Alcohol zeroing is necessary then to destroy paralyzing fear, anxiety and resentment. Alcohol seems to bring a person back to life, allowing them to continue moving.
The problem of alcoholism is not alcohol. Alcohol is a medicine, it saves you from other more dangerous diseases. Your subconscious mind protects alcohol because it knows that you can't do without it.
Alcoholism is incurable, but we specialize in miracles, and this gives a chance. Alcoholism is a symptom of a very terrible, deadly and incurable disease. Alcoholism is like a fungus, the root of which is a huge mycelium. Picking one mushroom, we will only aggravate the situation, because other mushrooms will climb. An alcoholic is doomed to hell. After all, the true disease is called neurosis and pride.
The world is always so good. But pride and resentment blind a person, not allowing them to see reality, and alcohol pacifies pride and gives relief. There is another option when a sober person pretends to be perfect, but alcohol allows you to remove the mask. In any case, alcohol reveals to us the truth and reality. When a lie becomes unbearable to a person, he uses alcohol as an elixir of truth.
Alcohol brings a person who denies God closer to God. Alcohol opens the blind man's eyes. When sober, you forbid yourself to see the world, and alcohol is your wonderful mediator, opening your eyes to reality. You remember this world as you see it now. And know that he is always like this. Usually, under alcohol and drugs, the world is beautiful, but without them it is tense and anxious (in 20% of cases, on the contrary). Alcohol allows a person to forgive the imperfection of a world that does not want to fulfill a person's wishes.
I don't apologize, because to apologize, you need to be offended. And why should I be offended by frankness? Frankness is truth. They don't take offense at the truth.
The proud man suffers from the fact that his goal has not been achieved, but having realized his goal, he falls into even greater despair. The problem with new goals. Big goals frighten with the memory of past suffering. Small goals are uninteresting and insignificant.
What is resentment? You are disappointed that the person is not perfect. That is, before that you were deluded about the ideality of this person, and now your illusions have broken, and reality has upset you. You're denying reality. People are imperfect, only demons are perfect, but the perfection of demons is a temptation that leads us down the road to hell.
The medicine is the will of the sufferer, but in order to control your will, you need to pacify it. The humility of pride is the humility of one's will. Blessed are the poor in spirit, for their will is like a candle flame and therefore subject to human consciousness.
It should be as simple as one, two, three. The meaning of the book "Variothought" and the philosophy of Syntalism is to reduce the infinite variety of life to very simple things. It is necessary to combine the plural into the singular. It is necessary to see the simple in the complex. The point is to realize that the universe and the point are one.
It's hard to talk to alcoholics and drug addicts in the sense that this person doesn't give a damn what they say. This man is a proud man, and a proud man says "I am the truth." His truth is his strong emotions and desires. Anything that does not coincide with his desires is a lie. This person does not believe in lies. To heal from alcoholism, you need to believe a lie.
To pacify your pride, you will have to believe a lie. The proud man believes only the truth, but the truth for the proud man is what he likes and corresponds to his desires. He thinks it's right, and it's the truth… That is, the proud man has his own truth, and he considers everything that does not correspond to it to be a lie. To humble pride is to admit that everything is the truth, and lies do not exist. On the other hand, everything is a lie, for truth is only a vain ode to the most diverse desires.
Neurosis is a refusal to accept reality and acknowledge it. A neurotic, entering into a war with reality, condemns himself to suffering, unbearable tension and other hemorrhoids. The neurotic does not like reality, he judges it and considers it bad.
Neurosis is a war, the meaning of which is to force a person to recognize reality and accept it. Neurosis is a denial of reality. Illusions crave power. Consciousness is afraid of sobriety like fire. Reality limits illusions, and illusions, obsessed with pride, are afraid of reality like fire.
The inflated ego feels its omnipotence and is overflowing with energy. Such an ego is very vulnerable to resentment. At some point, such resentment inevitably happens. Resentment generates post-traumatic shock, fear, leakage of energy and turns a person into a victim. The victim loses his sense of omnipotence and a significant part of his energy.
An inflated ego is very vulnerable to resentment. Disrespect, disrespect, neglect, criticism, deception, insufficient reward, insufficient love, distrust, false accusation cause resentment in an inflated ego. The proud man is constantly running from resentment, denying them, but if the resentment still breaks through his psychological defense, it generates post-traumatic shock, expressed in anxiety, fear, devastation, despair, loss of motivation, etc.
A narcissist gains special strength and omnipotence when he is praised and loved, but overkill of an inflated ego at some point in time inevitably gives rise to the feeling that I am not loved or not loved enough, or used, or not trusted.… This creates resentment, devastation and deprives a person of all his infinite energy and strength.
A narcissist is a person obsessed with finding "true love," so he walks around constantly disappointed. It is worth finding this love, gaining tremendous strength, but then something happens and the person is disappointed, losing all his strength. The emptiness is maddening. Charm and disappointment are the scourge of the proud. Fake love. They don't really love me. Everything is a lie, there are liars around. Paranoia and distrust are other symptoms of narcissism.
