The ideal is very tedious. When everything is perfect, everything happens very quickly and intensively, even there is no time to rest. The ideal devours all the time available to it.
Perfection is very tedious. I noticed that the more a person craves the ideal, the more intense and exhausting the running of the squirrel in the wheel becomes. As they say, not a moment of peace. In conditions of such overexertion, peace and relaxation turn into a super-value.
The ideal idol fulfills all your needs, which generates the destruction of boundaries and has such negative consequences as jealousy, resentment and thirst for power. By the way, I noticed that the ideal gets bored very quickly and becomes very tedious.
The ideal is an interesting illusion. You look at the ideal and go crazy how beautiful it is. Others look at your ideal and don't see anything special in it. Out of politeness, people, of course, lie to you that your ideal is beautiful, but in fact nothing special.
In the series "Win back" we are shown how deceptive the ideal can be. Narcissists and psychopaths can very convincingly pretend to be good people. The perfect family, the perfect people, but as soon as we dig a little deeper than the surface shine, we will find rot, vices and emptiness.
The problem with the ideal is that it provokes greed. You want more all the time, and at some point you make a fatal mistake and go overboard, after which heaven turns into hell, and everything collapses.
Too much love is tiring. I want less love and a little more peace. We need harmony of love and peace. Some people, out of fear, hunger for love, or obsessed with their super-strong desire, try to be too perfect, generating too much love ... and this is very tiring.
The sexual instinct is a scary thing. Desires deprive people of free will, make them commit crimes, put on a mask of ideality and all that sort of thing. Life requires reproduction at any cost.
I see a direct relationship between ideality and psychopathy. The perfect person is the perfect psychopath. One of the reasons is that he does not see his sins and gets an emotional concussion. This person emotionally burns out from the inside and is able to feel only very strong emotions.
A person lies and pretends to be perfect because he craves power and super pleasures. After all, if another person creates an idol out of him, he will be ready to serve him and fulfill all desires.
A woman, meeting a man who looks like her ideal, instantly loses control of herself, becomes very tense and tries to be perfect. To get rid of this feeling, you should to tell myself that it's not me, but my sexual desire and thirst for children. The desire for libido is super-strong, having seen the ideal, it requires reproduction.
A great inner fear generates in them a desire to be perfect, to be loved. When they are loved, they feel safe. In this sense, fear and cowardice are the motive to be perfect. It is ideal to fulfill other people's wishes. Perfectly match other people's tastes. Be the perfect servant and meal.
Fears and desires force a person to be perfect, putting on the masks of other people's desires. Cowards and greedy people from the outside can look quite perfect.
A woman who wants to be perfect strives to fulfill the desires of her man and children. This makes the children spoiled and uncontrollable, and the man is jealous and thirsty for power. However, a man may, on the contrary, get bored and he will to run from a lady.
The idea of the ideal is banal. If I am an ideal, then you should take care and serve me, fulfilling my desires. I am the ideal, and you are my source of energy, pleasure and protection.
The ideal is something devoid of life and change. The ideal is a moment, it is a picture. Inside the ideal, everything is unchangeable. There is no joy inside the ideal, but it is joyful to look at the ideal from the outside.
If the wife is too good, the husband will get used to it and become a narcissistic addict. If a woman's mood or health deteriorates, then her husband may begin drug withdrawal and outbursts of aggression. The husband will constantly make claims to his wife for a bad mood, and demand constant joy and perfection from her.
Pride must be subdued out of compassion. Pride is an ideal that tends to overkill. The peculiarity of the ideal is that it generates an ever-growing eternally hungry and insatiable desire. Pride precedes a fall, because sooner or later it crosses the line beyond which there is an abyss. Sisyphus rolls his stone up the mountain until he falls into the abyss. Icarus approaches the Sun until his wings fall apart. Moths fly into the fire to burn in it.
The ideal is suicide. Having seen the ideal, you will want to dissolve into it and disappear. The ideal will turn you into a slave, a drug addict and a psychopath. I conjure you, fear the ideal like fire.
The idol is illusorily perfect. This is an illusion that will only get worse. The idol falls down from the maximum. The real, on the contrary, grows from the bottom up and becomes gradually better. If the object evolves towards improvement, it is real, and if it degrades, then it is an idol. That is, reality realizes the potential for growth, and the ideal of the potential for decline.
