The impasse you're in is a result of dichotomous black-and-white thinking, you don't see the details at all... The wall in front of you is full of holes...
Beauty is order, and therefore, templates and stereotypes. Beautiful soul and body people are terribly formulaic, suspicious, and think extremely dichotomously, which turns their lives into a hell full of fears.
Lack of attention for details produces excessive generalizations that produce black and white dichotomous thinking that produces idealism and neuroses that produce hell and paradise. Interestingly, hell and sufferings remain inside the person whereas paradise and happiness remain in the mirror-world and in dreams.
Why does impressionistic fuzzy thinking turn into black-and-white dichotomy? - This is an attempt to clear the picture and see the situation better. Color spots are hard to identify.
The more options a person has in his head, the less fear he has. Fear is usually associated with dichotomous thinking, when, choosing from two extremes, you suddenly realize that both are unacceptable.
Hypersensitivity blocks the negative feedback of the mind with the real world and generates dichotomous thinking in the style of"there is pleasure is good, no pleasure is bad." Additionally, in terms of negation criticism develops pride as their features…
Dichotomous thinking occurs against the background of blocking negative information that generates fear. This can happen either from an overabundance of fear (for example, loss of parents, aggression), or against the background of an overabundance of tenderness and intimacy, enhancing sensuality.
Black and white dichotomous thinking is thinking in the style of " there is pleasure-good, no pleasure-bad." In fact, this addiction, generating breaking and hell. Like a rat, he presses the red button, demanding pleasure until he dies.
The vision of a man who has no love is blurred and enlarged, he, like a child, does not see details at all. The absence of details makes his thinking dichotomous, turn off intuition, fill the soul with fear, deprive beauty, etc.
The revolution of the spirit occurs when the dichotomous man becomes tired of being a demon or an angel, and he changes the mask of his nature to the opposite.
Idealism, that is, dichotomous thinking, generates many personality disorders at once. Dependent personality and inferiority complex is a mismatch to the ideal. Megalomania and narcissism is when fantasies of self-perfection. Perfectionism is a ritual desire to achieve the impossible. And so on and so forth.
An idealist is one who hates and despises fierce hatred to any, not even a formal inconsistency to his ideals and ideas of perfection. Religion calls idealism the sin of pride, the very first of mortal sins. Psychotherapy considers idealism neurosis, maximalism and dichotomous thinking, the basis of all personality disorders.
The idealist's dichotomous black-and-white thinking creates a corridor of fear, a carrot and a stick. Running away from fear creates walls of fear, limiting the squirrel's thinking to two black-and-white options.
Red and white is a symbol of alcoholism and drug addiction generated by dichotomous thinking. The contrast creates the fire red, which want to extinguish white and to gain rest.
Stress... Stress is fear... Fear is the product of ignorance, weakness and rotten philosophy... And dichotomous thinking, of course, which generates neurotic swings, and every transition from black to white is stressful.