A fool always complains of fate, forgetting that it is foolish to blame fate when it is his own fault. Fate greatly resents the fool for unjust accusations and forces him to carry water until he repents and admits his guilt.

You can justify anything to blame too... That is why any excuses and accusations are a waste of time.

When  you're  under  chorus  of  allegations,  no  need  to  kneecap  them  all,  remember  the  first  and  main  one,  ignore  the  rest.  When  the  flow  of  accusation  will  weaken,  kneecap  the  first  one.

Suspecting  your  own  self  of  the  most  awful  mistakes  can  drive  to  an  abyss  of  forlornness... 

In  order  to  be  saved... 
-  do  not  believe  these  absurd  accusations...  you're  impeccable  and  there's  no  one  but  yourself  who  knows  it  better  than  anyone  else. 

Excuses and accusations are always lies.

By holding back the energy of anger and converting it into other useful activities, you will forget what lack of energy is.

I don't see much difference between excuses and accusations.

"The thief and the cap burns" in the sense that fear is a sign of Vice. The virtuous have nothing to fear, and sinners are full of paranoid fears and begin to fear even the most foolish fears and accusations.

Reject  wild  accusations  as  being  impossible.  Everything  you  do  not  have  faith  in  is  impossible.

Emotional  reaction  showing  perplexion  and  followed  by  a  bunch  of  not-so-coherent  words  is  a  great  response  to  accusations  of  lying.

The best excuse is to accuse the opponent of all mortal sins.

Most liars consider themselves very honest people, and any accusation of lying upsets them very much.

Unfounded accusations are like naked women-shameless, everyone likes and is ready to reproduce.

It is better to admit ignorance on your own than to be accused of ignorance by outsiders.

Public advice given in the presence of outsiders is very similar to insults and reproaches.

Everything  that  helps  you  achieve  your  goal  is  useful.  There`s  often  a  great  desire  to  quarrel  and  fall  into  a  conflict,  but  this  distances  you  from  achieving  your  goals.  From  this  point  of  view,  I  recommend  you  to  refrain  from  conflicts,  offences  and  mutual  accusations,  even  if  you  really  want  to.

Stupid suspicions and accusations you put people in an awkward position, making, thereby, enemies and unnecessary problems.

Narcissists are suspicious.  Those who praise them, they suspect of insincerity, and all the accusations against them are considered unfair and offensive.

Diogenes was accused of public onanism, but Diogenes ' onanism was an accusation of people's pride and complacency.  Masturbation is an ode to human vanity and boasting.  People are proud of things and pleasures, which, in essence, is public masturbation.

Anything that can be explained is joyful.  Anything that cannot be explained creates pain, accusing us of stupidity.  Blaming oneself for ignorance is terribly painful.

What is fear?  The accusation!  How to escape from fear?  Not to admit guilt.  Tell yourself I'm innocent and the fear will recede.

Chaos and the devil called themselves order.  The devil wants to be perfect and seeks overkill.  The real one  The order was charged  The devil in imperfection and called a lie.

The situation with gaslighting is the consequences of suspiciousness and fears that generate an additional reality, in which reality and hallucinations are mixed.  The victim of gaslighting sees and feels something negative, which begins to blame his partner.  Some of these accusations are true, some are logical, some are suspiciousness and hallucination.  The partner clings to false accusations and, emphasizing them, aggressively attacks his victim with the help of gaslighting.

Truth is Extension, and therefore limitation.  Focusing on something for a long time, we are forced to abandon many other things.  In this sense, truth is very similar to falsehood and idolatry.  Only the right to freedom of love and will Saves the truth from such accusations.

Do not judge and you will not be judged.  Blame another person for something, and he will certainly blame you in return.  You will say that you are innocent and the accusations against you are unfair, but it is not so.  You are guilty of the sin of pride, you think yourself a judge.

Lying is a provocation, so there is no point in believing fears and false accusations.

A victim of workplace mobbing is persecuted through spreading rumors of her incompetence.  Accusations of uselessness and inability to work are typical.  The victim is deprived of work assignments, she is not informed about work plans.  A person practically loses the ability to perform their duties. 

A victim of mobbing under a hail of accusations and gaslighting can lose faith in himself and give up, admitting himself to be a good-for-nothing nonentity.  The victim begins to blame himself.  On the other hand, an interesting question is to blame others badly, to blame oneself badly.  Who to blame?  That's right, no one.  Do not judge, you will not be judged. 

The proud are greedy and impatient, and their lust for power is expressed by accusing others of being slow.  Waiting is a source of pain for the proud man, so he is full of righteous anger, aggression and resentment.

The relationship of victim and persecutor is the same as that of slave and master, idolater and idol, child and parent.  To get out of this relationship, you need to become an adult, that is, an independent person.  You also need to throw out of your life criticism, resentment, self-pity, accusations, promises, excuses, pity, the idea of salvation, the thirst for love and ideality.

One of the nasty traits of an alcoholic is the development of delusions, especially delusions of jealousy and abuse of a partner in marriage.  However, delusional ideas are diverse, accusations can be absolutely any.

Loving   yourself   does   not   mean   making   yourself   a   sacred   cow.   Being   a   cow   is   love.   Turning   yourself   into   a   super-value   is   also   not   love,   but   delirium   and   a   symptom   of   schizophrenia.   Self-love   is   expressed   in   resentment,   accusing   other   people   of   neglecting   the   illustrious   person   and   lack   of   attention.   How   is   this   different   from   narcissism?