Do you know what the meaning of your life was? You gained experience and shared this experience with me, and I recorded your experience in the life book. The life book reads people and their lives, filling itself with their experiences. The meaning of your life was to feed the book of life by giving it a little new information.
Idols, as a source of external power and omnipotence, are needed by man to show man what kind of power there is. Idols are always destroyed, and a person falls into despair. However, despair is the key to realizing that the source of power is in the human soul, and idols were just reflectors for concentrating this power.
Falling into pride, a person begins to treat things and people with contempt, arrogance and distrust, which does not allow him to treat them with reverent hope. Reverence is a source of power and wonder, turning things into a primary element and a reflector. The humility of pride brings down a person's ego, which allows him to look up to any things, returning him the ability to reverence. Thus, despair is the key to epiphany.
Alcoholism, drug addiction and all other vices and addictions are a litmus test indicating that a person is obsessed with the sin of pride, narcissism. A person feels a monster inside himself and cannot accept this monster. Healing from all this hemorrhoids in humility with yourself.
Overflowing with power turns a person into a vampire monster. At some point, from resentment or failure, a person loses his strength and is covered by an endless emptiness that drives him crazy. Humility and understanding are needed here. An experienced person will find strength in the void. There is as much power inside a person as there is outside.
The main test of a person separating the wheat from the chaff is when a person is first overwhelmed by an external force, turning into a vampire, and then this force is taken away from him. To lose the external source of power and find the real power inside yourself, that's the point. Those who fail the tests will go crazy from paranoia, post-traumatic shock, resentment, illness, etc.
The narcissist demands perfect love for himself, overflowing with strength from it. This is a very vulnerable condition. The cure is forgiveness, but the narcissist does not know how to forgive, and is very demanding of people and love. Resentments and disappointments deprive the narcissist of strength and kill him. The narcissist accuses people of betrayal, fake love, imperfection, intent to harm him and ill will.
It cannot be said that there is right and wrong. Humility with oneself makes everything right. They say, be restrained, listen to fewer words, and that's right. But I saw that stupidity, incontinence and verbosity are also right. More those extremes are effective against each other and exist in antiphase.
Too much force affects paranoid suspiciousness, which ultimately leads to a loss of strength, which generates post-traumatic shock and further increases paranoia, resentment and persecution mania. The cure is self-knowledge and humility with oneself and reality. This is not a bad reality, it's just a soap bubble burst and became a drop. In fact, there is not much difference between a drop and a soap bubble, everything is the same.
The problem of the narcissist is that he thinks everything to the ideal maximum, which gives rise to despair in him and only one course of action. In fact, there is an infinite variety of other options between minimum and maximum, and there is no despair there. The proud man rests his horns on two extremes, and is desperately afraid of falling into the abyss of an infinite variety of other options.
The external power of idols can be used for selfish purposes of pride and to the detriment of the universal. The inner force, which is much greater than the external force, can be used only by pacifying one's pride to serve universal goals and love.
Narcissistic pride, obsessed with a sense of omnipotence and power, at some point deflates like a soap bubble, and begins to go crazy from contempt for myself, powerless and full of paranoid fears. Emptiness against the background of fullness seems terrifyingly unable to come to terms with itself, a person begins to think about suicide and falls into the slavery of vices.
Narcissistic pride is a situation where a person puts on a mask of his ideal self and pretends not to be himself. Everything is better with the mask. The mask has superpowers, the mask is omnipotent. A person begins to personify himself with a mask and seeks to forget his real self. One day the mask burns out from excessive stress or resentment, after which the person, becoming himself again, cries – I can't live like this, I don't want to be myself. This gives rise to suicidal thoughts.
Do you think I want to save you? Do you think I'm a savior? The one who is the devil? No, I don't want to save you. I am interested in getting to know you, it is interesting to gain new experience and knowledge. I'm also interested in excitement and victory over what's killing you. For me, this is a game and entertainment.
The source of suicidal thoughts is happening from the fact that a person despises himself and reality. A person cannot reconcile with himself and the world. A person gets used to the regime of psychostimulation, superreality, super-ego, energy busting, and after that, returning to the real world to his present, a person cannot survive this and longs for death.
Chronic stress breeds chronic depression. The opposite is also true. Running away from chronic depression, a person unconsciously creates reasons for stress to cheer up.
A depressed patient falls into despair and delusions of persecution. Especially the ideas that I was corrupted, jinxed, stole my strength and joy, and everything like that prevail.
The most important source of resentment and frustration of a narcissistic idol is that they choose not him, but some other person, a gray mouse, etc. The narcissist pathologically believes that only he can be loved and chosen.
A narcissist is a person with a morbid conceit, greedily wanting to be loved only by him and no one else. Such a person is jealous and believes that cheating on him is some kind of particularly terrible crime. The thirst for absolute power drives the narcissist crazy.
The greater the narcissistic pride, the more this person is vulnerable to expectations and resentments. Painful expectations, resentments, injustices, betrayals, conflicts, feelings of guilt literally shake the life of this person.