Narcissistic personality, understated self-esteem of close people, increases their self-esteem. Against the background of contempt for others, she seems very good to herself. In fact, we are witnessing an act of lust for power, and power is a great pleasure. After receiving a dose of pleasure, the addict falls into a phase of recession, where he tries to be good, atoning for his guilt.
The narcissist does not think of himself as a narcissist, but rather as a very good and unfairly wronged person. However, even if he sees his guilt, and falls into an inferiority complex-it does not change anything.
Men whose souls are filled with pride and narcissism are doomed to have big problems in the family, their wives will always be sick, and give them a lot of problems. As for children, there will be no special joy from children. However, proud and narcissistic women are not very happy either.
The narcissistic person can't stand being bad and craves love. If a child tries to be "I am good" all the time, he will begin to deny himself "I am bad". You can not praise the child all the time, you need to scold him periodically, otherwise an extremely sensitive person will grow up, dependent on external good attitude.
The narcissistic personality does not just want love, it wants love from special people, from those who are loved and respected. In perfect condition, Narcissus wants love from his reflection in the mirror. So the more self-satisfied Narcissus is, the more picky he is about those who love him.
The idol Narcissus sincerely wants love and is happy when it is loved, but if it is loved strongly and for a long time, over time it gets used to love and begins to treat the loved one with contempt. It is not enough for the idol of love, he is always hungry and wants someone special to love him.
High self-esteem is necessary in order to grow. Indeed, this situation generates pain and suffering, but they can be compensated for by the joy of growth. People with even self-esteem lose the ability to grow.