Learn to trust reality. Reality is a mother, even if she scolds the child, does not allow him to play or refuses sweets, this does not mean that she is bad. The mother loves the child and strives for its beauty. Limiting in one, it directs to another.
The fulfillment of the commandment "do not judge" should begin with the commandment "take Care of today's day". In other words, think about what good you can get out of the current situation. Everything is good, so look with great care for the good and admirable.
To learn to let go of what you can't hold... you must learn to say to yourself: "Everything happens as it should. I trust being. Everything is going according to plan. The universe loves and cares for me and therefore protects me from everything superfluous, and the trials only make me stronger."
Do what you must and be what you will… this is a metaphor for love. Love is the art of accomplishing the impossible. 38% you can do yourself, and leave the rest to hope and miracle. You can't do much, and that saves you from being complacent.
God is a source of energy that gives. The only question is what exactly and why it gives. God, who is love, gives energy to what is associated with love and fruitfulness. Love is energy, and the lover is the conductor of this energy to the real world.
God helps the one who is walking, because God is time. When a pilgrim to the Kingdom of heaven is ready to give all his time to the path of truth, then God miraculously gives him extra time. That way, what otherwise would take centuries, lovers have to overcome over the years.
When God sees human suffering, God wants to save a person, but the salvation of a drowning person is in the hands of the drowning person himself. A drowning man needs faith to save himself, and faith is the movement of his own hands and feet. God helps the walking, the crawling, but not the lying or running.
God is good and helps people who love him. Love is faith and hope. Faith is a movement, and hope is a goal. In this way, God helps the one who goes to the goal. Think of a goal, love it, and go on the road.
God is everything and God is good. God is love, love is trust. God loves man and trusts him, and that is why he gave man free will. In other words, a person has chosen all his suffering by himself, following the example of his own pride (greed, greed, thirst pleasure, etc.).
God is good because he allows you to kill yourself every second. God is time. Your whole life is an act of killing God, and you should be grateful to him for it. When you die, God gives you life. Having died for you, God wants you to live and be happy.
Of course, faith and love will save you, but faith is a movement and God helps the one who is walking. Are you already performing an act of faith? Where is your movement towards the expected and confidence in the unseen?