Pride is that which desires to rule over beauty, to rule over God. Pride is that which desires power over God, not unity with him. The second type of pride is the refusal to serve beauty, the refusal to love beauty. Pride is a mortal sin that condemns to suffering, but the second type of sin also leads to poverty and self-destruction.

Refusing a man, you spit in his soul, which is very insulting. Resentment causes a sharp Allergy and in the future, this person is unlikely to want to deal with you, except from despair. Resentment is a love killer, this man doesn't love you anymore. If you still want to say no, say no very, very politely.

Pride is the denial of love.  Pride does not want to love.  Pride judges and says, " This is unworthy of love.  This is also unworthy and unworthy."  Pride is especially fond of saying that only the dead or the distant can be worthy of love, and pride does not love the near or the living.  Pride loves what is not, and believes that it is good where we are not.  Around pride, things are usually very bad.

God is love.  God is everything.  Everything is love.  From this phrase follows...  that everything is worthy of love...  If this thought is extended, it is a great pride to refuse to love something under the pretext that it is unworthy of love, ugly, imperfect.  This is pride and a sign that the person does not show proper attention.

Love of beauty is good, but you must understand that everything is beauty.  One must have the power to renounce beauty in the name of love for virtue (law).

I forbid you to criticize other people's tastes.  Love is equal to love, criticizing someone else's love is rude.

The first law of love is that beauty is what is loved.  We must love beauty.  Anyone who refuses to love beauty or tries to judge it is proud, and suffers for it.

Love is the main law of this world.  We all have to serve love.  Pride is the rejection of love.  In the absence of love, life becomes extremely unbearable.  Don't be shy about loving.  Don't be afraid to admire.  Share your love.  Accept someone else's love.  Love will save you, pride will destroy you.  Pride lies to you, it makes you judge what is good and what is evil, what is worthy of love and what is not.  In fact, you should love everything that comes to you and not hold on to anything that runs away, because love can't stand violence and disrespect.

The essence of grace, love, and insight  Jesus saw beauty and hope in everything.  Jesus denied love, beauty, hope, salvation, and faith to no one.

Fear is not the absence of love, but the denial of love. Fear is one of the states of love. Fear is the same energy and knowledge as love. That is, fear cannot be repressed and suppressed.

All gone, the end, disaster...  What to do?  How to live on? ...  It's all nonsense.  The end of one is always the beginning of the other.  The point is that we have no right to deny the new love.  Refusal of love is pride.  How to live on?  Rejoice and love.

Pride believes that love and joy are special.  Pride denies love to some entities and exalts the love of others.  Pride makes idols out of one thing, and despises all the rest and denies love and joy.  We call pride blindness and ignorance.

You have free will to love.  You can love anything.  On the other hand, you should always maintain the hunger for love, because emptiness is a huge value that attracts to itself.  And you can choose or refuse.

You say:  "I want to love too."  Loving it is joyful.  Everyone has the right to love.  You're right, but in a world where everything is love, you lack love.  How did it happen?  I'll tell you.  It's an addiction, and you're looking for a drug.  You are not interested in true love because you are blind.  But you're looking for overdose and overdose, which then kills you.  All this blindness is called pride, greed and denial of love.  The world periodically gives you what you want, but only so that you learn to be afraid of your desires.  Strong desires kill.

All words are reversed...  The addict thinks that the only value is something that is not enough, that is, an idol.  In a barrel of honey with a spoonful of tar, a drug addict prays for tar.  Syntalism is not against the fact that tar is good, but, firstly, do not create an idol for yourself, and secondly, consider honey worse than tar and deny him love, is it fair?  Although, of course, honey also has enough sins.  Honey is sickly sweet, and what you call a fly in the ointment is just a small limited spoonful of honey that you've turned into an idol.

Pain occurs when a person speaks:  "I have nothing to love."  Man refuses to love.  The man says:  "I do not want to love anything, and what I want to love is not there, it is not available to me, it is gone or dead."  This situation gives rise to a situation where love turns into pain and fear of that pain.  In fact, this is a situation of pride, a refusal of love.  The cure is to let go of what is going away and focus your love on what is here and now.

Pain occurs  from the fact that a person refuses to love what is here and now, but longs for love from what is inaccessible.  Let go!  Let go of attachment to the unattainable and allow the emptiness within you to rejoice in what is.  The world around you is infinitely perfect and lovable.  Realize that it is folly to crave love by force from one who refuses to love.  You're like a sea wave hitting a rock, but believe me, it's just a thirst for power.  There are already infinitely many rocks inside the ocean.  The fact that under your pressure another stone will fall into you, nothing will change, except that you will kill another desire.  There's no point in chasing rocks.  Desires are like coastal rocks, they themselves under the pressure of rains and landslides fall into your arms.

Seeing beauty, a person can not deny her love without feeling pain and fear.  However, a person can put up with pain and fear.  However, a person has enough free will to close his eyes and not look at beauty.  A person, knowing his weakness for beauty, can consciously or unconsciously avoid it.

We do not love the pride of others, for it does not love us.  Pride is the denial of love.  We have a right not to like Pride.  However, we respect free will and the right not to love.

