Jealousy stems from understanding love as "Having." Jealousy is the feeling of property and the fear of loss or damage. Possession of people? It smacks of slaveholding and pride, which means welcome to hell.
«A hero is full of joy». If your actions are right than you're a hero. And since you're a hero, you're happy and excited. Struggling makes you very happy and euphoric. And your enthusiasm makes you even stronger. You're wonderful. You're absolutely pure. All your fears have left you. You're a superpower. You're a star.
Give me the jealousy away. Jealousy is evil, it is pride and, therefore, suffering. Jealousy will make you a slave. You pretend to be a slave-owner, but, in fact, you yourself are a miserable slave to your passion.
Resignation is fatalism. “It’s for the best,” he thinks, smiling, and takes a step forward. What is for the best fills the soul with joy. Joy kills dejection. The hands that were down five minutes ago rise again, holding the sword tight. He is again ready to go into battle. The warrior resigned to his destiny…
Uniqueness is the only chance to achieve perfection, but it is very easy to spoil everything with pride. You can't dominate love. Your jealousy of everyone who tries to share your uniqueness with you is pride and jealousy. Pride is dangerous, it turns heaven into hell.
Loosing a beloved woman hurts a lot. In order not to make oneself suffer from it (and later not to beat head against a wall), it's rational to hew to the following rules: A) don't ctiticize and don't screw a woman's brains B) let her talk while keeping silent yourself and let her tell you something important… Don't load her down with your ideas or problems… C) don't pull the card on her, D) smile in her presence, be attentive and show sympathy with her problems and victories E) pay enough attention to her and manage her free time, F) if you want to say something unpleasant to her, accuse her or offend her etc, …………………………………calm down G) control your jealousy H) instead of struggling against her faults, try to cultivate and support her virtues that you like. Hence, don't blame her for the bad, and praise her for the good… I) a woman can't love a man to whom she's out of his league. So work on yourself as a man who doesn't evoke respect brings no nice emotions to a woman. A woman should be proud of his man. J) a beautiful woman is always full of doubts… It's a flower… She should be praised and flattered. She loves her flowered bed and garden… The essence of a beautiful flower existence is about giving beauty and getting pollinated… If you want your woman to play some other role, for instance the one of a working horse, you should choose a simpler woman K) you should remember that equal calls to equal, and if your woman is better than you and you don't fit her beauty, then don't mess with her. A queen needs a king.. Of course, she may sleep with a servant but soon they will show the servant his place…
A man really chooses a woman because of sex but in family life he's more interested in comfort, peace, safety, coziness... A man wants his life to become easier and more comfortable. People tend to choose pleasure and avoid negative emotions or problems; but love to be helped, praised, loved and supported. If a woman wants to get married to man some day, she should make him think that his life with her will be easier and more comfortable than without her. That's why women's tricks concerning bitchiness, scandals, jealousy and things like that should be used really carefully during a relationship.
The meaning of the conflict between fathers and children is that you can not grow above the one from whom you take an example. However, life requires us to evolve and grow, so children, taking everything they can from their parents, reject and choose a higher goal for growth. Parents not in forces to transfer such disobedience, full of anger, pride, resentment and jealousy fall into infamy.
Vanity, on the one hand, is the friend of the careerist, and on the other, the enemy. Vanity prevents successful communication with other people in solving important and complex issues. Vanity breeds jealousy and fear that your fame will be stolen.
A young family. A wife hates the mother-in law and a husband hates the mother of the wife. It's an obvious clash of interests. A new young country craves for independence while the mother country wants to retain control over the dependants. May the best win. Jealousy, subornation, intervention, foreign interference, pushing enemies' agenda, dictating disadvantageous terms, sparking conflicts ... Everything resembles things typical of big-time politics. Nothing new. A young country will finally become either united and victorious or collapsed and destroyed.
If your partner is in love, you can do little, but you can, becoming his guardian angel, wait until the veil falls from his eyes and illusions, faced with reality, will break. Then it would be a scandal, after which he will want to escape here, you have to save it and return back.
Overabundance of parental love turns the child into a self-centered egoist. The child is infected with love from the mother and if the mother does not love herself, does not love her husband, and concentrates everything on the child, then the child will love nothing but herself. The child, having received all the fire of maternal love, turned into a drug addict and is now not ready to give an ounce of love to anyone. Cost him even a second to lose attention, he gets angry and runs into aggression (hence the passion to communicate). And any attempt retaliatory aggression snarls and goes in games, phones etc. Perpetual anxiety of losing love leaves no child. He has no other desires, only to be angry, to run and despondent boredom. He is stifled by jealousy, resentment, uncertainty, fear, anger, laziness.
Idealists are jealous and full of fear that their ideal may be stolen or it may deteriorate. Is the ideal even for a second stop to meet the ideal, idealists go crazy from anger, malice, jealousy and fear…
God gives children and gives means for their maintenance. Mechanics the next. After the birth of a child, a neurotic woman concentrates all her love on the child, and her husband, in order not to go crazy from withdrawal and jealousy, turns into a workaholic. Workaholics have a good career and earn good money.
Idealists are naive, they live in a world of glass lies, constantly convincing themselves that their lies are true. But how do you convince yourself that a lie is true? Idealists are always filled with doubts, suspicions and jealousy. But the problem is not even that the idealist is a perfect liar, but that the idealist is a man turned upside down, what he believes to be true is a lie, and what is a lie is the truth.
First of all, jealousy, is a fear of a probable loss. Secondly, it's an excruciating pain of a betrayal. And thirdly, this is something one should eradicate in oneself as it only brings problems and its only aim is to kill love and relationship.