I saw all kinds of people, and they were all monsters. Some monsters looked like Shrek and Fiona, others like princes and Kings, others like donkeys and peacocks.
To combat the inferiority complex, you are offered as a mantra to repeat "I am beautiful, good and perfect," but I advise you to do everything the other way around. Tell yourself: "I am not perfect, for the ideal is an illusion." Believe me, I'd rather be Fiona than a princess. The torment of the princess on the pea truly unbearable.
Each creature should have a pair, but where is my creature? We are all monsters, but your sin is hypocrisy and lies. You think you're a princess (though you turn into a monster at night) and you despise monsters. Love your Shrek, and love yourself. To become yourself is to become Fiona. Shrek and Fiona are a model of a happy family.
The reason for all your failures in life is that you think you are a princess, denying yourself Fiona. Become yourself, love Fiona and you will find your Shrek.
The ideal is Fiona, and the princess is a lying, hypocritical monster who calls herself an ideal. The princess is monstrous, she sometimes prays to the mirror, then threatens or tries to dominate him.
A woman should realize that there is nothing terrible in a monster or Shrek. As there is nothing special about the perfect prince. In fact, all these characters are identical. Sometimes it may seem that a hypocritical and deceitful Prince, perfect on the outside and rotten on the inside, is worse than Shrek, but that's not true either. Pride and evil will have to be subdued in both the demon and the angel.
The most important problem of a woman is the desire to be a princess. A man who fancies himself a prince is also doomed to suffer. A man is Shrek, and a woman is Shrek. Fiona. Resigned with their natures, the two would be happy.
In the fairy tale "The scarlet flower" you will find the answer to how a man should behave in order for a woman to fall in love with him, who previously saw in him a narcissistic monster. At the beginning of the fairy tale, the man is monstrous, but then he gradually evolves into a quite decent Shrek.
A woman should stop being afraid of the monster. Indeed, a man is an evil sorcerer and a demon, but this demon can be tamed. A woman is also not an angel, a woman is a witch, these two are worth each other. Thus, if you stop engaging in hypocrisy and become yourself, this will be an occasion for mutual respect and pacification of fears. Indeed, why would a witch fear a demon, especially her own personal and tame one. Demons are good, they make idols of witches and worship them with pleasure.
The point of syntalism is that you don't have to lie and pretend to be people. You need to take off your mask and become yourself. We're not human, we're all monsters. We're all Shreks and Fions, and there's nothing wrong with that. A cute monster is no worse than a fake wooden idol mask.
A real man looks like Shrek. He is kind in appearance, but his inner monster is scary in anger. A real woman looks evil and cynical, but a kind soul lives inside her. This couple expresses harmony when both sides are in mutual respect.
Shrek and Fiona are an excellent example of a non-toxic family, where a woman got rid of her image and was sincerely able to defeat a monster, scary on the outside, but kind on the inside.
We can say that man is a kind monster. I'm a monster, but kind and cute, like Shrek or the monster from the fairy tale about the Scarlet Flower. An evil person becomes from the fact that no one likes the monster, is afraid of it and is aggressive. From such injustice, a person has to hide or deny his monster under the mask of a lie.
I look at the world and see how narcissistic men crave superiority and power over women. I see how no less narcissistic women fiercely crave power over men. All this is tedious and already tired. Syntalism offers a different scenario. Syntalism says that the game of angel and demon is morally outdated. Syntalism suggests playing demons and witches. Stop pretending to be dogs and sheep, we humans are monsters, and monsters demand mutual respect for each other.
Angels are ashamed to be bad, they think it's good to be good. Demons are ashamed to be good, they think it's good to be bad. As for normal people, they are like Shrek and Fiona. A normal person is a kind monster who is not ashamed to be good and not ashamed to be bad. A normal person knows that good and evil are good in their own way, everything has its place and time.
The meaning of Syntalism: turn all people into monsters. According to Syntalism, the real people are Shrek and Fiona. A real person is a kind monster. A good monster is not ashamed to be kind and not ashamed to be bad. Everything is good, both good and evil. Hypocritically fake people wear masks of demons and angels. Demons are ashamed to be good, and angels are ashamed to be bad. The meaning of Syntalism: break people's glass masks and let them be themselves.
The denial of a monster in itself makes the inner monster especially disgusting, and the outer form is sickly-mawkish and sweet. Humility with oneself makes a man look like a good Shrek, and a woman look like a good Fiona.
No one wants to admit that they are a pile of shit and a monster. It's stupid. Shit is life, Shrek and Fiona are cute. More Moreover, there is prudence and salvation in this from 90% of their suffering. A self-satisfied sense of one's own innocence is narcissism and pride, the only source of human suffering, resentment, illness and other hemorrhoids.
Having known the nature of man, I realized that man is a vile and vile monster. At first I hated and was afraid of man, but then I decided to love my enemy and additionally get to know him. Getting to know a person, I realized that the devil is not as scary as he is painted. A person looks like Shrek and Fiona, or a monster from a fairy tale. A scarlet flower. The monster, of course, is cruel and dangerous, but cute, and there is good in it.
Female neurosis is the division of consciousness into Fiona and princess. To heal from neurosis, you need to kill the princess in yourself and become Fiona. Fiona is a normal real woman, a princess is a crazy idea of a girl playing with dolls, loving dolls and impersonating herself with a doll.
The reason for women's love addictions is neurosis, and neurosis is the idea that I am a princess and I deserve the best. I am a princess, and I need an ideal, or I am a princess and I must be served. The best and ideal is the princess's idea of a prince or a slave. Healing from neurosis, this is humility with the real self, that is, self-recognition Fiona. When a woman comes to terms with herself, her ideal of a prince will be dispelled, and she will come to terms with a real man, a cute monster Shrek or a monster from the Scarlet Flower.
I believe that the goal of any family psychotherapy is family reunification based on the principles of equality and mutual respect. You need to destroy idols, princes and princesses to become Shrek and Fiona.
You seem to be abnormal and bad, but, in fact, you are normal. You're just a little girl, you're learning to live. All your conflicts and sufferings are an inevitable process of growth and knowledge of yourself and the world. You still want to be perfect, you're looking for the ideal. The point is to break the golden testicle and be content with the usual. The point is for the princess to turn into Fiona.
I see that the idol and the idolater are equally lying about their ideality and are afraid of exposure. These people are tense, there is no routine in them. Lying all the time is exhausting. Shrek and Fiona pretend to be a prince and a princess, neglecting the real ones.