It's simple, Either you enjoy what is here and now, or you go to hell.  To refuse to love the present moment is a mortal sin of pride, the punishment for which is known.

The idol is the key to unlock the energy of love.  An idol could love, but a man could not.  The idol used the energy of man's love, and man himself does not know how to love.  If the idol disappears, a person who is accustomed to love, but does not know how to love, will go mad.  from the pain.  Love will begin to tear the unfortunate from the inside.  A fire in his chest, a wild pain, as if his skin were being torn off.  Man does not know how to love himself, he loves through the eyes of an idol.  Now that the idol is gone, man refuses to love.  The man says:  "I won't love anything.  Love is life."  A man who refuses to love dies.

Boredom is pride, denial of love and attention.

The most important facet of pride is the refusal to love, because the object does not correspond to the ritual, the standard and unworthy of love.  You say:  "I won't love her because she's bad"…

It is forbidden to want someone else's love.  Love loves free will.

Guilt for what?  For not loving you?  You have the right not to love anything.  Freedom of love is the primary law of love.  Anyone has the right to renounce love and refuse to love.

You refuse to love what is required of you and, therefore, you are not perfect.  Being imperfect is excruciatingly painful, the soul is filled with guilt.  Indeed, ideality is the freedom of love, and the blindness of pride is a vice, on the other hand, love has the free will to love what it sees fit.  On the other hand, there is no freedom in the slavery of vices, and that is why it is shameful. 

Depression is the denial of the freedom of love.  A depressed person refuses to love and be loved.  Why is this happening?  The unfortunate man created an idol from his reflection in the mirror.

You can love any form, but you cannot demand love.  Nothing prevents you from building a temple of your love, but you cannot force it.  God live in him.  More precisely, you can, but not in the form you want.  God can take any form he wants, you have no right to refuse him.

Hunger is the rejection of love.  The proud man wants to love only the ideal, and he does not love everything else.  Unrealized love sublimates into resentment, fear, self-pity, hunger for joy, etc.  If you allow yourself to love, the hunger will disappear, and the black hole will turn into the sun.  A person will feel a sense of fullness, and joy will fill his soul.  However, a defective person, a proud person, forbids himself to love reality and what he has.

Narcissist (neurotic)  feels inadequate.  And it's true.  The inferiority of this person is that he cannot love.  The mechanism of love is broken in this man.  This person does not know how to love, forbids himself to love.  The ignoramus decided that one can love only lies and ideals.  Since a lie is something that does not exist and ideals do not exist in reality, this person has big problems with love.  Love, not finding its use, burns out, turning into fear, pain and a legion of other vices.

Pride is the denial of love, that is, the sin of killing love.  However, this sin works only if a person does not love anything.  Love has the right to the freedom of love, and the violation of this freedom is also pride and the murder of love.

The idealist can love only the ideal, and therefore refuses to love everything that he considers imperfect.  But because the proud man is ignorant and blind, he does not see the ideal.  There is an infinitely ideal world around, which the proud man does not see.  A proud liar, he calls the truth imperfect.  If through the knowledge of being the proud man sees the ideality of the world, he will love it.

One lies.  And that's a sin.  And man will answer for his sin.  As for you, you do not want to forgive a person his sin, and this is the refusal of love and the sin of pride.  For this mortal sin, you will fall into the depths of hell right now, right here, and nothing will save you from endless torment.  God Is Love, You cannot kill God, you cannot forbid love to love.  If  God will leave you, your life will become hell.

Alcoholism and other vices come from a lack of integrity within a person.  Man tries to satisfy his infinite hunger with infinite vice.  There is no love in this man, he has forbidden himself to love, and all his love has become hunger, emptiness, fear and pain.  Why had he forbidden himself to love?  He is proud and ignorant, he says:  "I can only love the ideal."  But he does not see the ideal, because he is blind and stupid.  He is a child who was not given candy, and he considers an Apple imperfect compared to a poisonous candy.

You judge according to your internal code of laws, and you pass judgment – this can be loved, but this is not.  Love is joy, the Prohibition of love manifests itself as fear, burning and pain in the solar plexus.  Love suffers when it is forbidden to love.

Man is eternally seeking the truth, but he cannot find it because he loves only lies.  We can only see what we love.  Having eaten the fruit of the tree of knowledge, Adam was deceived by the tempting serpent, loved falsehood, and rejected the truth.  We do not object to the fact that lies are beautiful, but we consider it unfair to deny the truth love.

They   do   not   just   refuse   to   love   and   fall   into   depression,   but   because   they   consider   themselves   bad   and   unworthy   of   love.   You   should   allow   yourself   to   love   yourself,   realizing   yourself   as   a   work   of   art.   To   do   this,   you   should   realize   the   value   of   your   attention,   which   gives   joy.

You   cannot   refuse   the   voice   of   love.   When   love   asks,   it   is   impossible   to   refuse   it.

To keep the power and magic, you need to realize that everything is hope and beauty.  Everything can be loved equally, even what seems bad and says:  "Don't love me."  Thorns in a Rose are not a reason to refuse love.

