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A child.


 


   

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Foreword


4.71.   AR AR

Education of children is not reduced to the concept of "who is a good child", but the answer to the question: "Who is a well-mannered parent?".  Bad parents can't raise good children.  The problem is that parents do not know or are deeply mistaken in the question "how to be good?".

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4135.   AR AR

A  child  is  quite  a  high-tech  product.  It  takes  17  years  so  that  parents  would  make  a  person  out  of  "nobody".  Mistakes  are  inexcusable.  The  price  for  mistakes  and  defects  will  be  really  high. 

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3.468.   AR AR

Parents should restrain and not restrain the child in his desires in order to bring up a harmonious child.  Push and to show anger is undesirable, it is better to remain calm.  It is undesirable to show children that they do not meet expectations, it creates fear and aggression in them.

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8.377. Rectitude is a unique skill.   AR AR

First  of  all,  it's  rectitude  of  judgement  that  should  be  fostered  in  children.  It's  rational  to  free  mind  from  extremes,  illusions  and  other  stupid  things. 

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4.1386.   AR AR

Parents ' passion for their children generates hatred and a keen desire to do the opposite.

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4.1404.   AR AR

The child expresses himself in rebellion, creativity or sport. If there is no creativity, creation and sport – revolt is inevitable.

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4.1577.   AR AR

Mental personality disorders arise when educators begin sweroside to suppress in the child the negative manifestations of personality. As a result, one decreases, the other disproportionately increases, and in the system there is a huge tension, up to the destruction of the personality and its fragmentation. In the human personality should be all and that all must compete to keep each other.

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4.2634.   AR AR

The child wanted to learn to play the guitar, he was sent to study piano. The child wanted to do Boxing, he was sent to Aikido. The child wanted one thing, he imposed another. It is violence, it is pride on the part of parents, it teaches children lies, and lies generate fear, hatred and vices.

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4.2843.   AR AR

Usually the over-love of the child is expressed in the parents ' over-control over him. The parent falls in love with the child to the level of fusion of his personality with his, to the level of possession. A stronger parental personality suppresses the child's weak personality, enveloping him in overcontrol, which leads to the degradation of the child's personality and the development of a number of mental diseases.

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4.1663.   AR AR

Punishment for misconduct should not be solitary, but should be stretched over time. Single events are not perceived as something serious. Truth is a repetitive action. The punishment for wrongdoing and atonement should take a long time. Moreover, until the redemption of guilt, the punished should not receive any rewards and incentives. Otherwise, negative behavior will become a neurotic cycle aimed at attracting attention and the joy of forgiveness through negative behavior. Formed hysterical personality violation. The punished may think that if I am forgiven or not severely punished, then I am loved. And to start to achieve love and satisfaction. The punishment should be long, painful and unpleasant.

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4.1692.   AR AR

Neurosis   in   its   most   severe   form   is   schizophrenia,   resulting   from   the   no-matter-what-I-do-it-is-bad   scenario.   It   is   bad   this   way,   it   is   bad   that   way,   and   that   way   too,   and   nothing   is   ever   good.

When   parents   demand   from   their   child   something   he   is   incapable   of,   the   child   goes   crazy.

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4.1810.   AR AR

They say that fairy tales that a child heard in childhood, unconsciously guide his life.

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4.1837.   AR AR

Rumors that parents love their children are greatly exaggerated, rather, they own them.

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4.2615.   AR AR

Over-loved children see a breath of freedom in doing the opposite of what their parents tell them. Parents are always forcing their lives on them... trying to turn them into themselves.

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4.2844.   AR AR

The development of mental illness in a person is usually associated with his parents. A mother who does not know how to love, envelops the child with supercontrol and over-care, suppresses the personality of the child, destroying his psyche. Such a child is poorly adapted to the surrounding reality, full of fears and prejudices. The personality of the child is depressed and dependent.

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4.2845. Flowers and berries.   AR AR

There   is   nothing   scarier   for   a   child   than   his   mother’s   arrogance.   Arrogance   wants   domination.   Arrogance   transforms   love   into   the   thirst   for   power.   A   mother   dominating   her   child   suppresses   his   personality   and   transforms   him   into   a   schizophrenic.

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4.2963. Sacred duty.   AR AR

Every wife and mother must be very careful that her husband and children never leave their studies, sports and work.

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4.3029. Immunity to humans.   AR AR

Loneliness brings up in children a great sensitivity and vulnerability, that is, fear. Weaning to communicate with other people, a person loses immunity to them and plunges into fear.

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4.3051.   AR AR

Parents should strictly ensure that children have the opportunity to somehow thank them and do useful things.

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The beginning of the book


6.2.   AR AR

A mother teaches a child to love...  fulfilling his every desire, is making a big mistake.  She teaches him that love is the fulfillment of desires, and, therefore, the one who dared not fulfill at least one of his desires, does not love him and, therefore, there is evil and the enemy that causes fear, anger and hatred...  Fleeing from enemies, the enemies hate the near enemy wither and fade, sinking into apathy and laziness.

