The idea of the cognitive dissonance develops Freud`s ideas. The very mechanism that causes cognitive dissonance was called the It by Freud. Freud thought that the It is programmed in childhood, and it’s true. The It is programmed well and tightly in childhood and youth. But, as the modern psychologists since the physiologist Pavlov have proved, the It and the other conditioned reflexes can be programmed whenever and by whatever.
The essence of Freud's concept that the causes of all our problems lie in childhood intersects with the Christian concept of original sin and the mission of Jesus Christ to break the vicious circle of the fall, when the sins of parents are paid for by their children.
I agree with Freud about the negative nature of man and the formation in early childhood of a significant proportion of the personality. However, in a positive nature, plus in the course of life the power of the mind through the understanding and training he can change his identity.
Freud said that the main thing is sexuality, Adler argued with him that the main thing is the desire for power. And I'm telling you that sexuality and the pursuit of power are two facets of the same thing.
To teach a person to benefit from his negativity, to sublimate and transfer his desires into something useful, into the source of his movement. Such instruments of psychoanalysis as the method of free Association gives the joy of freedom of thought. Many people are mired in self-control, live as if in chains. All this brings misery, tension and pain. The freedom of joyful, blissful freedom of thought, man will find happiness and the realization of your true self. the Third and most important goal of psychoanalysis is to achieve a catharsis. Catharsis is the purification of the soul. Happy and easy on the soul when the soul is clean and fresh. In such an enlightened state, one thinks well, works well, learns well. When life is beautiful you yourself become fruitful and lucky.
Conversations with a psychoanalyst are invigorating, because you can talk about anything and it relieves internal tension, beneficially relieving neuroses, psychoses, fears and complexes... Speaking aloud allows you to better comprehend the problems and successfully solve them. To speak freely and frankly with relatives or just acquaintances is uncomfortable and dangerous... Many things friends and family do not need to know.
If you periodically fall into depression, apathy, laziness or despondency ...go see a shrink, he'll fix you. The psychoanalyst is useful, he knows how to put thoughts on shelves, to put things in order and a lot of other useful things.
The meaning of Freud's method of free Association is to free the mind of the neurotic, allowing him to enjoy freedom... to feel the joy and happiness of freedom. The mind, accustomed to iron chains of strict forms, sensing freedom acquires wings.
Freud's genius idea about the subconscious 'It' that rules a person and hardly depends on this person, should be explained and extended. It's rational to believe in the existence of both inner It and external It. The latter one is the so-called collective It typical of all pack animals.
Psychoanalysis believes that the problem is unconscious desires. There is some truth in this, but there is another problem. Man is not simply not aware of his desires or wrongly aware of them, first of all, he does not know how he can satisfy them. It seems that whatever he's doing, all to no avail and hell is inevitable.
Freud saw the cause of neurosis in suppressed sexuality. Erickson – the inability to fulfill your destiny. Adler is in a lust for power that stems from sexual instinct. Still it is possible to say that neurosis is a discrepancy between his view of himself or a growth problem. In General, we can say that the definition of Erickson wider than all other ideas.
This thought should be explained. One really cannot change oneself on the inside. Even Mr.Freud proved it as he guessed that all sins of a particular person are hidden in this person's inner IT that can't be under this person's control. However, it's possible to change a person and it's even easy to do it. One easily changes under the influence of external educational signals. Beating forms a person's mindset. The carrot and stick approach. And lots of other educational approaches capable of changing anyone.
It's my understanding that an analytical psychologist is a person who is capable of many things. A person who can kill the dragon, kill pain. An analytical psychologist helps one get rid of unhappiness, pain and fear and makes one's thoughts more clear. It's like a blend of an analytical psychologist, philosopher, teacher, rabbi, priest, business consultant, social scientist, political expert, sexual health doctor, fortune teller, marriage broker, family relationships expert …or a friend or a mate. - People can't stand loneliness.
To be honest, I don't know all answers but I know how to ask a right question and as is known, it's a right answer that goes near a right question.
A person may have a headache or many questions left unanswered and bringing pain that should be killed…. There are many situations that may make one feel fear or anger and every negative feeling should be destroyed. There are many piled up mistakes that poison one's soul and bring pain so that they should be corrected.
All these unnecessary questions, fears, mistakes and stupid actions bring pain. When there are too many of them, excessive pain poisons one's soul and excruciating pain should be dealt with.