A narcissist is a person who thinks he is perfect, and therefore the feeling of guilt and shame is unbearable to him. Such a person does not want to take the blame, so his external world is to blame for all his problems and sufferings. This unfortunate man walks forever offended and dissatisfied.
Happiness is very hard and exhausting. Happiness is like a vampire sucking energy out of you. You are afraid of losing this ideal. The ideal sucks energy out of you. To hell with this happiness, the ideal is hell.
The ideal person perfectly fulfills your desires, which corrupts you, turning you into a drug addict and an idol. However, do not flatter yourself that you are very lucky. In fact, this man is a psychopath, he has a secret life full of vices and sins. The one who perfectly fulfills other people's desires is unable to resist his secret desires.
You don't have to be perfect. Becoming perfect, you will ruin your life and the lives of your loved ones. You should be yourself, respecting your boundaries and desires.
Being a perfect person is bad. People stick to you like flies, crave power over you. All this is hemorrhoids. However, it is especially sad to be a star of some kind or a very rich person, it is generally a disaster. Everyone will demand love from you, tear you apart and try to devour you.
You should pacify your desires by being skeptical about them, because strong desires force you to put on a mask of ideality, enslaving the real you. Similarly, strong desires give rise to painful expectations and more Moreover, if you want a lot, you will get little. The stronger the desire, the harder it is to push it into reality.
After visiting the country of El Dorado, I realized that the ideal is not as joyful as it might seem. More Moreover, everything that generates an ideal is an illusion, and nothing can be taken from the land of El Dorado to the real world.
Your desire for everyone to conform to your ideals is disrespect and pride. The thirst for the ideal is pride, and the ideal is the exact fulfillment of your desires.
The perfect life and the perfect people is the life of a princess on a pea that is going crazy from the slightest threat of perfection. Especially depressing is the need to wear a good mood mask all the time, smile at someone, talk to someone, go somewhere, do something. Not a moment of peace, the squirrel is locked in the wheel of the clock like a minute hand.
A person who wants to be perfect or craves perfection from other people is doomed to suffer. The thirst for an ideal life is a terrible stupidity. By the way, being perfect means fulfilling other people's wishes. To demand perfection is to crave for everything to be as you want it to be. It seems like the ideal is heaven, but the devil was perfect and built the perfect hell.
The ideal is good, but there should be a little bit of good. The problem with the ideal is that he does not understand how he needs a little and longs to become universal. The ideal tends to overkill, which turns it into poison.
Sacrificial love is toxic love. A person tries to be perfect and belong to his idol. Moreover, the idol does not like it, because it is a burden, responsibility, some obligations and a violation of freedom.
El Dorado, aka paradise lost, and in general, what is called ideal and paradise is actually hell. The perfect devil built an idyll and called it paradise. Everything in such a paradise is perfect, except that there is no love and it is dreary.
Fear is their love. Fear is the desire that makes them be perfect, fulfilling other people's desires. However, it is joyful to love, and joy kills fear, after which love disappears.
A person who thinks he is better than the devil is obsessed with pride. Mr. Devil is the embodiment of perfection. To assert oneself better than the ideal is a clear overkill. More moreover, even the desire to become perfect is already too much, sending a person's soul to hell.
Humility is when a person reconciles with himself and his imperfection. The best is the ideal. The ideal is Mr. Devil. When a person comes to terms with the fact that he is not the devil, it generates lightness and joy of the soul. I'm not the best, I'm just good. Being the best is hard, being good is easy. I am the least of the demons, and I have no desire to be the best demon. The higher and more resplendent the demon, the hotter the water in his cauldron.
Denial generates an ideal, removing excess. The more a person strives for perfection, the more he denies. The perfect devil turns into a dot and destroys the whole world. Thus, negativism is narcissism and a passion for ideality. However, positivism is another facet of the ideal, which greedily desires more, striving to devour everything, and which is always just not enough.
Perfection is pure joy. Perfection is when there are no goals, desires, something important. Everything is perfect as it is, and nothing else is needed.
Too much desire creates a super-value and the fear of not getting this super-value. Fear makes a person try to be perfect in order to get what he wants. All this they call love. When the wish is fulfilled, love and ideality will melt away like fog.
A person who longs to be perfect will be very afraid of other people's opinions, but inside he will be full of resentment, anger and lies. Outwardly, he will sing odes to honesty, and try to be pretentiously perfect.