See the point. Having printed money, they created it from Nothing. Next, having conversed their form several times, they accumulated a huge amount of dead energy in the form of debts. Now it’s necessary to erase these debts and send them back to Nothing, thus finishing the money conversion cycle. It can be said that money was created from light, and if it is burnt now, it will become light again.
How much you earn doesn't matter. How much you owe doesn't matter. What you have doesn't matter ... only your height Matters... If you're growing up, then everything is fine.
The narcissistic person creates a system in which his victim feels like a creditor, and he feels like a debtor. Debt causes pain and fear. A person intuitively pays increased attention to the one who owes him or causes pain. Attention is Love, which is what the narcissist wants. Plus, in contrast to the pain of debt-the joy of paying off debts becomes especially narcotic.
You say you're owed. This is an act of aggression. Peace Is Love. Love gives everything that is asked of it, but aggression and negativity kill love, turning it into pride and anger. The world is good, but the thought of being owed will make your life hell. Yourself, too, try not to create debts, no one likes debtors. Take care of time, words, desires, etc.
I do not pay debts on principle. You don't have to lend me. Lending is pride, you are trying to corrupt me and cause me suffering. I do not want to take anything and lend. and I will not work without prepayment, money in the morning, chairs in the evening.
We do not work in debt, because we do not believe that someone owes us and do not want to demand debts later. To demand duty is pride, a source of suffering.
I don't like it when someone else's debts are imposed on me. Moreover, I choose which debts to pay, and which ones not. A person's free will allows him to choose what to serve. I have my favorite debts, and there are those for which I will not pay in principle.
Many people are very fond of bragging about how rich and successful they are, but when you have to pay a penny debt, you can't get snow from them in winter. Greed and lies are the reverse of boasting and Vanity. We, Of course, remember that a penny saves a ruble, and, knowing about the manner of these people not to pay bills, we recommend not to work with braggarts on credit. The more a person talks about his wealth, the more he has debts and defaults.
To stop suffering and find happiness, you need to rethink your debts. Part of the debt should be turned into money, and part should be removed altogether. Duty is a pointer to the desired, and these desires need to be revised.
Love is, on the one hand, a duty, and on the other, the forgiveness of debts. Tell me that I must love you, that is, I must serve you and forgive you, and instantly there will be a bust and all debts will self-destruct.
A worm on a hook in moderation can be taken, provided that this does not create retaliatory debts. You can not borrow anything. payment and interchange must occur immediately.
When you consider that a person owes you and ask him about it, then if he refuses or starts arguing, it will spoil his karma, provided that he recognizes this debt. If the defendant does not recognize the debt, it will not affect his karma.
The principle of "done, walk boldly" is that first you pay for the pleasure, and then you get it. The point is to avoid a system of debt and credit. Debt is bad, life on credit creates a lot of problems and suffering. More although the benefits of loans are illusory, everything they do is well done without them. There is no need for debt, the system works perfectly and without debt pits, loans, resentment and thirst for power. A proud man is a man who loves debt and being due, but the point of quelling pride is to drive moneylenders out of the temple of the human soul.
Many people just love to suffer, it seems to them that now all the people around them are obliged to compensate them for their suffering and therefore everyone owes them something. As for me, I do not recognize such debts. There is no cause for suffering except pride. Pride is a cunning that craves power and the word duty is for it an instrument of power. Suffering is a personal problem of a person, he craves power and therefore suffers. I quieted my lust for power and therefore quieted my suffering.
The words "must" and "can" is quite interchangeable. You say that you owe something, but I see that most of your debts are some kind of fantasy. One lady was going on a date and believed that before a date she should definitely shave her legs. Why should I? You can shave, but you can not shave. Do as you like and as convenient. Keep it simple.
Pride speaks of some very large debts. To pacify pride means to remove the zero from debts, reducing them tenfold. Real debts are very moderate, they can even be forgiven. Pride is bent under the weight of the huge word "must." Pride is Sisyphus, whose huge stone that he rolls uphill, is the word must.