It's important to sort out one's feelings to be able to deal with mistakes and problems. It's necessary to tune up the chords of the heart and solve various problems.
Psychoanalysis is the basis of Western civilization. It was psychoanalysis that created modern man. A man of efficiency, sanity and balance. The job of a psychoanalyst is to maintain the best in a person. Psychoanalysis allows us to avoid extremes and cultivate a balanced person. A man who could overcome his complexes and neuroses, his stupidity and his delusions. A man of thought and reason. A man who has ceased to be a slave to his subconscious, his feelings and emotions.
Upgrade and fine-tuning of the human soul - that's what a real psychoanalysis.
- Low working efficiency. When it's difficult to turn mind to the work but easy to get distracted by anything so that not to work. It's a decline in strength and activities. - Fear or unwillingness to make a decision or take responsibility for anything. - Headaches, laziness, apathy, unwillingness to do anything useful. - Negative feelings like aggression, anger and annoyance that take over nice ones. - A run of bad luck of some decisions and their consequences. - An obsessive desire to keep making the same mistakes. - Loneliness. - A general lack of happiness and positive emotions in the body.
It's necessary to clean brains. Otherwise, it may get stuffed with rubbish. Short term memory runs out of its memoryspace and makes a person's brain get hung up and lose the ability to think fast enough. It all results into errors that endanger a person's activities.
It's important to take care of the brain, to oil and put it in the right state. It's also necessary to remove dust and rust from it and clean it from rubbish.
Every machine needs some service examination and human brain is not an exception. An analytical psychologist is the real system manager of a human soul.
They say an oral woman needs a penis to boost her self-esteem. Metaphorically, this means that a woman needs her man, and without a man she will be anxious. In the absence of such a complex woman hard ambush personal life.
Woman, to overcome its complex inferiority, very need penis, with than more, the better. A decent man to be proud of and brag about greatly increases a woman's self-esteem. "You might as well say that a man's self-esteem is boosted by a beautiful vagina."
It is said that the manic obsessive type of character is associated with the anal type of personality development. Characterized by perseverance and constipation. Characteristic of the second stage of development of immature personality. If hysteria and double-talk inherent in oral personality, that is a child stuck under the breast, the anal stage is the result of napriazhennosti time to go on the potty. Oral disorders occur because there is no order in feeding the baby, and the anal stage that there is no order in sitting on the pot. Or, on the contrary, superorder.
A person’s psyche is formed by his parents. If, due to their ignorance and viciousness, these parents programmed their child in a flawed manner, he will suffer and be afflicted all his life. To get rid of the original sin, you need to discredit your parents and cut ties with them. This way, all convictions they conveyed to you will be destroyed too. The same method can be used to destroy convictions such as “narcissism”, “the inferiority complex”, “arrogance”, “I’m special”, “vanity”, “avarice”, “I’m worthless”, “self-criticism” and so on.
A psychologist is very useful to the human mind. We can say that the whole modern civilization was built, thanks to psychologists. By fixing the man, they were able to fix the world. In civilized countries, up to 80% of people have their own psychologist (psychoanalyst and psychotherapist in one person.) The man in the head a lot of problems and waste, a source of pain and suffering. We can see that 97% of our compatriots live chronically in hell and suffer. Are you very happy yourself? You're probably used to it, you think it should be. The eternal feeling of anxiety and the edge of the abyss. Looped stupid thoughts in my head, eternal lies to yourself and others, laziness and apathy. Heavy waking up in the morning and hopelessness. Endless running looped in the wheel squirrel and rake... rake... rake... Kind of different, but all the time the same. Thirst for love and lack of love. Chronic resentment, irritation and discontent. Scoundrels and fools around ... Endless failures and suffering, self-pity, suspiciousness and paranoia on the very edge of madness. Tired yet?
Freud argued that all human problems arise from the suppression or dissatisfaction of sexual needs. Adler argued with him that it was all about compensating for the inferiority complex. The humor is that the regulator of growth and development in human society are women who do not want sex with inferior men, in the end, either the man compensates for their inferiority, or everyone has to suppress their sexuality, swear, take offense and sit without sex.
Shrink is very useful because it can safely brag and boast about my (even if fictitious) exploits and victories. This grateful listener will look with admiration and wonder, inspiring you to new feats and achievements. Feats and victories are very necessary to the person as a source of energy, having lost them, the person falls into despondency, laziness and depression.