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4.30.   AR AR

The ability to be honest and tell the truth is the ability to tell bad news.  To break the news to hard, scary and requires a lot of force.  It takes a lot of hard training to learn to tell the truth.

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4.31.   AR AR

To wean person to lie, you need to train in it the strength of spirit and moral philosophy.  A lying person is a weak and ignorant person.

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4.33.   AR AR

It is extremely difficult for young people to study without a mentor.  But since we have a problem with mentors, usually parents and other close people perform their role with grief in half.

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4.42.   AR AR

I do not advise you to abuse memory training, the better a person's memory, the more he is an idiot.  Why would he?  He remembers everything by heart.  However, bad memory is also not a sign of a big mind.

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4.72. How to be human.   AR AR

The main problem with children is that people don't know how to be good parents.  The problem with families is that people don't know how to be a good husband or wife.  People don't know how to be good friends.  How to be an honest person.  How to be a good person.  How to be a strong person.  How to be human.

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4.97. Children want to grow up quicker.   AR AR

Only   fools   want   to   grow   up   quicker   than   they   need.   The   longer   it   takes   you   to   grow   up,   the   better   you   will   succeed   in   getting   prepared   and   becoming   stronger.   Getting   more   prepared   for   the   big   game.

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5.28.   AR AR

A child is a reflection of his parents, which is controlled through the management of himself and the external circumstances that surround the child.  With a child who fell into fear and denial of reality (aggression is the main symptom of fear and unpreparedness for real life), you need to work out, communicate, teach him life.  This is not one conversation from the category of "please be an ideal child and then you gingerbread" and not an exorcism procedure for expulsion from the sinner of the devil.  This is a long and painstaking educational process.  There are no problems, just a small and immature soul is extremely afraid of the real world, can not live, can not communicate... from which falls into the rage of a wild beast.  The problem is solvable, it would be on that desire, patience and goodwill.

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5.30.   AR AR

Parents, do not be shy, come and consult a psychologist.  Even if nothing new is told to You, You will be strengthened in the belief that You are doing everything right.  (Or, conversely, wrong... Anything can happen.)

The child is an ordinary soldier, parents are Junior officers, teachers and psychologists are senior officers and generals.  In principle, to influence the child, a child psychologist does not even have to talk to him, it will be enough to communicate with parents and explain to them how the elder should manage the younger. 

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6.13. On the instructions of wisdom.   AR AR

Teach the wisdom of how to teach the children the letter.  First, hold the hand and trace the letters, then the student circles the letters, following the pattern, then he writes without a sample...  And this is only the first step to reason, for a child who can write and read is not yet an adult.

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6.19.   AR AR

To order need to accustom the child from birth...  Order kills fear.  If there is order, there will be no fear.  Therefore, you need to feed the child on a schedule, as watered plants.  Hug and carry on the hands of the child should be dosed.  Everything needs a measure and order.

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6.20.   AR AR

Parents   should   not   quarrel   and   get   angry   in   the   presence   of   their   children.   Parental   aggression   immerses   children   in   fear   and   makes   them   wicked,   lazy   and   stupid…   and   they   easily   fall   victim   to   vices.

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6.37.   AR AR

Before the birth of a child, the mother neurotically loves her husband, then her husband removes love and throws it on the child, the husband without love dies from the cold, and the child, on the contrary, love burns.  As a result, everyone suffers.

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6.38.   AR AR

Allowing the child to sit on his hands for a long time, sleep with his mother, the mother concentrates it on his love and turns into a neurotic.  Now, when a child is separated from his mother, he feels fear and anger.  Now the child will be paranoid with delusions of vanity.

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6.39.   AR AR

The mistakes of others to learn can only smart, fools are unteachable at all.

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6.43.   AR AR

A child focused on loving his mother will fear and dislike everything that his mother takes away from him...  father, mother's work, kindergarten, school and everything that a mother loves and distracts from her child.

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6.44.   AR AR

The neurotic child is looking for love, but does not want to pay for love.  He reaches out to other children, wanting love from them, but giving them nothing in return... gets nothing from them.  It Angers him and he attacks other children, and those in response.

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6.82.   AR AR

If the child is mistreated, it will grow single-minded psychopath who finds pleasure in fanatical service to their goals.

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7.42.   AR AR

A man is, first of all, the mind, so in children for him genetics is not as important as the opportunity to educate, to convey to the child or student your way of thinking and spirit.

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7.59. No comfort zone.   AR AR

Leaving the comfort zone means that you do not undertake easy, but for heavy tasks.  You do difficult, uninteresting, heavy, terrible, unclear, that is not desirable and causes concern...  This approach to life trains you and makes you stronger.

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