A man likes to accuse a woman of all sorts of nonsense.  This must be stopped in yourself.  All the accusations of a man against a woman are the accusation of a child against a mother, that is, bullshit.  I don't have enough love, you don't love me right, you don't give freedom to parrots, you limit my doses of drugs, you prevent my vices from making me happy and all that.  All this should be viewed with contempt.  A woman by definition can not be wrong, so it is arranged.  Women's intuition is a perfect quantum computer.  And all that a man whines about is the manipulation of a child.  Therefore, we do not accept anything.  Do not accept on principle.

A male addict inevitably turns his woman into a drug, and then two scenarios are possible.  He either howls and whines that he doesn't have enough of the drug and she doesn't love him enough.  Or to this is added aggression and accusations that it prevents him from being happy, limiting his pleasures.  What to do?  Do not take his whining to heart, and when he is rude or crying, mentally beat him.  The bottom line is that his virtual sufferings need to be limited to real causes.

Most of the family conflicts can be reduced to jealousy and greed.  A man is an egoist, he is a drug addict, or howls that he has little pleasure, Lubo, having received what he wants, is fed up with his woman and begins to run after other women, while accusing his woman of interfering with his happiness.  Such accusations are expressed in constant complaints, criticism, inattention and neglect.

When a man reproaches a woman with commercialism, he must be prepared for a retaliatory accusation of lustfulness.  Answer yourself, Why do you need a woman?  You can wonderfully love her platonically by watching a picture on the internet.  But no, the illusory joys of an onanist are not enough for you, you need real and pure energy of sex.  So a woman needs real energy, not your infantile masturbation.

First, the neurotic invents suffering and its perpetrators, and therefore tries to take revenge by inflicting suffering on his fictitious offenders.  Moreover, insults are very much rationalized, leaving no doubt about the guilt of the accused.  The neurotic fancies himself a righteous judge, fighting for the cause of Justice. 

Hula occurs  from his pride, which accuses his neighbor of pride.  Proud people love to blaspheme the reflection in the mirror and their neighbors for pride.  Another reason for blasphemy is envy and jealousy.

Narcissists are useful, because their suspiciousness and paranoid schizophrenia is very touchy and likes to blame people for what they did not do, and this, as Buddhist texts teach us, is a direct path to development and perfection.

The essence of radical forgiveness is the denial of lies.  Why can't they forgive each other?  What is the essence of their accusations?  They cannot forgive the lack of self-love.  It seems to them that they are not enough and wrongly loved.  They need love nerialno ideal, and to real love they have big claims.

You ask " why?"  They give you a reason, and you look at that reason and you don't understand.  This reason is small, like a mouse from a fairy tale  About the turnip.  You begin to accuse people of stupidity that they turned such a small reason into a super-value.  You're very hurt, you think it's unfair.  You are an ignoramus and a fool, you have forgotten that the catalyst is the last cause that has overflowed the cup of patience, it is the hundredth and thousandth cause, it is the tail of causes, in the place of which there could be any reason.  The real reason is a huge multicellular monster whose tail you managed to notice.

Learn to find your strengths in your shortcomings.  Your shortcomings are laughed at, it hurts your self-esteem if you are a fool, but if you are smart, you will find your dignity in it.  Imagine, I was laughed at and insulted a lot.  However, I picked up all the insults and turned them into virtues.  I have been called a naked King, Captain Obvious, a clown, a liar, an ignoramus, a ridiculous visionary, a devil, a heretic, a sinner, an idiot, a vain prideful, a scoundrel, etc.  It was said that in the book  Variothoughts a lot of water, a lot of excess.  They said:  "Your creations are redundant, paradoxical, imperfect, defragmented and unstructured, like nonsense and heresy."  I turned all these accusations into my pluses.  I really appreciate and am proud of every minus. 

The offended is always the accuser.  The offended one complains and blames.  For the fullness of the fall, he still needs to justify himself and tell about his innocence.  Remember, a decent person, does not complain, does not accuse and does not justify himself.

The task of the psychologist is to free a person from unnecessary doubts, unjustified feelings of guilt and shame, painful self – accusations, uncontrolled anxiety, illusory debts, false judgments and unreasonable impulses.  The point is to calm a person down and help him put his thoughts and desires in order.

The accusations are senseless and unfair.  The accuser himself is guilty of the same sins as the accused.  The accuser, accusing the accused, accuses himself.  The accuser accuses the mote in the wrong eye.  The only point of this procedure is to divert attention  from the log in his own eye.

Unsolicited advice is an insult and an accusation of stupidity and imperfection.

Healing   from   neurosis   is   associated   with   self-love,   in   the   sense   that   it   allows   you   to   take   responsibility   for   decisions   made   without   blaming   other   people.   When   a   person   loves   himself,   he   can   easily   take   the   blame   on   himself   and   forgive   himself.

The example of Dr. House is a typical example of a neurotic.  There is a problem, other people are to blame for this problem, their ignorance, as well as inevitability and randomness.  We see a great reason for self-pity and blaming other people for their problems.  On the other hand, the problem generates Dr. House's personality, transforming that person into who he is, shaping his lifeline.

Self-accusation and blaming other people, that is, resentment, are two facets of one mortal sin, which is called Pride.  Proud people are very fond of blaming someone, being ashamed and suffering.