An effort should be smooth and slow, no twitching. An abrupt push forward triggers a strong push backwards. The system is very inert and resists changing itself, so all efforts should be long and smooth.
Can space be compared to water, that is, a fluid? What about time? And what if the laws and formulas applicable to fluids or plasma were applied to time (space, existence)?
In order not to overwhelm the desire, he should retreat, but put in a strict framework. Watch the river, the river is desire, and its banks are your restraint.
Watching the river, you realize that desires can be false, or they can be stupid. The true desires of the river are the ocean, and the foolish desire is to dream of mountains.
Restrictions are necessary so that the river does not become a swamp. Water should flow into homes through pipes, not mindlessly gushing emotions from a well high in the mountains.
You should not greatly admire the good, you should not worry much about the bad. We live in a liquid world where entities constantly change their nature ... today is a good thing, bad tomorrow, good the day after again.
Fear (stress) generates dehydration, a source of anxiety that you definitely want to eat some pleasure. A glass of water is the perfect cure for fear, anger, or laziness.
The reason for your failures is that you are a woodpecker and seek power over the trees. In the forest, you should rule over the emptiness between the trees, not Bang your head against the wall.
The war of softness and hardness is such that the stream of water wants to throw stones and break their way through the rocks in its rush to the ocean. On the other hand, the stones want to stand dead in their place.
The essence of the experience is to adjust the order so that the water flows in the right and useful channel, without trying to turn off the path of truth. Order requires useful work, and chaos is always trying to sabotage this process.
Problems and troubles push us in the right direction. It is necessary to realize in which direction you most want to move and rush there by the least resistance.
When you let go of ideals and forms, you will feel like a stream of energy that cannot be stopped. The possibility of stopping creates fear. The realization of the impossibility of stopping and the infinite variety of options, generates infinite joy and delight.
Strong desire creates impassability. A strong desire is like a great speed. Too much speed leads to the fact that the liquid becomes solid as a stone, and creates an impassability. If you slow down, you can walk through walls.