The split personality of the idealist-neurotic is a typical example of the unity and struggle of opposites. Combining the incompatible, this man surprises, but if you knew that there are two, you would not be surprised at anything.
The devil is the product of idealism; it is the idealists who have divided God into good and bad. The reason is that idealists themselves suffer from a chronic split personality and therefore they see the black-and-white world everywhere.
When an idealist sees a speck in someone else's eye, it is only a small reflection of his own log. An idealist is a blind person who, no matter where he looks, sees only his own reflection in the mirror.
Idealists are forever creating ideals for themselves, and comparing reality with them, they find that reality is a lie, very different from the truth. Idealists even consider themselves false because they do not correspond to their own ideals.
The idealist who lives up to his ideal is strong, the only question is what his ideal is. If his ideal is "movement" and growth to the ideal, then all is well. But if his ideal static, while he has not reached, he is unhappy, and reaching it quickly filled again will be unhappy and run to find a new ideal.
You are not great. Filled with arrogance, you have decided you achieved your ideal and are now impeccable but you know well this is a lie. No, you are not an idea and you cannot govern the world. You are just a little, weak and scared child full of uncertainty, horror and suffering.
Judge not, lest ye be judged, this will save you from laziness, apathy, and depression. When an idealist judges reality, it always fails to live up to his ideal, fails to live up to his expectations and shatters his illusions. A mismatch between expectations of reality cause cognitive dissonance and 1000 of his sins and vices.
It is most effective to attract the attention of idealists to the ugly, because they then fall in love with it through the denial of ugliness. Outwardly, idealists pray for the beautiful and good, but at heart they are ugly monsters who love everything vile, bad and imperfect. The idealist is good on the outside, but ugly on the inside.
An important symptom of idealism is suspiciousness. Idealists are similar, in essence, to magnifying glasses, everything seems to them either more or less than it is. Suspiciousness is an exaggeration of fear. And where there is suspiciousness, there is an underestimation of fear.
The meaning of "Pygmalion" and "Cleopatra" by Bernard Shaw is that you can not bring up in your love your ideal, because then it will become a copy of the monster of yourself and eat you. Love is a plus on a minus, and a plus on a plus is a big problem.
Idealists are unbearable in their pursuit of the ideal. To bring them to humility, it is necessary to torment their black nature. When they accept that evil is inevitable, they will understand how beautiful the colors of the day are.
There is a couple of perfect utopian communities known to nature. Hives are perfect female communities. Anthills are perfect male communities... And of course no one would deny that extremeties are effective. But is there truth in them? And who in fact, really needs these extremeties and what do they finally result into?
Pride is a desire to change the outside world, not yourself. Different variations of this desire are the desire to save the world, nihilism, the eternal search for the causes of their problems outside themselves.
A child is a reflection of his parents, which is controlled through the management of himself and the external circumstances that surround the child. With a child who fell into fear and denial of reality (aggression is the main symptom of fear and unpreparedness for real life), you need to work out, communicate, teach him life. This is not one conversation from the category of "please be an ideal child and then you gingerbread" and not an exorcism procedure for expulsion from the sinner of the devil. This is a long and painstaking educational process. There are no problems, just a small and immature soul is extremely afraid of the real world, can not live, can not communicate... from which falls into the rage of a wild beast. The problem is solvable, it would be on that desire, patience and goodwill.
You should know that idealists are extremely inattentive to the little things that are not interesting to them, and absolutely attentive to everything that is interesting to them. Yelling at a neurotic for inattention is generally ineffective.
Idealists are moths who want to disappear into the light. Idealists believe that there should be only light, eternal day and eternal sun. Idealists are terrible people, beware of them. However, nihilists who consider the standard of eternal night, there is no more than a reflection of the idealist in the mirror of his soul.
If the Creator does not believe and hope that his creations are beautiful, he will not be able to create. To understand, truly do well the creature can either a comparison with an ideal or the cries of the critics.
Old and young people can't live under the same roof. People with age fall into idealism and stereotyped thinking, any discrepancy with the templates causes them fear and paranoia. This causes stress and spoils everyone's health.
The more money a man has the more prosperous he is and the more he's ready to spend on his woman as he's more caring. So isn't it a perfectman? And you say that money is evil. Money is not evil but rather a pH paper that is an indicator of a good person...
The universe resembles an inkblot... Cosmic chaos… absolute novelty and eventuality…
But we remember that one really wishes for what one doesn't have. Absolute chaos wants absolute order. The Universe likes the beauty of perfection most of all. It's a sum of uniqueness typical of nature from birth and perfect beauty that order creates... Unique perfect beauty is probably the most precious thing in the whole Universe.
The unique tends to become the perfect…
Rapidly spreading to all directions, the inkblot of the Universe which is full of uniqueness and chaos, above anything else craves to become a perfect immaculate dot back again.
Perhaps, some day in the future it will really happen. The universe will shrink back into a dot and will gain its original perfection. But perfection cannot be stable in this Universe, and that's why as soon as the Universe becomes a perfect dot, it will soon be reborn and it will cause a new Big Bang. And the chaos will start again.