Working on credit is a punishable and dangerous sin of greed. However, this is a very profitable mode of operation. How to combine business with pleasure? Do not accumulate large debts. If the debt is too big, write off half. Know that the greater the debt, the greater the debtor's right not to pay it. Do not consider your work as work in debt, consider that you are doing good and throwing into the water, and the payment for it is a gift from God, which may or may not be.
You can get rid of the vice by saying: "I don't want to pay for Vice." Yes, I want Vice, but the price does not suit me. I love my pleasure, of course, but not to the point of paying too much for it. It's Vice that wants me to pay for it. Paying for Vice is not my desire. I don't want to pay for Vice. Vice says: "You owe me," and I answer vice.: "Go to hell, I don't owe you anything. I declare myself bankrupt and cancel all debts."
There are no debts, all calculations occur instantly here and now. On the other hand, duty is and the idea of duty is hope. However, one should understand the nature of hope. Hope is as small as a grain. Hope is opportunity and free will. The greater the hope, the greater the pride and lust for power, which removes it from reality.
The greater the debts and financial losses of a person, the more he is drawn to compensate for these losses by miracles, crimes, lotteries, gambling and all that sort of thing. A sense of Duty generates antisocial personality disorder and dependence.
Alcoholics, drug addicts and other slaves of Vice are people with an inflated sense of Duty. Unpaid debt breeds shame and fear. Overkill of debt makes debt unbearably heavy and generates denial of debt. These people hate debt, and drug illusions offer them salvation. duty and the shame it brings. Salvation lies in the realization that debt is good, but it must be small. Large debts are debts of greedy pride, which should be devalued, that is, turn the fire into the fire of a candle or hearth.
Why such debts? Well, you don't pay them, they accumulate. You love being a hero. Paying a lot at once, then you say: "Look What a hero I am, I demand love and adoration. I want gratitude and preferably more!"
Proud people do not like the word " must." A proud man is a slave to passion. They are ready to spend any money on their entertainment and pleasure. For passion, they do not regret anything. But they do not like to pay for anything that does not arouse passion in them. As a result, debts grow and generate fear and hostility. They hate everything they owe something to. They hate their debts, against the background of which passions, which take a lot of money, become even more brilliant. "I don't owe anyone anything." "it is the pet idea of pride, which neglects everything where there is no passion.
Why are they so tired? Greedy pride is very heavy, and a horse is very stupid. Fears and debts are very heavy. Why did they load the horse like that? Why do they want the best? Why are they torn to perfection? Envy, envy, and Vanity. I want it better, I want it no worse than others. I want to be perfect, and suddenly someone will think that I am not perfect, it will be a shame. Pride cannot bear the feeling of shame.
The proud are not given happiness, because happiness is the service of one's duty. However, the proud hate the sense of duty and debt, because they already owe a lot to their vanity, pride and vices. Enslaved by such debts, they blame the word "debt" for everything, but forced to pay suffer and howl until their teeth are gnashed. Obviously, there is not much happiness in the service of such duties.
As for debts, you should know that debts are different. Most religions condemn interest on debts, so all debts related to interest can not be paid with a clear conscience. More moreover, since usury is a sin, it is generally possible to pay usurers nothing, not even the principal debt. Therefore, to someone who wants more from you than you should, you can apply the thesis: he wants a lot, he will receive little. Greed should be subdued by greed.
Debt is bad. God Is Love, And Jesus drove the moneylenders out of the church. Therefore, when someone talks about the debt of love and says "You owe me", it creates a loss of love. Love is always voluntary. You can ask, but you can not demand and even more offended.
He shouldn't be doing all this. He can do it, but he shouldn't. And no one can force him to be something proper. To impose debts is pride. If a person does not want to pay a debt, he has the right not to pay this debt. You, in turn, have the right not to lend him anything. it is said, Do Good and throw him into the water. Moneylenders were expelled from the church.
