Narcissistic personality is the flip side of the individual dependent and also as she is, needs attention, prone to phobias, lives in perpetual fear and prone to somatic diseases.
System "all because of you", "search for causes and enemies" is a means against phobias and fears. It is treated by personal growth and gaining inner strength. For fear is always weakness and immaturity.
In short, fear is an emotion, emotions need to be repressed and redirected. You also need to train your spirit. There are a lot of special exercises on this topic, ranging from mediation to hypnosis.
A phobia is when the person is not himself the object of fear fear, but a kind of illusory ideal way. Everything seen in the real world he compares with this perfectly terrible way and runs away from his illusion.
Fears and panic attacks associated with jealousy and love passion are no different from classic phobias and panic attacks, such as confined space or water. And, accordingly, are treated by reprogramming the subconscious by meditation and replacement of the conditioned reflex.
In the development of mental diseases such as psychosis, schizophrenia and paranoid phobias to blame parents, overcontrol depriving a person of freedom. The mind in search of freedom plunges into a world of schizophrenic paranoid fears and illusions.
Large fears can be broken down into little fears. For example, fear of the scene is divided into three fears: fear of the new, self-doubt (no self-belief) and phobias coming from the past and childhood (I recommend erasing).
The very first fear is the fear of death. There is nothing particularly bad about the fear of death as long as it remains within reasonable limits. However, it often grows to the point of producing phobias and paranoiac fears. Specifically, the fear of death is the root out of which all other fears grow. A tree has one trunk but many branches. There are fears of water, snakes, insects, rockslides, natural disasters, crowds, violence, attention and so on. First thing, you should overcome the fear of death. The easiest way to do that is to firmly believe that death does not exist or that there is reincarnation, the Garden of Eden…
A phobia is the main and true fear, but there are Triggers too. A trigger is what causes this fear. Triggers can appear and disappear and they are similar to the consequences of the main fear that is their cause.
Phobia this compound unconditional stimulus (pain) with harmless the outside stimulus. In fact, it is the same when harmless insects masquerade as predators.
A woman full of fears and phobias is quite compatible with a narcissistic man full of megalomania and pride. Peacock on the background of the chicken feels like a hero, master and protector, which significantly increases its self-esteem.
If during a dangerous situation to concentrate on the heart beats it guarantees you a phobia of heart disease. If your parents died of cancer and their death was a big experience for you, then you are provided with cancer.
Neurotics try hard to control themselves. At first they succeed, and then, as the water accumulates, the dam breaks, and phobias break out. So there is schizophrenia, paranoia, phobias and various somatic diseases.
To defeat the idols of fear, you need the fear of God. God is everything. We need to raise the overall level of fear. The fear of God is when you pay attention to reality. Fearlessness in one breeds phobias and paranoia in the other.
Fearlessness in one creates phobias in the other. From some fears we run, they grow and turn into phobias. We attack others... and, having won, we feel like heroes. This is strange, but, in fact, the characters are very cowardly, they have a lot of different phobias.
Fears come out of all the cracks when you need to distract attention from anxiety. Somewhere a person does not fulfill his purpose, does not meet his ideals. When illusions are very different from reality, this creates anxiety. Fears and phobias are one of the mechanisms for relieving anxiety.
There are three habits. The first is the deception of fear. Deception is passivity, escape, suspiciousness, phobias, avoidance, etc. the Second is courage, courage attacks fear. The third is humility with fear.
The very first fear is the fear of yourself and your own imperfection. Therefore, the fight against phobias is useful to start with humility with yourself. A person is ideal and perfectly adapted to the conditions, goals and tasks of his life.
You should understand the reason for your phobias and fears as a desire to attract attention and a thirst for love. The child lacked attention, and the child became hypertrophied to amplify their fears to attract the attention of the mother, trying to prove that his fears are real, and not fiction.
An idealistic mother, over-loving a child, causes him to get used to love. Habituation creates a feeling of lack of attention. In parallel, the mother inspires the child with the idea that he is perfect, raising him almost to the rank of an idol. Mismatch between the ideals of reality creates an inferiority complex and fear. Fear, mixed with a lack of attention, creates a great temptation to increase fears and diseases in order to attract the attention of parents and justify their imperfection with diseases and phobias.
