Dependent persons are very clingy and persistent in their attachment. But this is not disinterested affection, these people are looking for those who will take care of them according to their ideas of their value. If you pay attention to such a person, he will pounce on you with a full set of demands and grievances.
Remember, sacrifice is not an exchange of "you to me, I to you," but a gift of yourself to your dream. Sacrifice is a sign of joy, the words " I love you sincerely and unselfishly."
Love is the unselfish gift of lying. Love is not cheating, it brings the joy of illusions and all the smart people know it's a lie, but accept it for the happiness of love. Fools, they are idealists, are so naive in their love that they consider love to be the truth and demand reality from it. – Why are you lying to us?" – In anger shouting fools, shuddering whether from rage or from pain... "Because I am a lie and an illusion," says love.
Gifts are that which is given freely, that is, completely unselfishly. Gifts happy. If the gifts imply some kind of response, except for joy and gratitude, it is not gifts, but bribery and bribery.
The selfish run after the dream, wishing to possess it, and the dream runs away from them in fear. To those who love her unselfishly and tenderly, she begs for hands.
The only way to receive joy from love is complete indifference and unselfishness to it. Love wants freedom, your desire to possess it will turn it into a devil.
Women want to be loved selflessly and the way they want to love their children who behave themselves and don't make them upset. This desire is their vice... blind love for children turns them into vicious monsters. The same will happen to a woman who is loved blindly. If providence wanted a man to love a woman blindly, it would make it this way. Just the way it makes a man love her blindly at the stage of falling for her, however later it switches off this mode due to its serious danger for living.
Within itself, idealism resides in fear and the feeling that no one loves it and therefore reacts very sensitively to respect, friendliness and love. Especially if they are selfless and do not commit to anything.
Greed is pride, lust for power, pleasure, and money. A source of lies and fear. Unselfishness is the love and humility of pride, the source of courage, honesty, and strength.
To the idol (Narcissus) if he wants power over you, he must be rejected. An idol is not very interested in dominating someone who already loves it. The idol worries that it is not loved, and tries to do everything possible to be loved. Having achieved love, he is happy for a while, and then loses interest.
Output: in order for Narcissus to love you for a long time, you should restrain his power over himself and lower his self-esteem. Or, alternatively, to love him humbly and selflessly, as a mother loves her son.
Service To God it is an act of selfless self-sacrifice, in the sense that you do not need from God pleasure, joy, any actions... to Wish from God that he gave you a candy, stroked your head, threw miracles ... this is a thirst for power over God. Do you really think you can control God?
The devil thinks that having reached a certain ceiling, let's call it 666 hours of service to his love, he has now become perfect and no longer needs to be served, but, on the contrary, must be served. The devil is a metaphor for the husband who ran-ran after a woman, and then said ... enough of running after you, I have already won you, now you serve me. A person who is truly in love will serve indefinitely, without falling into complacency and without spreading demagoguery that he is better than others, or that someone owes him something, or that he has earned something here. The devil demands a reward. True service is infinite and unselfish.
An idol is a narcissistic person who wants very much to be loved, and this love is chronically not enough for her. They seek pure selfless love, forgiving and demanding nothing in return. In a word, they are looking for God, while man himself is a metaphor for pride. To receive divine love from a person does not work.
Your mission in life is what you love and for which you are ready to selflessly give your time and life. The mission of life is something for which it is not a pity to sacrifice your rest time and money.
Your desire to be good and perfect turns you into a monster. The mechanism is as follows: you pretend to be good for someone, and in return you demand that they pretend for you. Your desire to be good is not selfless, but it turns into a desire for power over everything you try to be good about.
They don't just do things for you, they crave power. They demand in return that you love them... and love in their understanding is a service of the type when they rule, and you selflessly and implicitly obey them.
They like to help people selflessly. It flatters their ego. However, the more they admire their own perfection, the more they despise other people. They especially despise those whom they help more than others.
Give the proud man free (cheap) more love in limited quantities and they will become addicts. Proud people are pathologically greedy. Once an addict feels pleasure, he will not be able to tear himself away from it. Greed will confuse his mind and he will be willing to pay any money for it.
You can't expect a reward. Waiting for a reward is pride. Virtue is unselfish. An attempt to manipulate the host to beg for a reward leads to the exact opposite result.
Are you looking for peace? You will find peace in love. Love is selfless service, an act of faith directed toward the hope of joy. If one day you succeed in pleasing the one you love, joy will reward you with divine delight.
Love is like I massage my wife's feet. I don't want anything from her, but she likes it. I'm glad she likes it. I don't need sex from her, I don't need attention or love. I don't really want to do this at all, but she asks, she likes it..." I think...
A sense of duty should be treated as a sense of Honor. A great honor to one who has a sense of Duty. When a person has an inner selfless sense of Duty, such a person is beautiful, and everyone loves him.
The system of idols and idolaters cannot be destroyed, and it does not need to be destroyed, but it is necessary to reduce the degree of these relations, and this. dilute the heat and wine The idolater needs to love and overestimate the idol less, and the idol needs to crave worship and attention less. The idol should be given warmth unselfishly, and the idolater should love the idol unselfishly. The sun should be loved, including at night, in winter and in bad weather.
A selfless hero who does good and throws it into the water is certainly a good person. However, I have a question, and from whom this good person steals energy to give it away for free. That is, this Robin Hood steals from those who have a lot and gives to freeloaders, corrupting people. And he is happy to steal, because this is adrenaline addiction. And it is joyful to give it to him, because everyone loves you and you are such a virtuous hero.
To love for money is prostitution. A prostitute must earn the money of the one who pays for his services. Any person who works not for unselfish love, but for selfish greed, is a prostitute, so he must slavishly obey his master and follow his instructions as accurately as possible. Of course, the law protects prostitutes, but this is not the all-powerful law of love, but the law of pride. The law of pride is a contract to sell the soul to the devil. This is a beautiful contract and the devil will be a good angel until man in his ignorance decides to deceive him. A very foolish idea to deceive the devil.
Serving limited purposes is low. Real people serve lofty, impossible, and impracticable purposes. Goals that cannot be captured. Common goals. The hero who sacrifices himself to his feat is joyful. This is a feat of selflessness and self-sacrifice. Joy is pure energy. High goals turn people into angels and grant them wings.
If you look at the difference between God and The Devil, You will find that the devil is an inside-out God. God Is Love, The Devil also wants love. However God is the love that loves unselfishly, and The Devil demands that you love him unselfishly. At the same time, The Devil abuses love and does not want to pay for it.
Nothing is impossible, on the other hand, everything is impossible. Everything is impossible, but there is always hope for a miracle. Miracle loves courageous, selfless and loving people.
To maintain balance, a person must serve something, and it must be absolutely selfless love without thirst for power and hope for reciprocal love. Unselfish love is where a person only gives, love, where a person is a servant of God, a slave of love. It can be love for God, an idol, a child, an idea, society, charity and good deeds. Such love should not take up more than 10% of resources. Such love is the source of magic, luck, strength, happiness and bliss.
The secret is that you have to solve your problems by someone else's hands, trusting and relying on people and Providence. You need your knowledge and competence to, following your sense of Duty, solve the problems of those who ask you about it. Ideally, other people's problems should be solved selflessly, doing good and throwing it into the water. In reality, you can just do your job well and honestly.
If you love life, then love is a sense of duty. You must fulfill your duty to life. Serve your duty, in this case there is a chance that fate will fulfill its duty to you, fulfilling your desires. However, one cannot demand duty and one must fulfill one's duty with joyful selflessness, demanding nothing in return.