The most important desire of the narcissist is the desire for independence and independence. Narcissists can not stand to be indebted to someone and the feeling of duty for them is extremely painful. Tell Narcissus what he owes you and he'll immediately start throwing up. On the other hand, these people like to accumulate debts, not pay debts and then deny these debts. The narcissist really does not want to make commitments.
Fear is the product of law. The risk of breaking the law breeds fear. The problem is that there are many false laws created by human pride and Vanity. A man with the help of his parents came up with a bunch of crazy rules and debts, and now lives in chains of fear.
Fear gives rise to the word "must." But fear is not primary. Fear is a servant. The ideal begets the word "ought," and fear is the servant of the ideal, and defends its debts by requiring the slaves of the ideal to serve that duty. Guilt, shame, resentment, anger, aggression, external enemies and problems are all our favorite ideal. In general, if you have hemorrhoids, you should look at your ideals and the debts that they generate. The idol of ideals is the only source of hemorrhoids in our lives, and there are no sources of hemorrhoids other than ideals.
If you think that another person owes you something, then with a 99% probability you will never be happy. A person can only be happy within himself. Everyone has to do it himself. No one has the right to say that "should" near. When everyone is focused on his" must " comes the common good. When people begin to impose their duty on other people, there is general chaos. Duty is a personal concept, everyone has their own duty.
Family therapy is a procedure of mutual combustion and mutual settlement of grievances. Each side has a lot of grievances that generate enormous pressure. In such a mutual over-crediting, it would be useful to eliminate all debts by offsetting.
What does it mean to forgive a grudge? This means writing off the debt. And usually debts are written off using the netting method, but it also happens unilaterally. Resentment is a duty, that is, the conviction that the offender owes something. Resentment requires compensation, revenge and repayment of debt, then it promises forgiveness. Thus, resentment is usury.
Resentment is cunning and treachery. Resentment is a cunning way to forget all your sins, forgive yourself all your sins and shift them to another person. When the level of one's own sins goes off scale and the debt becomes unbearable, the debtor finds a reason to be offended by the creditor and, accusing him of all mortal sins, thereby forgiving all his sins. In this sense, we need to closely monitor the level of our external debts. It's very dangerous when you owe a lot. Avoid debtors, they are extremely touchy.
In general, if a person is offended by you and believes that you owe him something, and you do not agree with this, then the only reasonable strategy is to send this person to hell with all his claims. In general, the system of debts and loans is inherently flawed. Jesus and Muhammad rebuked the moneylenders and drove them out of the temple.
You say you owe a lot? So you are a creditor and you have a lot of debtors who owe you a lot? This is a very dangerous situation. Debtors are touchy. When the debt becomes too heavy or you just don't want to pay it, a person prefers to find a reason to be offended by you, accusing you of all mortal sins in order to find a reason to forget about all their sins and guilt. Resentment and hatred are a great tool to rid yourself of feelings of guilt and remorse.
Our only chance of salvation is mutual forgiveness of sins. There are no other hopes and there can be no other hopes even in theory. The number of our mutual insults, sins and debts is incompatible with life. I propose to forget everything and start life from scratch.
Conflicts in the family are fine. Conflict is like a cure for constipation. Everyone has to fuck up to relieve their tension. More Moreover, when relations come to a standstill because of mutual insults, they need to be destroyed. Conflict and destruction is a way of renewal and zeroing of all debts. Death forgives all our sins and offenses. After that, you can start the next relationship with a clean slate.
Syntalism believes that only total forgiveness can save us all. People are monsters. Every person's sins have exceeded all permissible limits. Sins are like debts. In the name of the common good, we must forgive each other all debts and sins, this will save us all. Either everyone or no one is saved at once.
They say that old debts need to be paid in full. The bastards are lying! Old debts are depreciated by time and eventually completely forgiven. And those who remember old debts, let them poke out their eyes and fall into hell.