What are you afraid of? Are you afraid that the future will fail you, and so you don't trust it in return? Think about how the future relates to your own expectations. You create your own expectations, you fulfill them yourself by performing an act of faith. Who exactly do you not trust, not yourself?
Pain, fear and anger are generated by expectations that have not been fulfilled. Were you expecting something?" Tell me, why did you crave power over the future? Are you proud?
To free yourself from expectations of the future, tell yourself: "I'm long dead, I have no future and nothing to look forward to. I'm not even afraid of death."
And you will turn your divination and soul-suffering into a gamble. And, accordingly, treat the result and expectations not with fear, but with excitement.
You live in anticipation of the terrible, but the truth is that your whole life is a trial, and you are a defendant. The meaning of your life is to prove your innocence.
What is waiting? Pride, a thirst for control over the future, idealism and an attempt to force reality to follow its ideal patterns, a thirst for power over reality. Do you think you're the devil?
The essence of pride... a disregard for what is and a thirst for what is not... and an obsessive demand from the environment of compliance with some of their expectations.
Since the Proud do not like the process, but are focused on the result, it is very difficult for such people to live. With horror, the proud are waiting for a new day and with heaviness they remember the days that have passed. The life of these people is not joy, but the expectation of death. The meaning of pride's life is to die.
If you didn't try to own, you wouldn't have expectations, and then you wouldn't be hurt that you weren't allowed to own... Do not build expectations, do not try to seize the future. Again, having received a refusal, do not be upset, for the thing is not yours. Why are you upset that you were not given what is not yours? Everyone has the right only to what he was given, but not the right to what was not given... If you haven't been given,... you have no right to be offended... you have no right… Repeat to yourself.
The world finds it hard to live up to the expectations of idealists. The expectations of idealists are heavy and unattainable, so gradually the world accumulates fatigue, and then it runs away.
You can't expect a reward. Waiting for a reward is pride. Virtue is unselfish. An attempt to manipulate the host to beg for a reward leads to the exact opposite result.
Anxiety and the expectation of fear are the cunning and self-defense of the cowardly mind, which wants to prepare for fear. When the real fear happens, the consciousness will breathe a sigh of relief and say: "I knew it." Consciousness is cowardly and afraid that fear will violate its comfort zone and post-traumatic shock will occur. This should be realized and it should be concluded that the sheepskin is not worth it.
Anxiety is generated by expectations, whether good or bad. How to get rid of expectations? Focus on now? To realize that there is only now, and the future does not exist. No matter what comes. You need to focus on what is coming. In any case, you can not hold the outgoing. Ask yourself: "What can I do now?" And do it.
Better to wait for the carrot and get the carrot than to wait for the carrot and get the stick. But is the best good? I come up with a trick, I wait for the carrot, but when the stick comes with satisfaction, I say: "I knew it." Other times I hope for the best but prepare for the worst
You are waiting for pain and are afraid of this pain in advance. Expectations are excruciating. Be cunning. Imagine that all your troubles have already happened. Now that all the pain is over, what have you to fear? Now rejoice, you have nothing more to lose. You took away from your fear and suffering 90% of their time, which you would have spent waiting for pain.
In the process of life, the proud conclude that you can not trust people and friends. This is because pride devours pride. The motives of the proud are lust for power and pleasure, greed, greed, lust, etc. The proud want too much. The expectations of the Proud do not correspond to reality. Not having received the expected, the proud conclude that no one can be trusted.
Expectations and inconsistencies are all the result of lust for power and pride. Pride is greedy, hasty and deceitful, therefore all its expectations are overestimated or underestimated.
A person living in expectation is a person living in a queue. In fact, it is a slave to endless hunger. Hunger constantly makes this person want something and run somewhere.
Waiting for a miracle kills a miracle. Waiting is violence. Expectation should be replaced by a small and unshackled hope. The miracle is strong in its surprise. Hope should be forgotten and let go, but as soon as you see it, surprised, remember it, rush with all your soul to it.
From everything you want, immediately subtract 38% or 62%, and then you will not be mistaken. Error is sin, sin breeds fear. High expectations are pride, pride is fear. By lowering your expectations (desires), you will pacify your fear, and your desire will be fulfilled with greater probability. You have to do with the wording, if it happens-it will be good, if it does not happen – it will also be good. One should desire without fanaticism.
Your expectations of the future it's like you're telling the future: "You must." You say "must"to God. "Must" it sublimates into aggression, lies and fear, and The Good God turns into the Evil Devil. Another name for fear is lies. To deceive the expectation of the Proud is the holy duty of The Devil.
The hard way and the easy way are the same in difficulty, but your expectations create a contrast. You hope for lightness and get heaviness. You expect heaviness and you get lightness. Consider all things heavy and rejoice in it, so you will attain lightness.
A woman, forcing a man to wait or refusing him, Awakens in him pride, that is, a thirst for power, that is, a desire to possess her, which a man feels as love and passion. For a similar purpose, a woman Angers a man, violates his boundaries and tries to control him.
All people lie... Our whole life is a lie. To take offense at a person for lying is vile pride. What is a lie? Disappointed expectations! But the very fact of expectations is already a lie and pride. Fair enough. You wanted to be deceived.
Having made a big wish, refuse all other small and big desires and joys. In order for the wish to come true, one should fast and patiently wait for the fulfillment of the desire, denying all other desires and joys.
A narcissistic man is capable of resenting everything in the world, but he is especially offended by the expectations associated with sex and love for him by a woman.
We do not wait for the good, we wait only for the bad. It's hard to live in anticipation of the bad, but it's joyful that we still live. And you will wait for the good-you will spoil the present. And it also happens like this: and now it's bad, and we don't expect anything good. So very bad.
Save me from impatience. Save me from expectation. Save me the rush. Save me from greed. Save me from temptation. Save me from lies and fear. In other words, Save Me from my own pride.
There is a balance of energy in the system. If a person gives a lot and quickly, then there will be a long period of low tide, insufficiency and hunger. That is, first this person overdoses and generates drug addiction, and then long periods of hunger, pain and depression.
Vices come from unjustified, that is, inflated expectations and hopes. There was a deficit of energy and joy, which urgently needs to be filled with vices…
Striving for the ideal generates a lack of emotions. The problem is the inflated expectation. Waiting and not receiving emotions generates a need for compensation, which sublimates into a craving for vices.