape would be extremely problematic.
In the human mind consciousness is the State Duma, and the subconscious is the President and the Government. For the President to listen to the Duma, the proposals of the government must be clear, structured, unanimous and preferably in the interests of the government.
When the state Duma is in chaos and there is no clear opinion, the President ignores all its proposals. To the subconscious mind supported by consciousness, your thoughts need to be expressed by a clear majority.
Feelings and emotions are feedback mechanisms between the subconscious and consciousness. Reacting positively or negatively, the subconscious mind makes it clear to the consciousness of its reaction to information received from the outside.
A series of defeats programmed the subconscious with fear. In fear IT is afraid now to even move, fills the body with laziness and apathy. To reprogram this state, it takes a series of artificial victories.
If you think one thing and do something else, it means your spirit and you are weak, and you are the slave of your subconscious (the It). Emotions, sins and vices control you, and all your reason can do is to helplessly bark at and scold them, like a small dog.
Laziness and procrastination mean that all the suggestions that the conscious mind offers to the subconscious are poor. Consciousness itself is not confident in anything and therefore does not have a clear position.
Apathy is a reaction to fear in weak people. The subconscious has decided that it is dangerous to move because it causes a useless loss of energy. There are three types of reactions to fear - to run, to attack, or to freeze while paralyzed with terror. Apathy is the third variant of the body's reaction to fear.
The subconscious lives in eternal darkness, receiving information from the outside world through various interfaces, including through consciousness (ego). Consciousness is an analytical module, a voice assistant, whose task is to analyze some information and offer options for action. Other channels revenues information this eyes, ears and feelings.
Inside, the brain creates a toy universe where the toy Self plays with toy copies of people from the real world. The subconscious, watching this game, makes some conclusions on the basis of which behaves in the real world.
Frustration is the fear of losing again. Frustration is cowardice. Man is afraid of pain... "Again I will hurt you" - going through his subconscious. "I'd better not do anything,"thinks the horse," and that will save me from another disappointment."
The subconscious (the It) loves pleasures most of all. Food is a pleasure, but if you start taking pleasure in weight loss, you will deceive the It, thus making him your assistant in your struggle against obesity.
A human being is a usual social (pack) animal. Not a simple animal but a tamable one. Thus, if you want some person to jump over a ball, it's necessary to treat this person like a dolphin and give fish for the right actions or punish for the wrong ones. What's more, even though according to Freud, it's the inner IT that rules a person and that can hardly be controlled by a person. However, there also exists the external IT or external ruling signals formed by society and people around (as any human is a social animal). And these signals, this external IT greatly rules and controls the inner IT of a person. Thus, even though a person can barely control or change anything on the inside, then it can be easily done by means of external things.
Information can and should be comprehended, but a lot depends on the strength of the intellect (logic, dialectics) and the power of the subconscious (the inner It). The subconscious refuses to expand its boundaries as it is dangerous. Everything new and unknown is outside the scope of the past experience and is therefore rejected by the It. Rejection of information occurs at the emotional-hormonal level: being bored, disliking, feeling pain, discomfort, aggressive disagreement. As a consequence, re-comprehension of information is available to very few people. It is difficult to get rid of the It's dictate. It`s possible to solve the problem by coming near the source of information. In this case, the outer social It is turned on thus turning off the inner It, forcing it to perceive information. In addition, direct contact with information allows to feel and understand it, having received previously unavailable 70% of information.
Psychoanalysis is the basis of Western civilization. It was psychoanalysis that created modern man. A man of efficiency, sanity and balance. The job of a psychoanalyst is to maintain the best in a person. Psychoanalysis allows us to avoid extremes and cultivate a balanced person. A man who could overcome his complexes and neuroses, his stupidity and his delusions. A man of thought and reason. A man who has ceased to be a slave to his subconscious, his feelings and emotions.
Upgrade and fine-tuning of the human soul - that's what a real psychoanalysis.
Man is always a slave to his inner SELF. It tells a person what he likes or dislikes, where he is comfortable and good, and where uncomfortable and unpleasant. It tells a person who or what to love and what to agree with and what not.
But it happens that this is IT, this subconscious for a number of reasons was set up incorrectly and now fails. It is trite deceiving people. It gets him into trouble and big trouble. Man becomes a slave to patterns and stereotypes, a wooden doll, doomed to constantly step on the same rake. Doomed to make mistakes and suffer all the time.
This doomed to eternal mistakes and suffering man must be very unhappy. Maybe someone can help him?
The only way to live is to grow and move forward. Stops give rise to apathy and a subconscious desire for self-destruction. Any stop is a signal to the subconscious that it's time to start self-destructing. Hence the obsessive desire for stupidity and wrong decisions, apathy, despondency, laziness, problems with concentration. We can either move from chaos to order or sink back into chaos. Balance in this case is possible, but it is a matter of art.
When a woman sees an immature and weak man, she instinctively feels attracted to him, because at the level of the subconscious feels that if you warm the chicken with your love, it can grow into a great cock.
Depending on the situation, the Super Ego can be good or evil. "IT" is also both. The Ego keeps track of the balance. Our observations show that the ONO and super Ego are in the opposite phase. The situation, when the desire Super Ego and IT is equally theoretically possible, but pure reason is not observed.
Neurotic (and its extreme form of schizophrenic) is a type of stereotyped stereotyped people, carefully suppressing any spontaneity and randomness. Such tightness periodically gives rise to devastating explosions that cause the wild man's guilt and feelings of inferiority. Schizophrenics, trying to get rid of this guilt, even destroy their Ego and turn off any emotions.
At the heart of everything is the desire of the libido to reproduce. It creates a thirst for love and a thirst for love. Having love creates the desire to work and grow to provide and protect offspring. On the desire of reproduction rest all higher dreams, such as the desire for love and sex, the desire to become a star or the desire for wealth. Vanity is a thirst for admiration, because if you are admired, you are loved. Money is strength and security, the strong and the rich are also loved. The libido wants offspring, the more the better. The mind interferes with libido fear, says, we are weak for this. The libido insists that the mind work and think more on this task.
Faith is the product of will. If the mind does not want to believe, it will refuse to believe even its eyes. Since faith and love are one and the same, love is also a product of the will. But the question remains-whose will? Mind or subconscious?
Why need advance. First of all, it is necessary to the person to take himself in a Vice, not to be frightened and at the last minute not to change his mind. To the psychologist to go terrible, the subconscious mind begins to think of reasons why not to do it, to come up with urgent business, illness, laziness etc. However when all is paid, the path of retreat cut off.
Those who are cowardly and full of fears are frightened, humiliated, beaten and underestimated because they feel at the subconscious level that the coward loves and serves those who save him from fear and personifies his fear. Brave and strong people other, they on fear attack or run away. Therefore, courageous people communicate instinctively with the method of the carrot.