The reasons for our failures and misfortunes is the refusal of love.  You can not say"I do not like."  Everything should be loved a little, and something special should be loved strongly.  Deny someone a little love-bring disaster on your head.

The fact that I don't like something is my problem, not the one I don't like.  Forbidding myself to love, I lose energy, and the one whom I deprived of energy, will quickly find a new energy.  However, I also have infinitely many options for love.

A man who has no love is always poor.  The man who has love is always rich, for love is a priceless treasure.  But love is always there.  Man is love.  Then what's the problem?  Self-restraint.  Man forbids himself to love.  As a child, he was taught to love only idols and pleasures.  Self-locking restricts movement.  There is no movement, no joy and no life.  There is no movement, there is no form that has mastered the energy.  No energy, Hello, hunger.

The reason for uncontrollable crazy love is not in the nature of love, but in how a person uses it.  If you keep love locked up and deny yourself love, then as soon as Love breaks free, it greedily tries to catch up.  Love, like gin trapped in a jug, breaks free.  For love not to be so wild, it is not necessary to lock it in the prison of ideals.  Free love, it is good and quite adequate.

You can not force yourself to love anything and you can not forbid yourself to love anything.

Love is not a right.  A man must love the world, otherwise he will turn into a genie and fall into hell.  To love the world is to love God.  Of course, this is all an allegory, but the suffering is real.  The genie lives in a jug, and his love is an ideal, small as the eye of a needle, like the neck of a bottle.  The ideal is somewhere far away, it is beautiful and inaccessible, and the genie lives in a bottle and it is bad.  The light is at the end of the tunnel and the darkness is all around.  This is all because man refused to love the whole world and concentrated all his love into an idol.  The concentrate of love is divinely beautiful, it seems  A god, but really an idol.  The idol blinds, plunging the world into darkness.  The darkness around them becomes as hard and impenetrable as Diamond Glass.  On the other hand, the darkness is transparent, so jin sees other people around perfectly, sees their happiness and is terribly jealous, suffering even more.  To be saved, you need to imagine yourself as a candle and say to yourself that it is my duty to illuminate the world around me with the light of your love.  You need to allow yourself to love what is.  You need to dilute the concentration of love.

A person feels guilty, and constantly punishes himself.  The punishment is to refuse to love and rejoice.  When you love little, there are a few objects (ideas, dreams) that seem blindingly beautiful, but they are not available and this causes constant suffering and guilt.  One could serve these dreams, but the circumstances of life interfere, so one simply suffers, trying to drown out the pain with pleasures and oblivion.  Usually the pain is drowned out by oblivion.  However, there are moments when a person becomes too good, and then you need to urgently punish yourself and come up with a sense of guilt.  At this point, a person can, for example, get drunk, take drugs, after which he will later repent, tear his hair, but this is exactly what he wanted.  He wanted to go back to suffering.  Such people begin to strenuously look for problems, sufferings, vices, troubles only in order to be in the stage of comfortable suffering.  Among such people there are many alcoholics, drug addicts, workaholics, etc.  What is this man punishing himself for?  Because there is no love in him, and he does not serve love.  The idol of his love is inaccessible.  However, he cannot love anything else, because love is joy, and he is forbidden to enjoy anything other than an idol.

Pure consciousness is pure love, pure energy, liberated  from forms and attachments.  Pure consciousness is limitless and dispersed.  Forms are like prisons.  Vice is like a pitcher into which water has been poured, separating it from the ocean.  Released from prison, Love becomes the ocean again.  Moreover, the jug of VICE in which the genie is locked is an illusion, it does not exist.  In the ocean of Illusion, all illusions think of themselves as hosts and receptacles of love.  Every form feels love within itself or another form, but the truth is that everything is love.  Love is everywhere.  A person forbids himself to feel love when he says:  "I do not love, cannot or will not love."  By denial, a person creates the illusion of the absence of love.  Denial is an illusion.

Narcissists and sonarcissists are two different vices of cognition.  The narcissist is cowardly and afraid of dissolving into the object of knowledge, so he refuses to know and love.  The sonarcissist is not afraid to know, seeks love, but does not love and does not respect himself, therefore dissolves into the object of his knowledge and love, losing his I. That is, the ego of the sonarcissist lives inside the narcissist.  Whereas the narcissist himself is afraid to love, so he forbids himself to love and feel.

Narcissists and sonarcissists are essentially two identical people, but one of them allowed himself to love and, having dissolved in love, became a codependent.  The second forbade himself to love, because he is afraid of losing himself.  The problem with both of these people is a lack of self-love and self-respect.  The slightly bolder one attacked and became a codependent slave.  The one who is more cowardly, defends himself and became the master.  At the same time, the sonarcissist, having dissolved into the narcissist, longs for power over him, but the narcissist also longs for power over his slave, because he has become a part of him.  The narcissist's thirst for power is a thirst for self-control and integrity, a fear of losing oneself.

Hate is love deprived of freedom.  Hate is the denial of love.  Often hatred arises in one who wanted to rule over love, but he was denied love.