The essence of managing a neurosis is that you can come out of a neurosis or depression as a new person. You can be what you want to be. Everything will be as you want, if everything is done correctly.
Neuroticism is useful, the neurotic is able to concentrate his attention and love on his goal and fanatically serve it. Plus neurotics are vain, which makes them reference careerists, mad scientists and stars of show business. The only question is what exactly he will concentrate his love on.
Depression and neurosis are a great chance to change and become better. In fact, both depression and neurosis are two signals of varying degrees of anxiety that you need to improve and change for new goals and circumstances.
Neurosis is a situation associated with growth problems. The person does not understand what is happening, is afraid, tries to control the process, resists it. In some cases, it does not grow. And this problem. In others, it grows and turns into an unknown thing. Neurosis is not a disease, it does not need to be treated and feared, but it needs to be managed.
For the neurotic rituals are very important, they give them peace and joy. In dealing with a neurotic should observe the ritual of communication. Neurotics are very suspicious and touchy, once they feel a deviation from the script, they will be seized with anxiety and bitter resentment.
Neurosis always produces a split personality. By creating perfect images within, the mind is forced to piece them together. For example, one I - poor, other - good, or just one perfect partner no, need two or three to collect. Under each piece of the ideal is formed its semi-independent personality. Each personality of their own loves and hates, has its own preferences and tastes, usually in conflict and criticizes other personalities.
Freud saw the cause of neurosis in suppressed sexuality. Erickson – the inability to fulfill your destiny. Adler is in a lust for power that stems from sexual instinct. Still it is possible to say that neurosis is a discrepancy between his view of himself or a growth problem. In General, we can say that the definition of Erickson wider than all other ideas.
Allowing the child to sit on his hands for a long time, sleep with his mother, the mother concentrates it on his love and turns into a neurotic. Now, when a child is separated from his mother, he feels fear and anger. Now the child will be paranoid with delusions of vanity.
Neurotic need to treat accustom him to order, to loving yourself and your neighbors, to other businesses, Hobbies, sports, etc. Not be disturbed to allow to concentrate the love, you need to break it.
Neurotics like to start a lot, even more throwing, not bringing to the end. They are looking for the perfect love, but perfect in this world only their dreams.
"Neurosis" - a medical concept and" neuroticism " in psychologists are different concepts. Moreover, the concept of neurotic is outdated, and today is replaced by a gradation of 6 different cognitive personality disorders.
The tale of Ilya Muromets gives hope to all people who have lost a lot of time on entertainment, vices, entertainment, depression and depression. Blessed are the poor in spirit, because they are like a coiled spring that has been coiled for a long time. The energy stored in the point is enormous. Even our universe is said to have originated from a point. If the Genie is released from the bottle, he will be capable of miracles.
The lack of growth and movement leads to the release of energy, which can be accumulated by stretching, like a bowstring or spring. The stored energy can be used for explosive growth. To do this, you need to have a specific goal and avoid energy leakage. Fear and joy are radiators to release excess energy. In addition, the energy can leave through parasitic actions that are kind of calming. Any activity, including thoughts, leads to a drain of energy.
Black-and-white dichotomous thinking breeds obstruction. Man seems to lock himself on the border of these two environments. To gain freedom, you need to destroy everything and prove that the razor blade is an illusion of the mind. Black and white are one, and no different from each other.
This truth is the unity of potential and realized energy. Therefore, the less a person realized himself, the more potential energy remained inside him. Blessed are the poor in spirit, for their potential is enormous.
If the conscious mind does not take into account the interests of the subconscious in its actions and does not listen to feelings, this will provoke a great conflict and sabotage. If you lose contact with the subconscious, you will be left without the energy of love and inspiration. Laziness, apathy, fear, anger, neurosis and other delights of life will become your eternal companion.
Neurosis is the resistance or impossibility of change and growth. Nature encourages us to grow and change, but consciousness or external circumstances prevent this.
The perfect man is the master idealist neurotic. In fact, this is a terribly unhappy, burning in hell of eternal suffering. What do we know about him other than that his life is eternal hell? – We also know that he always pretends to be very smart and good and happy. That's terrible. When does he cry? - Usually when very drunk or at night.
Eine Person, die als Kind übertrieben geliebt wurde, hat es schwierig, eine gute Arbeit zu finden, denn sie denkt, alle müssen ihr Gefallen tun. Arbeitssuch ist niedriger ihrer Würde, sie denkt, die Arbeit wird ihr angeboten. Sie denkt, dass tut das Gefallen, wenn für jemand arbeitet. Aber nicht alle Arbeitgeber brauchen ihr Gefallen.
Seine ersten Gelder macht ein reicher Mensch mit Hilfe eines Zaubers im Spieleifer wegen der Ausgangslosigkeit. Das Kapital verdient zu haben, behält er einen Wunsch zu verdienen, wählt aber einen leichten Weg, das Geld nicht mit der Spende seiner Zeit und seines Kopfs, sondern mit seinem Kapital zu verdienen. Es ist ihm schade, seine Zeit auszugeben, denn er sehnt nach Vergnügung und Genuss. Bzw. auf einer tieferen Ebene die Zeit für etwas mit Reproduktion Verbundene zu spenden, z.B. Sex. Es bleibt ein leichterer Weg – das Kapital, es ist aber bange, das Kapital zu riskieren, er kann auch nicht, denn sein Geld wurde von der Zeit, nicht vom Kapital verdient. Die Situation gebärt Angst. Im Ergebnis kommt der nicht realisierte Wunsch hervor, und das, was ihn bremst. Alles zusammen bringt eine Neurose und Unzufriedenheit von der Seele, die zum Amoklaufen führen. Die Entscheidung ist leicht – auf Mängel zu verzichten und Zeit der Arbeit und Erkenntnis zu widmen, erneut das Geld mit Hilfe des Zaubers zu verdienen und dieses Geld für Schöpfung, Kinder und Sex ausgeben.
Mangel an Liebe zum Detail gebärt außerordentliche Verallgemeinerungen, die zu schwarz-weißem dichotomischem Denken führen, das Idealismus und Neurosen erzeugt, die Hölle und Paradies gebären, dabei Hölle und Leiden bleiben im Menschen, während Himmel und Glück in der Spiegelwelt und Träumen.
Manager haben daran zu denken, die Mehrheit der Leute Neurotiker sind (u.a. auch Manager selbst). Betrügen und enttäuschen Neurotiker ist sehr unerwünscht, denn danach verlieren sie Engagement, geraten in die Faulheit und Apathie, danach ist es äußerst schwierig, sie arbeiten lassen. Besonders schlecht beeinflusst es die Leute, in deren Arbeit sollen Initiative und Kreativität enthalten.
Ein Neurotiker-Idealist kann nicht für die arbeiten, die ihn betrügen. Wenn du nur einmal einen solchen Menschen betrogen hast bzw. seine Erwartungen missbilligen, wird er im Augenblick kaputt und sein KPI um 98% senkt.
Stille Schönheit ist tote Schönheit. Darum schließt die „Stadt der Toten“, u.a., Denkmale von der Architektur und Kunst ein. Bildhauerei, Architektur, Freskos, Malerei. Angst vor dem Tod gebärt Sozialneurosen und Tod selbst. Angst vor dem Tod gekämpft zu haben, werden Leute auch den Tod selbst siegen, damit die ewigen Seelen erhalten. Sieg über die Angst vor Tod begeistert Menschheit, um zu leben.