A narcissistic domineering man, by suppressing his wife's personality, turns her into a dependent personality, a Ligt version of himself. Such a woman is passive, independent, extremely painful and suffers from phobias. In fact, this woman is very afraid of her husband and is constantly paralyzed by fear. In the absence of her husband, fear releases her, and she becomes a reduced but grotesque version of her first half.
PTSD is the fear of fear. A person experiences an unexpected strong fear or pain, which causes him to experience a panic horror of waiting for a repeat of such a situation. In fact, we are talking about a phobia of the future.
What is pleasure? Relaxation after exertion. One of the most important causes of phobias is the narcotic pleasure that a person experiences after an attack of fear or pain passes.
The most important symptoms are paranoia, phobia, fears, schizophrenia, hallucinations, suspiciousness, eternal doubts, distrust, procrastination. This person is surrounded by the enemy's real world, which is all going to war on him. This man despises the world, despises people. This is terrible stress ... these people are all sick, their health is terrible. Most likely, such a person will die from cancer, stroke or heart attack.
Vice is too much fun, which is very overheated CPU. A by-product of any Vice is fear. There is an overflow of fear and its sublimation into anger, laziness, attention deficit, procrastination, desire to escape, persecution mania, phobias, depression, contempt, negativism, desire to strangle and ...not enough for you?
The system is always balanced. By holding back the fear in one, you get a phobia in the other and fall into a paralysis of fear. The paralysis generated by the different strengths of fear is procrastination. Similarly, if your sources of fear and or pleasure become very limited. The situation creates a gap in consciousness, which again leads to fear, ... paralysis and procrastination.
Fear and phobia is a rabid dog. A dog is a friend of a person, it is useful. The dog should be put down. You don't have to kill the dog, because the dog has to protect you.
Phobia is a fixed skill of escape from fear and loss of immunity to fear. The more a person runs away from their fear and avoids it, the more their immunity to fear decreases. That is, it increases sensitivity. And the person becomes paranoid from this fear.
In fact, everything is treated if someone needs it. And phobias, and neuroses, and drug addiction would be treated if it was necessary. But when no one needs it, nothing is treated.
Phobias are treated with such difficulty, because phobias are extremely similar to drug addiction. See what the point is, fear creates a neurotic swing, and a person in the absence of fear is very happy to live. If you remove the phobia, the joy that it generates will disappear. Taking away a neurotic's phobia is like taking away a drug addict.
A person with a phobia will not be convinced that this is all nonsense, because he knows that fears come true. To conquer fear, it must be loved; love destroys the reality of fears.
Phobias need to be treated, not by defeating the phobias themselves, but by identifying exactly where a person is fearless and overly optimistic. Phobias are the result of suppressing some fears and sticking out others.
Habit reinforcement occurs through pleasant sensations. For example, you feel fear and run away from fear. The disappearance of fear creates joy. Congratulations, now you have a new habit (phobia). Another thing is interesting. Do you think you're afraid of fear? No way! Your passion and vice is too much love of pleasure and joy. You overestimate joy. Thus, to get rid of the phobia should fight not with fear, but with your lust and attachment to pleasure.
Cowardice stems from a love of pleasure and an overestimation of the value of joy and happiness. Cowardice has many names and is sublimation. For example, cowardice is pride, fears, phobias, lust for power, neurosis, idealism, narcissism, avoidant disorder, etc.
How to overcome fear? Fear needs to be conquered here and now, and it is conquered through focusing on current details and processes. Tomorrow's fear cannot be defeated. Tomorrow's fear is endless. Today's fear is limited and weak enough. All problems, phobias, panic attacks, anxiety of a person are associated with his pride and desire to defeat tomorrow's fear. Remember, the meaning of life is to live until tomorrow, but tomorrow will never come, because we live in the infinite today. Let go of your desire to control tomorrow, pacify 90% of your fears and anxieties.
From the fear of death and disappearance, claustrophobia arises, because you begin to feel dead, time and space add up to a point. Such phenomena often occur when idols are broken.